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Hey, my name is Kristy and I am Romanian.. :hello2:

I have heard so many stories about foreign models and Romanian in particular that at some point I started to feel ashamed of my origins.. :snooty:

What is with all this.. You can't really generalize and put us all in the same category. I know some girls are weird and too demanding maybe and do crazy stuff and all but please, really now? I am so mad whenever I get asked where I am from and in the next second everyone has disappeared from my room.

I think it's just wrong and it's not at all ok to judge a person by just her origin.
And.. it might do a world of good to every member if they could just read the damn profile so they don't waste 'precious' time by coming in the room, asking and then leaving..

 
I think it's a case of a very small minority of Romanian models being "bad" models (leading members on, trying to scam them, lying to them, etc. Quite possibly at the request of their studio) that's kind of ruined things for all the other Romanian models who are just looking to earn an honest day's pay for an honest day's work. Unfortunately, it doesn't take long for word to spread and for people to make up their minds without bothering to actually examine the facts.
 
I agree I wish people would stop making speculations about Romanians as well as other areas. It's so rude to think that every camgirl from a certain country must be a certain way. I went to Europe a few months ago, and cammed there only to have several of my guys say "I don't understand. I see you online, but you aren't on the homepage!" I asked if they had Europe blocked. Sure even they did, and I lectured them on it. There are tons of awesome girls all around, and they shouldn't be so quickly to judge.

****End of rant****​
 
I have (sadly) been cruising sites like this for 10ish years. My absolute favorite model of all time is Romanian and we have known eachother for about 10 years.

We have become pretty good friends over the years. (as close of friends can be who have never met eachother).

We talk on the phone occasionally, email all the time, I visit her room often. She tells me all about guys she's seeing, I tell her about girls I'm seeing. We share pictures of our friends/family/SO's etc etc.

I personally have never been an attempted scam victim of a Romanian model. I don't think ill of any model just because she's Romanian either.

I work in a casino in Vegas and where I work is full of Romanians. They are some of the craziest people I party with.

I think a very very small percentage of Romanian girls scammed a very very very small percentage of members, and those members became VERY vocal about it and created a horrific reputation that stuck. It sucks for all the honest ladies out there, but there's really not much you can do about it unfortunately. Just win over the members that visit you.
 
PunkInDrublic said:
The only generalizing of Romanian women that I do is that they are all hot. When I see dudes saying they only watch a certain area, I laugh. Thats like a stoner going to amsterdam and only trying one type of erb.


hahah very nicely put..

I think I have stumbled upon people who like Romanian girls..
I wish I cuold see more comments coming from those who 'hate' us and consider us whores and bitches lol ( that always makes me laugh.. I once entered a room and one of the guys there was going on and on about how we are soo demanding and pushy and whores.. oh well, you get the point.. i will stop rambling now:D)
 
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SummerSnow69 said:
However,camgirls that are scamming members are from other countries too and you don't see them blocking America.


Yes, that is true.. Only ones we hear about are the Romanian. I am sure there must have been a few who really pissed off a few guys and they made sure everyone knew about it.. and all the drama goes from there.. it's a shame really.
 
I agree, there is a particularly bad stigma about Romanian girls. I don't think it's just to do with scamming though.

I'm going to just list the reasons I think it is/have heard members talking about.

1. Romanian girls, obviously not being native english speakers often don't speak very much english, or don't speak it fluently. To a stupid person they seem to assume the model is stupid, obviously they're idiots who don't seem to understand that the woman is speaking another language much better than I personally can speak another language.
This sometimes puts members off as it's just harder to have a friendship with a girl when there's a translation problem.

2. Romanian cam models are very hot. With the not always being great english speakers there are many members who don't like the idea of it because they get the idea into their head that it's all looks and no personality. Again a dumb speculation.
I do have a theory on Romanian camgirls being super hot. Say in the Uk I know a lot of really really hot girls, several who are prettier than any cam model I've seen. They don't cam though, reason being, there's plenty of opportunities and jobs around that pay pretty decent wage.
I'm not entirely sure about the wage in Romania but several years ago when my friend went back to hungary for the summer she worked. She was on under a pound an hour, which is 6 times less what she'd be paid in the Uk. I imagine camming would be a much more tempting prospect if you consider how much more a token would be worth in a country that's cheaper to live in and wages are that much worse. And if there are also less opportunities if you're a good looking girl getting into camming sounds like a really good idea.
Maybe Romania simply is just full of much hotter girls than other countries, but I have a feeling it's because we see more of the sexiest girls on places like Mfc.

3. Obviously there's the whole poor studio idea, girls doing very little interacting and putting very large toys inside them. You can't blame guys for this too much as I've seen it a lot on myfreecams. There are a really large amount of girls from Romania, much more than there are from the Uk or even the US. If you see a lot of girls doing this it is easy to assume that all girls are like this. It is very unfair to the girls who aren't though.

4. I think the kind of guys who like going to Romanian girls puts off other guys. These are the kind of guys who believe in all the stigma against the girls but seek out those kind of things. The kind of stuff I've heard members talk about in rooms when the model has gone private or after they've gone offline is pretty shocking. There are a lot of decent guys who even if they like a model just can't handle that kind of thing so avoid the girls as well.

5. There's also the obvious one, that members feel like they have less of a chance. I know a lot of members who visit me block everyone except Uk girls most of the time. It's not necessarily that they think they'll get anywhere. It's more that they're talking to someone who they could potentially have a chance with. I've got a lot of foreign friends so it isn't unlikely for me to end up dating someone european, but there are a lot of people who rarely meet or socialise with anyone outside their own nationality. To them it's less believable hanging out with a girl who's from such a different world. They'd automatically feel they have nothing in common with her.
My advice on this one is to learn as much as you can about American and English culture and talk about it. Not as in out of a textbook, but just read the news, show that you have local things to chat about.

6. Kind of going off number 5 it's cultural difference. Remember that some people will love the differences and will enjoy chatting with you for those reasons, but others will want something closer to home. Cultural differences are a big deal. Whether it's a camgirl you're chatting to or someone you're dating. Some enjoy getting some new culture, some would rather meeting someone who was brought up in a similar way to them. It can make them feel closer to the model.

I do think there is a certain element to it being Romanian girls scamming, but honestly I don't think that's the main reason. Most people know that happens very rarely.
More than scamming Romanian girls are known for being a lot nicer to members and for offering a more girlfriend experience type of thing. Some men will understand this is fantasy, but there are many who will believe every word of it and think they're in love. I wouldn't really say this is scamming, I think again it is a cultural difference of women's approach to men.
There are some guys who love camgirls being blunt and very honest and there are some guys who'd rather things be sugarcoated and that their penis's and egos get stroked and cared for. Neither desire is right nor wrong, just very different.

Anyway I'm sorry that things are this way. I hate the assumptions people make and that they treat camgirls differently because of where they come from. But, remember that a lot of the models who are always in the top 20/top 100 are from Romania, there are loads of very successful girls from your area. My suggestion is to play on everything being a Romanian cam model means, which means loads of good things, and show members openly that you are none of the bad things and that they can have things in common with you and talk to you the same as with a girl from their own country. Ignore the guys who leave straight away, chances are they weren't going to be tippers anyway. If they don't like you just because of that then best they fuck off. Focus on the guys who do stay.
 
I have only been viewing cams for less than 2 years now so I don't know the whole history of the Romanian model thing. I am a regular in the rooms of a couple of Romanian models and aside from the unique personality of each model, I don't see it as a different experience than in the room of a model from anywhere else. What I have seen, a number of times, is a member entering the room, of the Romanian model, and talking to her as if she commutes on a Donkey and was raised under a sheet of corrugated tin. As if on cue the model morphs into a "Yes my life is so sad. I only dream that one day someone will save me" type of model. Its hard to blame a model that has had her home, her culture and her self worth dismissed, for getting insulted, pissed and wanting to exact some revenge on the member by playing him for the fool. I don't know, but I suspect that most of the scam stories are told those members. I would guess that every model from every country has a story to tell about a member treating her the same way. I don't know why it seems more common in the Romanian rooms.
 
