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Personally, I've never tipped to be on a friends list but I don't resent models charging for it - if someone will pay to annoy you until you have to cut them off, go for it :-D

As already noted above by several people, "mfc friend" is even less like a real-world friend than even a facebook friend - they might all be your friends on some level or other, but how many of them would let you sleep on their couch for a week or two when you need a bed? I've gotten to know a lot of models and members on here and I'm friendly with most of them and I do feel closer to some than to others, but considering the fact we're interacting at their work (or in their perving time for members), it's quite a stretch to say many of them are actual friends.(Not to say that we aren't or might not be one day, just that friendships have to develop naturally over time. I am quite fond of a lot of people both from here and mfc, but netfriends tend to come and go,moreso than real-world ones).

And on the slightly OT topic, I mostly use pm 's with models who I'm friendly with to keep personal conversations out of main chat -eg, if their daughter was away and I want to ask how they're feeling or somesuch without letting the whole room know.

Also for occasional "helpful" tips - either tech troubles like bad sound or cam etc or just in case they care about a typo in their topic (hence the quotes around "helpful" :p ).

It's just shit terminology that helps build the MFC's sense of "community", but it's hard to think of a good alternative word; acquaintances is rather cold and formal, marks/suckers might be appropriate for some but is still a bit harsh.

Fans maybe? Anybody got something that fits better than friend?
 
They need a setting so models can ignore a person's pms without letting them know they're ignored, for the serial "mmmmm"ers :lol:
 
Jupiter551 said:
They need a setting so models can ignore a person's pms without letting them know they're ignored, for the serial "mmmmm"ers :lol:

The only way you can tell you are on someone's ignore list is the fact if you offline tip them the tip note does not show up in your sentbox and any MFC mail sent to them just disappears. So if they only PM and never tip or speak in public chat they never would know.
 
I've never asked for tokens for PM's, or for a guy to add me. it's just whatever for me..
I read every PM as soon as i can and I respond to 90% of them unless it's super busy in my room..
though most of the PM's I get, is stuff they could ask/say in public..sometimes it becomes a bit too much.
My attention span is horrible..not to mention I suck at multi tasking.
If I'm doing 2 or more things at once my face is like this: :confused4:
 
Pointless PMs could be reduced by a 'slow mode', just set it to restrict the frequency of PMs to whatever is set by the user in Personal options for friends and non-friends.

Let people set up their own lists, they can label them as they wish and categorise them as friends/non-friends.

Ideally those lists would also be 'Show:' options in lounge/member rooms. [Regions should be 'Show:' options too, not just filters.]
 
The one thing I never understood is guys pming during their own private show. Seriously... the main window is completely private, not even spies can see that.

The other thing is guys who pm me while I'm in a private show, trying to direct what I do during the private show. Really? You're paying to SPY on someone else's private, why the hell would it even cross your mind that I might do what you're saying? (I don't even read these messages, but they piss me off when I get back from the private to find them... probably cause the one guy called me a bitch when nothing I did was what he was saying.)
 
LadyLuna said:
The other thing is guys who pm me while I'm in a private show, trying to direct what I do during the private show. Really? You're paying to SPY on someone else's private, why the hell would it even cross your mind that I might do what you're saying? (I don't even read these messages, but they piss me off when I get back from the private to find them... probably cause the one guy called me a bitch when nothing I did was what he was saying.)

lol holy shit my mind will never cease to boggle at some of the selfish, idiotic crap guys do on mfc!! :lol:
 
LadyLuna said:
The one thing I never understood is guys pming during their own private show. Seriously... the main window is completely private, not even spies can see that.

I hate that too. I don't open my PM window when I'm doing a private, so if they're not typing in the main window, I assume they just don't want to talk. I've had guys get pissed off at me before for not following their directions because I wasn't reading my PMs during our private. :woops: Dude, if you want to type in the PM window, whatever, but let me know so I can keep that window open.
 
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MadisonLeigh said:
LadyLuna said:
The one thing I never understood is guys pming during their own private show. Seriously... the main window is completely private, not even spies can see that.

I hate that too. I don't open my PM window when I'm doing a private, so if they're not typing in the main window, I assume they just don't want to talk. I've had guys get pissed off at me before for not following their directions because I wasn't reading my PMs during our private. :woops: Dude, if you want to type in the PM window, whatever, but let me know so I can keep that window open.
Ha! I remember one time, I entered a private while I was already PMing and left the PM window as my view and talk window. At the time, it hadn't entered my mind that it might be annoying to the model, but later I realized how dumb that was.
 
LadyLuna said:
The other thing is guys who pm me while I'm in a private show, trying to direct what I do during the private show.

I have actually seen people so dumb that they type instructions to the model in her public room while spying on her private.
 
ComicOzzie said:
LadyLuna said:
The other thing is guys who pm me while I'm in a private show, trying to direct what I do during the private show.

I have actually seen people so dumb that they type instructions to the model in her public room while spying on her private.

I see this almost every time I stay in a model's room while she's in private..
 
Ahahahahahahaha! I had a tip with a flash request in the note while I was in private last night!
Seriously dude... seriously?
My private goer and I were just chatting a bit after the crazy cum fest and I told him about it. Was pretty funny. Like he really couldn't find another girl to flash for 40 tokens who wasn't in private?
 
Jupiter551 said:
ComicOzzie said:
LadyLuna said:
The other thing is guys who pm me while I'm in a private show, trying to direct what I do during the private show.

I have actually seen people so dumb that they type instructions to the model in her public room while spying on her private.

I see this almost every time I stay in a model's room while she's in private..

What's also funny is when guys are spying and they think they're the ones having the private and that the model is ignoring them and working another site at the same time.
 
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