How would you feel if a big tipper went bust?

[Chamaeleon]

I get PISSED at guys who blow their whole load, (no, that's not right) wad (crap there has to be a better word) stash (shoot, still brain freezing but you get the point).

How can I effectively freeload when they are not around to pay the bills. :whistle:

 

[Vanessa Jade]

I guess the moral of this story, if there is one, would be... save as much as you can because you have no clue what tomorrow will bring.

Yup just look at washed-up popstars who lived like princes then woke up one day broke.

Worst case of this I've seen was a model who depended on ONE member to make her goals. A guy who spent enormous amounts every day...like $7k/mo. Then he got demanding and clingy...and she had to ban him...her cs halved within a week.

Yeah you have to wonder if it isn't worth putting up with demanding and clingy for 7k a month lol

It's never worth it, whether in real life or as a model, to stick out a clingy, demanding, border-line abusive interaction with someone just for the money. You get damaged after a while, doing that. And the people who start off clingy and demanding, end up scary and controlling. They use the money to control you, ESPECIALLY if they even get a hint of the idea that they might be the only one paying the bills.

:twocents-02cents:

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I didn't know you two talked like that! Awesome!
It sucks, but it happens. I don't think I've ever depended on one tipper. It's usually like 3 or 4 that help me out a lot during the night. When none of them are online or tipping, it can be scary, but I'm a really understanding person. I still enjoy having them in my room and I'm not disappointed in them, I'm just disappointed I'm not making my goal regardless of who tips.

 

[hornygods]

<.< Yeah, we speak on friendly terms quite a lot, about lots of things - from things that friends generally talk about, to other such shenanigans (Politics, Economics, and Psychology on MFC? ;D). I consider him a cool guy, he's one of the few members that I actually connect with rather well.

On topic... I really like that attitude. It's slightly disappointing for sure, but the disappointment would really be on not making the goal, rather than the tipper who can/would no longer tip. Thanks for the responses, but do keep them coming in

 

[katie_christ]

poking around on this forum is really making me think about a lot of things I hadn't before. i feel like it might be awkward to end up relying on one or two big tippers to meet your goals. i've seen a few girls gripe/whine when no one is tipping, and be pretty bitchy (like reach one goal, start - let's say - an oil show, set a new topic for a cum show, and hardcore rag on people for not tipping), then a few of their regular big tippers make up for it. one of the many reasons i want to cam (and this may sound silly, considering) is i want to rely on myself - my work - to make money. i certainly won't reduce myself to begging and whining, i find it unattractive on others... but i suppose some people enjoy it? i've certainly seen some big tips get dropped after a model nearly starts crying because no one's helping out. soo... like i said, i don't want to have to rely on one person for big tips. if a big tipper suddenly stopped tipping for whatever reason, i don't think i'd take really care. i'd still be just as nice to them if they wanted to chat (especially if they'd been paying a large chunk of my bills/adding to my savings) but conversation is conversation. and if they stopped coming around altogether - their loss?

 

[Swirl]

poking around on this forum is really making me think about a lot of things I hadn't before. i feel like it might be awkward to end up relying on one or two big tippers to meet your goals. i've seen a few girls gripe/whine when no one is tipping, and be pretty bitchy (like reach one goal, start - let's say - an oil show, set a new topic for a cum show, and hardcore rag on people for not tipping), then a few of their regular big tippers make up for it. one of the many reasons i want to cam (and this may sound silly, considering) is i want to rely on myself - my work - to make money. i certainly won't reduce myself to begging and whining, i find it unattractive on others... but i suppose some people enjoy it? i've certainly seen some big tips get dropped after a model nearly starts crying because no one's helping out. soo... like i said, i don't want to have to rely on one person for big tips. if a big tipper suddenly stopped tipping for whatever reason, i don't think i'd take really care. i'd still be just as nice to them if they wanted to chat (especially if they'd been paying a large chunk of my bills/adding to my savings) but conversation is conversation. and if they stopped coming around altogether - their loss?

I don't think anyone would actually 'enjoy' begging and whining, but some may notice over the long haul that if you don't ask for tips, you may not get as much as you are hoping for. I know this depends on a lot of factors, but sometimes dropping the occassional hint can be helpful I think, just to remind the guys that they do have a tip button....because some can forget. I have also noticed that big tippers can make the small tippers stop tipping alltogether....I mean, what is tipping 20 tokens going to do when there is some big tipper in the room dropping 500 at a time? If that 500 token guy disappears, the 20 token tippers may feel more inclined to tip? It's just what I have noticed anyway...

 

[Jupiter551]

I don't think anyone would actually 'enjoy' begging and whining, but some may notice over the long haul that if you don't ask for tips, you may not get as much as you are hoping for. I know this depends on a lot of factors, but sometimes dropping the occassional hint can be helpful I think, just to remind the guys that they do have a tip button....because some can forget. I have also noticed that big tippers can make the small tippers stop tipping alltogether....I mean, what is tipping 20 tokens going to do when there is some big tipper in the room dropping 500 at a time? If that 500 token guy disappears, the 20 token tippers may feel more inclined to tip? It's just what I have noticed anyway...

Perhaps rather than asking for tokens, a better tactic is to focus on something that costs tokens (spinning a prize wheel, removing shirt, whatever).

"Cmon guys tip me" is begging, "Who wants to spin my prize wheel for a chance to win a hot video?!" is customer service.

 

[Anonymous]

"Cmon guys tip me" is begging, "Who wants to spin my prize wheel for a chance to win a hot video?!" is customer service.

Yeah, that sounds way better than "C'mon, guys...TIP ME!!!"

"Who wants to have a pair of bouncing tittays in their face?" (for topless goal) sounds cool too.

 

[ComicOzzie]

Also, if members are begging for stuff without tipping, it is entirely cool to let them know that requests should be included in a tip note.