I thought the reasons a percentage of members dislike Romanian models was because of the language barrier. I know I prefer rooms where there's a lot of conversation going on, which is hard if you're not totally fluent. However, today I went into the room of a pretty high camscore model, and she was speaking Japanese. I asked if she could speak English, she said yes, and then went straight back to speaking Japanese.

Then again, Asians and the Japanese in particular are highly fetishized, Romanians aren't. Also, a lot of her members were actually speaking Japanese back at her, so maybe the language barrier isn't much of an issue there. :think:
 
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There seems to be a stigma about Colombian girls as well. I was perving on SM and a member asked this model who is always in the top row if she did ATM. She told them to ask some of the Colombian girls to do it and almost made it out like they'll do anything for money.
 
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@ Isabella_deL

You have made some really good points.. In the back of my mind I was aware of some of them, such as the language barrier and the stuffing of objects as well as the lover/friend issues..

And yes, you are right about the studios, we can't really interact too much due to the fact that the rooms weren't built in such manner to allow us. It's just a double bed and a desk in from of it.. some rooms don't even have space enough to walk freely around the bed (sad I know)
That and adding the poor English, girls mostly do shows only and avoid the conversation and interaction part.

I know I am pretty good in English and could manage easily a room full of people, but I never actually had the opportunity to because I never gather round more than 5 members in my room at the same time.. So I have resorted to privates only, I have tried to do public shows but I really don't feel comfortable with 3 people in my room, and those being guests hahaha

Enough of that, I am aware that there are successful girls from my area. And I am very happy for them because they have proved to be nothing of the debased character promoted around.
 
NataliaGrey said:
I thought the reasons a percentage of members dislike Romanian models was because of the language barrier. I know I prefer rooms where there's a lot of conversation going on, which is hard if you're not totally fluent. However, today I went into the room of a pretty high camscore model, and she was speaking Japanese. I asked if she could speak English, she said yes, and then went straight back to speaking Japanese.

Then again, Asians and the Japanese in particular are highly fetishized, Romanians aren't. Also, a lot of her members were actually speaking Japanese back at her, so maybe the language barrier isn't much of an issue there. :think:

the members that give language as an reason to bash/block/avoid Romanian models are merely reaching for an excuse to say something bad, when the truth is, a very large percentage of the Romanians models (in my experience anyway, I've watched my fair share) have a very firm command of the English language.
 
I think the primary reason Romania is picked on is that the actual number of cam models from Romania outnumber models from other European countries by a huge margin. I assume that Romania being one of the poorest countries economically (currently) may explain that, and as Romania catches up, things will even out.
 
I think there are some generalizations going on about members too.

I don't have a bad opinion of Romanian models, or models from most countries (I did find it very creepy when camsites all seemed to be full of Filipino models who looked like they were being held hostage, but now that camming is illegal in the Philippines, it's a moot point). I generally don't visit many models from non-English speaking countries precisely because they tend not to be fluent, and conversation is really a major selling point for me. Sure, there are great models from non-English-speaking countries who speak fluent English, but there is only so much time and thousands of models to sift through. It's easier for me to focus on models from English-speaking countries.

I don't know why that makes me a bad person. If I like blondes, am I evil for only wanting to visit blonde models? Yes, there are members (and models) who speak poorly of Romanian models, which is not a nice thing to do. But that doesn't mean anyone who chooses not to visit models from non-English speaking countries is stupid, or a bigot, or whatever else has been thrown around in here.

If you don't like generalizations being made about you, don't make them about other people...
 
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I think there are some generalizations going on about members too.

I don't have a bad opinion of Romanian models, or models from most countries (I did find it very creepy when camsites all seemed to be full of Filipino models who looked like they were being held hostage, but now that camming is illegal in the Philippines, it's a moot point). I generally don't visit many models from non-English speaking countries precisely because they tend not to be fluent, and conversation is really a major selling point for me. Sure, there are great models from non-English-speaking countries who speak fluent English, but there is only so much time and thousands of models to sift through. It's easier for me to focus on models from English-speaking countries.

