I just

[Toastyxx]

told my mom

She used to be a dancer and was a bartender at a strip club for like 13 years so I guess it's not that big of a deal...but she was still kind of like "Who are you doing this for? How do you get paid? Are you naked?"


I told her I didn't get naked though...I figured I'd just ease this in a little bit at a time. :?
She seems all shifty but maybe she'll feel a little better about it once I get my check.


*Small relief off my chest*

 

[MonroeLee]

aww well thats good!

It was a relief for me as well when my parents and I had that convo lmao

 

[Toastyxx]

My mom and I haven't always been close but for the past few months we've been extremely open and honest with each other and I felt terrible holding back this secret for even a few days. Especially since I live with her.

 

[Bocefish]

Good for you.

 

[Toastyxx]

 

[Jebbaz]

When do you cam toasty? I wants to be your frand.

 

[Toastyxx]

During the day, specifically morning to early afternoon.

like 8 or 9 am eastern USA time

take a 30ish minute break around noon

and then I'm back until about 2:30 pm (I babysit around that time, however tomorrow I will be getting off around noon because it's a half day at school).

I'm not on very often, I know. Especially this week because of Thanksgiving. But definitely stop by and chat for a while!! We were having a dance party today, people were tipping $1 to pick a song. Jukebox style! Hehe

 

[Jebbaz]

I love hanging out with new girls, specially ones so close to my age! Follow me on twitter, and I'll do the same for you ^_^

 

[Keithy]

tomorrow I will be getting off around noon because it's a half day at school

Sounds like my high school career.

 

[Mikeythegeek]

Good for you.

Seconded.

 

[Toastyxx]

tomorrow I will be getting off around noon because it's a half day at school

Sounds like my high school career.

hehe not a half day for me, a half day for my eight year old brother whom I babysit

I love hanging out with new girls, specially ones so close to my age! Follow me on twitter, and I'll do the same for you ^_^

I don't have a Twitter account but I could make one today. I guess I'm overdue for one. You can be my first :lol:

 

[Eva_ChangeN]

maybe she is shifty about it cause she has "done the biz" before. Some people can't handle the harshness that can come into being with our kinda thing

 

[Toastyxx]

Yeah, that could be true. I think another side of it is she doesn't understand or trust the internet. She is worried that someone will find out where we live or something...but I don't think she stops to think that I COULD be dancing in a club and someone could follow me home easily

My paycheck is gonna be pretty hefty, a lot bigger than I expected when I first started. So I think after seeing that she won't be as upset haha. Also another thing is she is worried I won't actually get any money and that the site will rip me off.

 

[Jebbaz]

ahh, older people who are afraid of technology... never fails to piss me off. :roll: :lol:

 

[DivSavel]

Ooh grats! =D
It really is a huge relief to tell your parents. Even if they don't respond so well. :?
My mum still comments on how she doesn't like it and "What if you can't become a nurse because someone sees this stuff?" etc etc.

:| Heads up to every girl who gets nervous about that:
It's not legal (at least in USA) to deny someone employment because of somewhere they worked previously. Yes, someone might cheat the system and be a dick about it, but that's when you call a lawyer in. :/ Or, worst case scenario and they somehow get away with it, just shrug it off and apply to the next hospital/office/what-have-you. Don't let anyone tell you what to do with your body. :/ Everyone does naughty things. We just happen to let people view our naughty things. :lol:

 

[Toastyxx]

Everything about your post is completely true

 

[Jebbaz]

woo I see my name in TWO model's sig's now! :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

 

[AmberCutie]

woo I see my name in TWO model's sig's now! :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

Speaking of sigs.... why don't you make yours into links?!

 

[Bocefish]

My paycheck is gonna be pretty hefty, a lot bigger than I expected when I first started. So I think after seeing that she won't be as upset haha. Also another thing is she is worried I won't actually get any money and that the site will rip me off.

Maybe she will want to be a model too once she sees the $$. :lol:

 

[Mikeythegeek]

Ooh grats! =D
It really is a huge relief to tell your parents. Even if they don't respond so well. :?
My mum still comments on how she doesn't like it and "What if you can't become a nurse because someone sees this stuff?" etc etc.

:| Heads up to every girl who gets nervous about that:
It's not legal (at least in USA) to deny someone employment because of somewhere they worked previously. Yes, someone might cheat the system and be a dick about it, but that's when you call a lawyer in. :/ Or, worst case scenario and they somehow get away with it, just shrug it off and apply to the next hospital/office/what-have-you. Don't let anyone tell you what to do with your body. :/ Everyone does naughty things. We just happen to let people view our naughty things. :lol:

This. If that wasn't the case, every girl who worked in a strip club or did some sort of amateur porn vid to get through college would have no chance of getting a job after graduation.

 

[Bocefish]

The only professions that seriously frown on a job like this are teaching, political positions, and professions that work with children.

 

[Mikeythegeek]

The only professions that seriously frown on a job like this are teaching, political positions, and professions that work with children.

Yeah, in political positions, it's preferred that you do the sex stuff WHILE in office.

 

[Jebbaz]

woo I see my name in TWO model's sig's now! :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

Speaking of sigs.... why don't you make yours into links?!

3 words Amba... DONT KNOW HOW!

 

[Bocefish]

I have three letters for you:

http://www.twitter.com/Jebbaz118

 

[Jebbaz]

I think it worked that time..

 

[AmberCutie]

woo I see my name in TWO model's sig's now! :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:

Speaking of sigs.... why don't you make yours into links?!

3 words Amba... DONT KNOW HOW!

Looks like I made you learn something today. :mrgreen: