isn't that the very definition of scamming? ban the guy to avoid doing xyz, or bringing up some half truth as reason to ban the guy?
If it's impossible to communicate, and I'm out of pocket tokens/cash, and without what I requested, that's a problem.
I think you're misunderstanding the phrase "out of pocket".
a person acting unnaturally or in a wild, inappropriate way
Not out of tokens in this context lol
What Amber said, haha!
But to answer your questions:
If someone is out of tokens and they didn’t or haven’t tipped, then no communication from the model is owed and they can ban at their own discretion with or without a reason for it. That’s not scamming.
If someone tips for a certain act or service that was agreed upon (whether through communication or because it was a tip menu item) and bans right afterwards, depending on the circumstance, it could be scamming. Like, if she agreed to do something and had absolutely no intention on delivering and planned to ban right after getting tipped, that’s not cool. If the member tips and along with the tip says something out of pocket (i.e crazy, wild, inappropriate) that really bothers the model, I don’t think it’s scamming if the member gets banned. It’d be like buying a movie ticket and then as soon as you enter the theatre you start yelling at the concession stand employee. You’ll be kicked out, and your ticket won’t be refunded.
When I brought up mental health, it was in reference to members who are always getting “scammed” or more specifically, love conned. Sorry not sorry, but I think if someone is lonely/vulnerable enough to where they go on cam sites and fall for the “I love you bb, plz send me thousands for x, y and z so we can be together”, especially when they intentionally go on cam sites to try dating models, they need counseling. That’s not a dig or an insult. The majority of mentally healthy people will not fall for that and they use adult sites for their intended purpose, sexy entertainment. I’m not condoning love scams, but people also need to take responsibility for their own actions and the best way to do that is to go to therapy to find the root cause of what caused that behavior.
The only thing that annoys me is the "Oh I'm so shy, however if you send me 10,000 tokens I'll DP for you in private" act.
1) You're clearly not shy
2) 10,000 tokens... :O
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this. There’s certain acts that most models don’t like doing, but for the right amount they’ll do it. For example, I don’t like doing penetration/dildo riding. However, I’m open to it for the right price. I have a guy who gets the occasional exclusive custom from me, and for one of them he wanted a long dildo riding scene. I charged him a couple hundred on top of my exclusive custom prices and in the end, I made about $1k from that custom. He was happy with it and came back and got another custom from me. Why? Because he knows that’s not something I usually do and so his custom was special.
Also, 10k tokens (so $500 for the model) isn’t really too abnormal for a DP show. DP in general is rough on your body. A lot of models don’t even like doing anal or offer it. I’m sure for most models, they’re going to be pretty spent after a DP show (especially if it was a longer private/public show) and won’t want to cam anymore for the day after that. So, she has to make sure that the she makes enough from that show to cover the loss of income from not being able to cam/do penetration shows for the rest of the day.
Maybe I'll start a podcast bringing broadcaster and viewers together to resolve 'scams'.
I’d legit start a Dear Abby type show where members and models can send in stories and ask for advice. I mean, I’ve already been writing novels of advice in threads like that for years anyway, haha.