I don't know why that makes me a bad person. If I like blondes, am I evil for only wanting to visit blonde models? Yes, there are members (and models) who speak poorly of Romanian models, which is not a nice thing to do. But that doesn't mean anyone who chooses not to visit models from non-English speaking countries is stupid, or a bigot, or whatever else has been thrown around in here.

If you don't like generalizations being made about you, don't make them about other people...
I don't think anyone is generalizing about members, just that SOME members are bigots. And no, having preferences does not make one a bigot.

Shallow maybe. :lol: (just kidding! I realize that part of human diversity is that some of us love diversity in people we hang out with and some of us, to varying degrees, like to hang with similar people. That's not evil, just another facet of diversity.)
 
Nordling said:
I don't think anyone is generalizing about members, just that SOME members are bigots. And no, having preferences does not make one a bigot.

Glad to know this because I adore Romanian girls.
;)


Russian, Ukrainian, and Polish girls too. Actually I love any beautiful girl but I do have a preferential look that is often found in the ones I mentioned. Since I finally found out that my ancestors are from Poland, Hungry, Prussia, Russia, and Austria it made more sense and I just figured it was in my DNA or something like that. Basically I really like a lot of the Eastern European girls that I have seen on MFC. So many of them are just stunning! And the accent is to die for.
:-D
 
For the record, I love foreign models, Romanian in particular. It's actually a taste for a certain type of women that I'd developed long ago, outside of camland, and it's something I can't and don't want to shake. I'd say that nine times out of ten, when I'm browsing around and I come across a model that I just have to stop and check out, she's from Romania.


Isabella_deL said:
I agree, there is a particularly bad stigma about Romanian girls. I don't think it's just to do with scamming though.

I'm going to just list the reasons I think it is/have heard members talking about.

1. Romanian girls, obviously not being native english speakers often don't speak very much english, or don't speak it fluently. To a stupid person they seem to assume the model is stupid, obviously they're idiots who don't seem to understand that the woman is speaking another language much better than I personally can speak another language.
This sometimes puts members off as it's just harder to have a friendship with a girl when there's a translation problem.

2. Romanian cam models are very hot. With the not always being great english speakers there are many members who don't like the idea of it because they get the idea into their head that it's all looks and no personality. Again a dumb speculation.
I do have a theory on Romanian camgirls being super hot. Say in the Uk I know a lot of really really hot girls, several who are prettier than any cam model I've seen. They don't cam though, reason being, there's plenty of opportunities and jobs around that pay pretty decent wage.
I'm not entirely sure about the wage in Romania but several years ago when my friend went back to hungary for the summer she worked. She was on under a pound an hour, which is 6 times less what she'd be paid in the Uk. I imagine camming would be a much more tempting prospect if you consider how much more a token would be worth in a country that's cheaper to live in and wages are that much worse. And if there are also less opportunities if you're a good looking girl getting into camming sounds like a really good idea.
Maybe Romania simply is just full of much hotter girls than other countries, but I have a feeling it's because we see more of the sexiest girls on places like Mfc.

3. Obviously there's the whole poor studio idea, girls doing very little interacting and putting very large toys inside them. You can't blame guys for this too much as I've seen it a lot on myfreecams. There are a really large amount of girls from Romania, much more than there are from the Uk or even the US. If you see a lot of girls doing this it is easy to assume that all girls are like this. It is very unfair to the girls who aren't though.

4. I think the kind of guys who like going to Romanian girls puts off other guys. These are the kind of guys who believe in all the stigma against the girls but seek out those kind of things. The kind of stuff I've heard members talk about in rooms when the model has gone private or after they've gone offline is pretty shocking. There are a lot of decent guys who even if they like a model just can't handle that kind of thing so avoid the girls as well.

