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[misterical]

What is a typical Colombian dish?

Others here are better qualified to comment than me, but all the Colombians I know are Paisas and the Bandeja Paisa seems to be the dish that is spoken about a lot. It certainly looks good to me with my big appetite.

 

[cbhours]

Others here are better qualified to comment than me, but all the Colombians I know are Paisas and the Bandeja Paisa seems to be the dish that is spoken about a lot. It certainly looks good to me with my big appetite.

Yes that's correct that's the first thing that comes to mind


The food really isn't that good in colombia, to me the only thing worth coming to Colombia for are the people. Everything else there's better places for.

Edit: I forgot about these, I do love these things when I'm in Medellin:

I get them at a restaurant called parmessano

 

[Vixxen81]

I mean my husband has never been jealous of a single person I've interacted with on cam. He has gotten extremely pissed off at how some people try to encroach on my personal time.

But I do want to address one thing here. "Her pussy is broken." First of all, I don't know of any ovarian procedure outside of chemo/radiation treatments that would put a woman of her age out of her social game for that long. I say this as someone who has had intense gynecological problems and at most was down for six weeks, she was probably begging you off. Second of all, that's language you use with people you are intimate with, not a forum full of strangers so it shows how crass you can be. The reason you're getting pushback here is because so many members have been made aware of how you're not allowed to speak to us in certain ways just because of what we do for a living. I think as soon as you discovered she was "in the industry" you demoted her from human to object. That's a You problem.

 

[misterical]

Yes that's correct that's the first thing that comes to mind
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The food really isn't that good in colombia, to me the only thing worth coming to Colombia for are the people. Everything else there's better places for.

Edit: I forgot about these, I do love these things when I'm in Medellin:
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I get them at a restaurant called parmessano

The screenshot from Rappi

 

[cbhours]

The screenshot from Rappi

Correct, how did you know it was rappi xD

Edit: oh did u use it to send someone flowers?

 

[misterical]

Correct, how did you know it was rappi xD

Edit: oh did u use it to send someone flowers?

I've used it to send a few different things. It's a good app but not entirely immune to thievery either ha ha

 

[AudriTwo]

my husband has never shown me jealousy towards my camming. I really don't have much to add other than that even though you paid for her breast augmentation, her breasts are hers. you come across as pretty possessive of her.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Change it up and go Colombian. Bang a handful of grated cheese into your tea.

Yeah…no.

 

[yummybrownfox]

But I do want to address one thing here. "Her pussy is broken." First of all, I don't know of any ovarian procedure outside of chemo/radiation treatments that would put a woman of her age out of her social game for that long. I say this as someone who has had intense gynecological problems and at most was down for six weeks, she was probably begging you off. Second of all, that's language you use with people you are intimate with, not a forum full of strangers so it shows how crass you can be. The reason you're getting pushback here is because so many members have been made aware of how you're not allowed to speak to us in certain ways just because of what we do for a living. I think as soon as you discovered she was "in the industry" you demoted her from human to object. That's a You problem.

This right here! If I found out a member (whether it’s a fave regular or not) spoke about me that way on a public forum, I’d light his ass up! So disrespectful…..

 

[Vixxen81]

This right here! If I found out a member (whether it’s a fave regular or not) spoke about me that way on a public forum, I’d light his ass up! So disrespectful…..

Honestly I wasn't going to comment on the content of his original post but he kept on even after I tried to turn it to food (thanks to everyone who got on board with that). There's just so much disrespect there and I have to wonder, well don't have to but the brain does evil things when I'm bored...what his post would have been like if he hadn't been told she was camming and found her content/sites (also creepy) and merely she'd cheated on him with some other lothario down the block.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Honestly I wasn't going to comment on the content of his original post but he kept on even after I tried to turn it to food (thanks to everyone who got on board with that). There's just so much disrespect there and I have to wonder, well don't have to but the brain does evil things when I'm bored...what his post would have been like if he hadn't been told she was camming and found her content/sites (also creepy) and merely she'd cheated on him with some other lothario down the block.

I think misterical was the one who kept insisting on keeping up that conversation…even after the rest of us were obviously trying to turn it into a discussion of food. Lol.

 

[Vixxen81]

I think misterical was the one who kept insisting on keeping up that conversation…even after the rest of us were obviously trying to turn it into a discussion of food. Lol.

Six of one half dozen of another I guess. LOL

Men say we're so complicated and we keep explaining how we are not. Yet they are the ones posting novellas on forum sites asking about things we've never even thought about when it comes to clients/viewers/tippers.

 

[rockin_rod]

After reviewing all the food suggestions, I'm rolling with spicy beef burritos tonight with black beans, white rice and crushed tortilla chips, topped with a little sour cream, home-made guac, grated monterey jack and sprinkled with thin-sliced fresh red chilis and spring onions. Thanks to the food motivators!!!!

 

[misterical]

I think misterical was the one who kept insisting on keeping up that conversation…even after the rest of us were obviously trying to turn it into a discussion of food. Lol.

Ha ha sorry. Guilty as charged. To be fair, I originally commented and then joined the food party but when he bit back at me then I couldn't control myself. Maybe I should join an anger management forum as well

 

[MarieElise]

Ha ha sorry. Guilty as charged. To be fair, I originally commented and then joined the food party but when he bit back at me then I couldn't control myself. Maybe I should join an anger management forum as well

if you find a good one point me that direction too! Although more specifically I just have no patience. But I don't think anyone does patience management groups. Probably no one would stay long enough to make it worthwhile anyways (they wouldn't have the patience to hang around waiting for it to get started, and for the leader to get to the point). Can you imagine the irony though, of finding one, but then being told it was too full, and you were gonna have to sign up to the waiting list hahahahaha! That's probably what would happen too.

 

[Smoothie]

if you find a good one point me that direction too! Although more specifically I just have no patience. But I don't think anyone does patience management groups. Probably no one would stay long enough to make it worthwhile anyways (they wouldn't have the patience to hang around waiting for it to get started, and for the leader to get to the point). Can you imagine the irony though, of finding one, but then being told it was too full, and you were gonna have to sign up to the waiting list hahahahaha! That's probably what would happen too.

I know people who would get fed up trying to find a good parking spot, and leave without even entering the building. Impatience is a hell of a burden for some folks.

 

[MarieElise]

I know people who would get fed up trying to find a good parking spot, and leave without even entering the building. Impatience is a hell of a burden for some folks.

It's a little different from impatience, but I just learned that it's a thing for lots of people to go to drive-thrus, and restaurants, pay for their order, and then take off without remembering actually to pick up the food. I guess this is something that happens every week, with quite a lot of people. Maybe it's different from patience, just like spinning fast, and being excited to move on to the next thing. A little too excited Maybe low on sleep, having too much going on in their lives, or something, and being toast by the end of the work day ?

But you have to admit, it's kind of funny.

They're driving over curbs way more frequently, than I would have guessed, too.

 

[Vixxen81]

It's a little different from impatience, but I just learned that it's a thing for lots of people to go to drive-thrus, and restaurants, pay for their order, and then take off without remembering actually to pick up the food. I guess this is something that happens every week, with quite a lot of people. Maybe it's different from patience, just like spinning fast, and being excited to move on to the next thing. A little too excited Maybe low on sleep, having too much going on in their lives, or something, and being toast by the end of the work day ?

But you have to admit, it's kind of funny.

They're driving over curbs way more frequently, than I would have guessed, too.

I was at a fast food place the other day that is extremely orderly and efficient and some bitch decides to add to their order AT the pick up window. Took all I had not to get out of the car. ALL I HAD.

 

[Smoothie]

It's a little different from impatience, but I just learned that it's a thing for lots of people to go to drive-thrus, and restaurants, pay for their order, and then take off without remembering actually to pick up the food. I guess this is something that happens every week, with quite a lot of people. Maybe it's different from patience, just like spinning fast, and being excited to move on to the next thing. A little too excited Maybe low on sleep, having too much going on in their lives, or something, and being toast by the end of the work day ?

But you have to admit, it's kind of funny.

I’ve almost done that once. In my case, it was just having a lot to do that day, thinking a couple steps ahead, and nearly drove past the pickup window after paying for my order at the first window.

I realized what I was doing when I was just past the window and had to put the car in reverse. Nice to know it happens to other people too!

 

[MarieElise]

I was at a fast food place the other day that is extremely orderly and efficient and some bitch decides to add to their order AT the pick up window. Took all I had not to get out of the car. ALL I HAD.

It's amazing how long some people take to go through "fast" food drive-throughs. It really is. They should call it "lucky if this shit's still hot!", food drive-throughs instead!

 

[rockin_rod]

I was at a fast food place the other day that is extremely orderly and efficient and some bitch decides to add to their order AT the pick up window. Took all I had not to get out of the car. ALL I HAD.

When I worked the pickup window many years ago, I used to tell anyone who tried that on, that they'd have to go around a second time to collect it to avoid holding the line up.
Funny how they always decided they didn''t need that extra order after all.

 

[RainForest]

Run to the every 30 mins, you can get so sick from eating those foods

Pure poppy cock. Colombian empanadas are awesome. And yeah @cbhours , I wouldn't eat anything left outside for hours either. Like several fast food joints in the US do as well.

 

[RainForest]

im having corn nuggets right now! they are like gringo empanadas
:F

LOL

 

[RainForest]

I confess I love creamed corn.

That's comfort food eating right there

 

[RainForest]

Like this!

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Mother of all things big and small !!!

250,000 to a 1,000,000 Scoville UNITS (SHU) !!!!!!!!! WTF?

