Hi everyone!
I am a newer cam model, July will be my third month. I find i sometimes run into a situation and i never know how to handle it without my anxiety spiking.
What do you do when a premium member is trying to instruct you through a show?
I have had a couple members pm me that try to instruct me move by move how to perform my show. They will do 2 or 3 small tip walls of about 5-10 1 token tips saying they are trying to get the room going, but then in chat keep telling me to take of my clothes when i havent hit my countdown. One specific member would than take credit for another person tipping even though they are a regular of mine and this guy had nothing to do with my reg tipping.
It just seems like there are some members that feel if they do a couple small walls they can run my show and than take credit for certain things that had nothing to do with them in the first place. I explained to them that its my show and that i am not doing everything they say because it is not their show. I enjoy interacting with people in my room, not silently stripping for someone that tips a little wall every so often. The specific members doing this than tell me to lower my countdowns and what not. I even had the same member tell me because a tip color was different that it wasnt real, but it was an mfc share tip not in room and it came in fine on my end.
I will usually try to say i know what im doing and its my show, but than some get mad at me in pm or public chat, others will just make an excuse and leave.
Long story short i guess, how do i deal with these types of clients that are demanding things faster than they are earned? I want to try to be polite and all, but its my show and when there are people like this that try to run my show, it makes me feel like im not doing a good enough job and i become discouraged. I dont feel like it helps me at all but it keeps happening and im running out of ideas on how to handle it.
I am a newer cam model, July will be my third month. I find i sometimes run into a situation and i never know how to handle it without my anxiety spiking.
What do you do when a premium member is trying to instruct you through a show?
I have had a couple members pm me that try to instruct me move by move how to perform my show. They will do 2 or 3 small tip walls of about 5-10 1 token tips saying they are trying to get the room going, but then in chat keep telling me to take of my clothes when i havent hit my countdown. One specific member would than take credit for another person tipping even though they are a regular of mine and this guy had nothing to do with my reg tipping.
It just seems like there are some members that feel if they do a couple small walls they can run my show and than take credit for certain things that had nothing to do with them in the first place. I explained to them that its my show and that i am not doing everything they say because it is not their show. I enjoy interacting with people in my room, not silently stripping for someone that tips a little wall every so often. The specific members doing this than tell me to lower my countdowns and what not. I even had the same member tell me because a tip color was different that it wasnt real, but it was an mfc share tip not in room and it came in fine on my end.
I will usually try to say i know what im doing and its my show, but than some get mad at me in pm or public chat, others will just make an excuse and leave.
Long story short i guess, how do i deal with these types of clients that are demanding things faster than they are earned? I want to try to be polite and all, but its my show and when there are people like this that try to run my show, it makes me feel like im not doing a good enough job and i become discouraged. I dont feel like it helps me at all but it keeps happening and im running out of ideas on how to handle it.