5. There's also the obvious one, that members feel like they have less of a chance. I know a lot of members who visit me block everyone except Uk girls most of the time. It's not necessarily that they think they'll get anywhere. It's more that they're talking to someone who they could potentially have a chance with. I've got a lot of foreign friends so it isn't unlikely for me to end up dating someone european, but there are a lot of people who rarely meet or socialise with anyone outside their own nationality. To them it's less believable hanging out with a girl who's from such a different world. They'd automatically feel they have nothing in common with her.
My advice on this one is to learn as much as you can about American and English culture and talk about it. Not as in out of a textbook, but just read the news, show that you have local things to chat about.

6. Kind of going off number 5 it's cultural difference. Remember that some people will love the differences and will enjoy chatting with you for those reasons, but others will want something closer to home. Cultural differences are a big deal. Whether it's a camgirl you're chatting to or someone you're dating. Some enjoy getting some new culture, some would rather meeting someone who was brought up in a similar way to them. It can make them feel closer to the model.

I do think there is a certain element to it being Romanian girls scamming, but honestly I don't think that's the main reason. Most people know that happens very rarely.
More than scamming Romanian girls are known for being a lot nicer to members and for offering a more girlfriend experience type of thing. Some men will understand this is fantasy, but there are many who will believe every word of it and think they're in love. I wouldn't really say this is scamming, I think again it is a cultural difference of women's approach to men.
There are some guys who love camgirls being blunt and very honest and there are some guys who'd rather things be sugarcoated and that their penis's and egos get stroked and cared for. Neither desire is right nor wrong, just very different.

Anyway I'm sorry that things are this way. I hate the assumptions people make and that they treat camgirls differently because of where they come from. But, remember that a lot of the models who are always in the top 20/top 100 are from Romania, there are loads of very successful girls from your area. My suggestion is to play on everything being a Romanian cam model means, which means loads of good things, and show members openly that you are none of the bad things and that they can have things in common with you and talk to you the same as with a girl from their own country. Ignore the guys who leave straight away, chances are they weren't going to be tippers anyway. If they don't like you just because of that then best they fuck off. Focus on the guys who do stay.

I don't know about all that. If men are turned off by incredibly hot naked women with sexy accents being nice to them, then there's something misfiring in their brains. I do spend far more time in the rooms of Romanian models than anywhere else, and I have to say that what I see is not what you're generally describing. What I see is a standard setup wherein Romanian models, who are usually working through a studio, tend to have to split their attention among multiple simulcasts through several sites at a time. All the friendliness and beauty in the world isn't going to keep guys in the room if her attention is focused elsewhere. It can be a real mood killer to not know whether a model is responding to you or a guy on a completely different site, or not getting a response at all because the model is focused on a different room, or being in a conversation, only to have it abruptly halted with a random "Away" as she goes private somewhere else on the internet. This sort of thing happens all the time, and I can say that it's a lot more jarring to horny dudes than poor English or perceived cultural differences.

What happens then is that the model's camscore and popularity is decimated, and her room counts are tiny but populated by a small but dedicated group of regulars who like her very much, and don't mind putting up with the quirks of her juggling several chats at a time, because it means that they get to have her nearly all to themselves. From the outside, though, it looks bad. The camscores and the low room counts and the odd behavior are taken to mean that either she's a strange, clueless foreigner, or that she's a scammer and probably in league with the mob. So, the stereotypes abound, and the cycle continues.
 
zippypinhead said:
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What I see is a standard setup wherein Romanian models, who are usually working through a studio, tend to have to split their attention among multiple simulcasts through several sites at a time ...
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What happens then is that the model's camscore and popularity is decimated, and her room counts are tiny but populated by a small but dedicated group of regulars who like her very much, and don't mind putting up with the quirks of her juggling several chats at a time
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This is imho the best description about what happens at the 'Romanian' pages 3-4 on MFC.

I'm a regular in some of those rooms, sometimes a pvt in skype, most of the time just chatting in pm/skype with the model, and if a model has no time for that, then that's a good thing, because it means she has business somewhere.