 

[RainForest]

Although I've never eaten any of it, I've been made aware of a lot of the food in Medellin and Colombia in general. The thing that really strikes me is the sheer amount of dishes that they put cheese in. Dishes you would never put cheese in where I'm from. Ice cream with cheese, fruit salad with cheese, hot chocolate with cheese in it. Baffling.

Get over it . We're Colombian food munchers right here.

 

[RainForest]

However did I miss this thread ?

 

[RainForest]

Haha I love that, I approve wholeheartedly with this packaging.

@misterical, thanks for saving me from having to figure out multi quote again. Salty and chocolate do go well, I guess. I'm not sure how much I like the idea of fishing a white clumpy substance out of my hot cocoa before I drink it, but to each their own. I imagine we are talking about cojita cheese here. Wouldn't it be faster just to sprinkle some salt on top, or do like what they do when they serve tequila and salt the rim? Maybe they want some of the extra cream from the cheese to melt into it too. But texturally, I couldn't handle that, even if the flavor were the best.

I don't think I really need to say much more on what that would bring to my mind...

I've never been a fan of that combination. Looks like something dropped into my cup of coffee uninvited. But it's definitely a thing with some Colombians.

 

[RainForest]

First of all, I hope none of you ladies shame me too badly for this story and these questions.

I have lived in Medellin for 6 years. I know the game here: sex is extremely easy to find. Love, not so much.

I met her when on Tinder she was 18 with braces on her teeth and I was 62 (I look a lot younger, but I did not lie about my age). Obviously we were both looking for a transaction. Interestingly, she was clearly not a professional prostitute like most girls here on Tinder matching with older men, or she would have come right over. Rather, I spent a couple of months trying to meet her. She wanted a sugar daddy and I wanted a sugar baby.

I was a horrible whoremonging dog back then in 2021. I had such an extensive harem that I had to keep track of them all on a spreadsheet. Over 50 girls.

Anywho, over the next two years, gradually and against my better judgement, I fell in love with her. Our relationship changed from client/puta to BFFs with benefits to exclusive novios. And when I say exclusive, we spent much time together IRL and saw each other several times a week and we always knew what the other was doing. She would spend a week with me at times at my house, away from her beloved family (and family is #1 in Colombia). I paid for anything she wanted. A car, medical care, tuition. I adored her. We traveled together. She was my little princess. Madonna complex, perhaps?

Her backstory was very typical of a poor barrio girl in Colombia - father abandoned her and her mother and brother when she was 12. Daddy issues. My backstory was a typical old gringo story - horrible divorce after a >20 year marriage, never wanted to meet another gringa in the US or go back to the US again. Estranged from my only child (a daughter - nothing weird, never any physical violence, except I was a horrible alcoholic and gambler. Which I am well aware are forms of abuse).

So, fast forward another year.

She's 21 by then. Required gynecological surgery to remove ovarian cysts. I paid for the best doctor in Medellin to do the procedure. Obviously her pussy was broken and there would be no sex for a long time. I didn't care. I loved her and supported her and her family during this time. 7 months.

Then, I had a serious financial setback. I was unable to provide. She told me that she must start work camming, even though she couldn't put a Lovsense, a dildo, or even her fingers in her pussy.

I was distraught.

Then she told me, "My love, I have been doing this since I first turned 18. It was the only opportunity I had to help my family." That is true. Colombia can be a cruel country.

My mind was blown.

I got obsessed and delved into the world of camming. I never had sought it out before in my life. I found her old profile all over the sites. All 5 star reviews. She had been a superstar. And I was able to confirm her year-long hiatus from camming in 2023 when we were exclusive. She was telling me the truth.

Then I found a vid of her Gold Show where she was blowing a plastic dildo that ejaculated all over her face and beautiful breasts (that I paid for) for a group of clients.

Mind blown again. Way too much for me to handle. And it was all so fake. She was NEVER like that with me in bed. I do believe I knew the real her. Or did I?

Point of the story: I can't handle it. At first I was angry, then disappointed, and still, SO JEALOUS that other men are watching my little princess perform for money.

Let me reiterate: I am no angel and I am no judge. I have done "worse" things IRL than she has done on a cam. During the time she was recovering from her surgery, I was definitely with many women IRL - not in a studio on a cam. I have no right to judge.

I am still in love with her. But the thinks that my shock of her revelation of her double life (and again, I had a double life, too) means that we can never be together again. I am heartbroken.

Any comments or advice? Please be kind. I have never told this story to anyone except my my best male friend who still lives in the US. I don't think a shrink can help me, so please don't offer that advice.

You must want to hear us chat about recipes huh? Gringo go!

 

[RainForest]

@MarieElise
Do you like hot sauces?

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This stuff has been in our Latino refrigerators since I was shitting Gerber food in my diapers. They really marketed well to our community lol.