So this is an issue I have been thinking about for a while now, especially since I became a camgirl. I know to be a successful camgirl you have to be independent, strong-willed, and intelligent. I bold strong-willed especially because I feel this is the most important part of doing what we do; we have to stand up for ourselves both offline and online, and stick to our guns because yes, I would say what we do is controversial in today's society. Because we are so strong-willed and independent it does not surprise me that I see and speak to many camgirls that share the same border-line feminist views. (Excuse me if that's not the politically correct term for it...I'm majoring in biosciences lol).
I guess what I'm wondering is if I'm the only one whose blood boils when women are objectified in everyday society by the media, and if I'm not; how do you ladies justify our jobs in conjunction with those views?
I do feel bad sometimes, like I am perpetuating the problem. But I do realize that I am not a model for a normal clothing or food ad; that men and women come to webcam and porn sites specifically, for the most part, for adult content, and we are here because it is our job and we have knowingly signed up on our own accord to provide adult entertainment. On the other hand, a regular non-nude model signs up to be in ads for REGULAR products- like burgers, clothes, perfume, socks...whatever. Has nothing to do with sex. When the regular model is told to do something sexually suggestive for an ad she is in, I feel like THAT is what's wrong; THAT is exploitation because she is not an industry model, and also- all over public television, in magazines where EVERYONE is allowed to see?
Maybe this isn't the clearest but I guess what I'm trying to say is I justify my predominantly feminist views with my job because I separate the sex industry from others; to choose to be in the industry puts the woman in power, because at the end of the day, who controls the room and the show? And in that sense it is everything but perpetuating the problem of gender roles, gender biases, etc.
Anyway sorry this is so long, it's just been something on my mind for a while and just wanted to see how other camgirls with similar views see it....and also members too!!!
I also will include this video that I picked up from Ivyclem's tumblr (Thank you!!! BTW):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NswJ4kO9uHc
I guess what I'm wondering is if I'm the only one whose blood boils when women are objectified in everyday society by the media, and if I'm not; how do you ladies justify our jobs in conjunction with those views?
I do feel bad sometimes, like I am perpetuating the problem. But I do realize that I am not a model for a normal clothing or food ad; that men and women come to webcam and porn sites specifically, for the most part, for adult content, and we are here because it is our job and we have knowingly signed up on our own accord to provide adult entertainment. On the other hand, a regular non-nude model signs up to be in ads for REGULAR products- like burgers, clothes, perfume, socks...whatever. Has nothing to do with sex. When the regular model is told to do something sexually suggestive for an ad she is in, I feel like THAT is what's wrong; THAT is exploitation because she is not an industry model, and also- all over public television, in magazines where EVERYONE is allowed to see?
Maybe this isn't the clearest but I guess what I'm trying to say is I justify my predominantly feminist views with my job because I separate the sex industry from others; to choose to be in the industry puts the woman in power, because at the end of the day, who controls the room and the show? And in that sense it is everything but perpetuating the problem of gender roles, gender biases, etc.
Anyway sorry this is so long, it's just been something on my mind for a while and just wanted to see how other camgirls with similar views see it....and also members too!!!
I also will include this video that I picked up from Ivyclem's tumblr (Thank you!!! BTW):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NswJ4kO9uHc