I have much respect for the popular MFC models here, Amber, JJ, Lily, etc, they have build a good business, very professional. However it's not my thing, I want more 1-on-1 interaction, I find that with the Romanian models.
 
zippypinhead said:
I don't know about all that. If men are turned off by incredibly hot naked women with sexy accents being nice to them, then there's something misfiring in their brains. I do spend far more time in the rooms of Romanian models than anywhere else, and I have to say that what I see is not what you're generally describing. What I see is a standard setup wherein Romanian models, who are usually working through a studio, tend to have to split their attention among multiple simulcasts through several sites at a time. All the friendliness and beauty in the world isn't going to keep guys in the room if her attention is focused elsewhere. It can be a real mood killer to not know whether a model is responding to you or a guy on a completely different site, or not getting a response at all because the model is focused on a different room, or being in a conversation, only to have it abruptly halted with a random "Away" as she goes private somewhere else on the internet. This sort of thing happens all the time, and I can say that it's a lot more jarring to horny dudes than poor English or perceived cultural differences.
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Ohhh so right about that.. The moment I click away everyone is PUFF out of my room... some come back it's true but many are annoyed at the fact we keep coming and going and in the end give up.

And.. men are not turned off by hot naked women with sexy accent, quite the contrary.. But she made a point and she is right about it.. there are so many the guys who stop or randomly com to my room just because of the fact that I am so far away and they wished I was closer so we could at least grab a coffee together.. In the back of their mind things are pretty clear and they are aware that it's never going to happen but somehow they keep dreaming and wishing they could the meet that girl someday..
 
Nordling said:
I think the primary reason Romania is picked on is that the actual number of cam models from Romania outnumber models from other European countries by a huge margin. I assume that Romania being one of the poorest countries economically (currently) may explain that, and as Romania catches up, things will even out.


Yes, we are a great deal of models out there.. It's not one of the poorest country at the moment but we're not great.. Even so,( I don't mean to complain of anything, we do get payed very poorly on a regular job) there are jobs out there and there are many who make it without even thinking of camming.

Many of us started doing this in the desire of getting some quick money to help us achieve something in or lives. For example, I am still in Uni, studying and trying to make a future for myself.. I will not still be camming at 40 haha
The flow of money then start coming, even if it's slightly more that what she normally had per month, it makes her happy and eager to get more.. Maybe get an apartment, a car, set up a business for the future or something. I have been an admin in the studio I now work in, and 90% of the girls wanting to cam said they needed quick money for debt and payments. After a while, it becomes a normal thing, it's helped them achieve something and they stick with it. I know girls who are doing this for more than 7 years.

All this said.. even if we are a poor country, it shouldn't be a reason why we are not liked, and well, we have chosen to do this and you are there to see and talk to us hahah.. What would all of you guys be doing on these sites if it weren't for all of us beautiful girls to hang out with? :icon-lol:
 
Playful_Eyes said:
Nordling said:
I think the primary reason Romania is picked on is that the actual number of cam models from Romania outnumber models from other European countries by a huge margin. I assume that Romania being one of the poorest countries economically (currently) may explain that, and as Romania catches up, things will even out.


Yes, we are a great deal of models out there.. It's not one of the poorest country at the moment but we're not great.. Even so,( I don't mean to complain of anything, we do get payed very poorly on a regular job) there are jobs out there and there are many who make it without even thinking of camming.

Many of us started doing this in the desire of getting some quick money to help us achieve something in or lives. For example, I am still in Uni, studying and trying to make a future for myself.. I will not still be camming at 40 haha
The flow of money then start coming, even if it's slightly more that what she normally had per month, it makes her happy and eager to get more.. Maybe get an apartment, a car, set up a business for the future or something. I have been an admin in the studio I now work in, and 90% of the girls wanting to cam said they needed quick money for debt and payments. After a while, it becomes a normal thing, it's helped them achieve something and they stick with it. I know girls who are doing this for more than 7 years.

All this said.. even if we are a poor country, it shouldn't be a reason why we are not liked, and well, we have chosen to do this and you are there to see and talk to us hahah.. What would all of you guys be doing on these sites if it weren't for all of us beautiful girls to hang out with? :icon-lol:

Totally in agreement. I find Romania fascinating. A rich history and a varied culture. Romanians I've met offline (when I was in retail) showed them to be a very diverse people. One old man said he and his family had no friends because they didn't need friends, that family is all that counted...lol...then he went on about how he would throw his daughter out of his house if she every disobeyed him. Grouchy old men the world over. lol

A couple I met were wonderful. The husband was quiet at first, but the wife chattered with me for ten minutes. I asked them if they ever went back to Romania to visit... The husband then came forward and said, "never, very bad there." (this was like 15 years ago) I said, "but isn't Causescu gone?" He then looked me in the eye and said, "he was just one...'they' still run things. Old Romanian saying, 'if you kill the dog, you must also kill the pups.'" lol Pretty harsh but they really were nice people. :)
 
zippypinhead said:
I don't know about all that. If men are turned off by incredibly hot naked women with sexy accents being nice to them, then there's something misfiring in their brains.

It's not that they're turned off by hot naked women being nice to them, it's that they're turned off by the idea that a woman isn't being real. It's like some people you know aren't nice to everyone, but when they're nice to you it feels like they really care about you, it feels more real. It also can make you feel even more special.
If someone is really lovely to you from the start to some people they'll love it, it's exactly what they want, but some people don't like it, they feel like the girl is just saying it, that she doesn't mean any of it.

Some men also like girls to be quite fiesty. Some men like girls to even be a little bitchy (which is why people shouldn't judge models who appear bitchy yet are earning so much, some men actually like that). Although there are plenty of Romanian girls who are these things too, a lot of the girls are known to be more likely to appease to members and take a less dominant role.
It depends on your tastes and what you want. It's the same as the accent thing, some people love certain accents, some hate them. What your tastes are really doesn't matter, I mean essentially none of it is that real, it's all about how a model makes you personally feel.

I don't think it's your place to say that members who don't share your tastes have something misfiring in their brains, just as it's not another persons place to say you have something misfiring in your brain because of your tastes.
 
I worked for a studio as well in Romania, having 5-6 sites opened at once it was really hard to focus; so my camscore on MFC was really low. After few months of studio and after I learned how things are working I started to do it from home. First one night on MFC and one night on Jasmin but, now I only logg in on MFC.
What I don't like and it happened to me... one night a guy PMed me asking for a Skype show; I said the "price" and his answer was "But I know another Romanian girl that is asking for less, you romanians are suppose to be more cheap". I dunno where this idea came from but I was really pissed off.
 
Isabella_deL said:
I don't think it's your place to say that members who don't share your tastes have something misfiring in their brains, just as it's not another persons place to say you have something misfiring in your brain because of your tastes.

That was a deliberate overstatement, made for dramatic effect, in order to point out that you're lumping a very large number of people together based upon some rather sweeping and tenuous socio-psychological-political conjecture, and based upon my own experiences and observations, your reasoning does not ring true to me. I'm willing to bet that there are just as many guys out there who have a taste for the exotic and who are thankful that their fantasy woman is on another continent, so they don't have to risk muddled emotions as there are guys who you had initially described. They just happen to be spread out over the thousands of rooms and models that fit that particular bill, instead of congregating into a few. The point is, though, you've come up with a complex web of reasoning that generalizes the membership, and which is easier explained by how a model runs her room. At least that's how I see it.

Also, while I'm in this, I'd like to actually get to this point, which is what had prompted me to reply in the first place:

4. I think the kind of guys who like going to Romanian girls puts off other guys. These are the kind of guys who believe in all the stigma against the girls but seek out those kind of things. The kind of stuff I've heard members talk about in rooms when the model has gone private or after they've gone offline is pretty shocking. There are a lot of decent guys who even if they like a model just can't handle that kind of thing so avoid the girls as well.

That couldn't be farther from my own experience. As I'd already stated, based on the rooms I've frequented, the guys who actually stick around are nice people -- much nicer, in fact, than the average member. Then again, since I happen to be so attracted to Eastern European and especially Romanian models, maybe I'm also one of those unsavory characters that is so off-putting the general perv population.
 
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