Feeling sore...

[Folderol]

I saw a video on youtube about the supposed "truth" about MFC, and I had a question. If you're completely sore from the day before, let's say that you used a dildo/vibrator that's just too big for you, or are too dry, etc. Do you really get on the next day and do it all over again? I mean it's a job and all, but if it's hurting that much, do you even bother?

 

[LilyLaughing]

I don't use toys too big for me or too roughly for me to be feeling pain. A huge bottle of lube that's easy to dispense (squirt or pump bottle) helps too, and if I do somehow injure myself, I take some time off. It's just not worth it to hurt myself; I may lose a few clients this way but I don't want clients that encourage me to risk my body and my ability to work my next shift.

 

[MarieElise]

do you even bother?

No. I own people's asses (figuratively, but sometimes also literally lol) and tell them how to really please me. But at the same time a lot of narcissistic and fragile ego type guys skulk off in a huff, about that. So yes, ignoring it, and suffering through pain, is probably a way bigger, faster money maker. At the end of the SM contests, many of the women who have done well, can barely do anything for days. It's fucked up. All because there are so many men in society who refuse to listen to and learn from women, because their male egos are so fragile. So unbelievably unhealthy and toxic! I get really passionate about this topic!

I'm too stubborn and feisty to go along with anything, but if I did, I'd have a way larger bank account balance. However, I'd also be feeling pretty fucking shitty and aggressive 24/7 so...

There are a huge demographic of guys that know literally nothing about the female body and how it works, but at the same time think they know everything, and can't be told. If you're OK with dealing with them, you can stay pretty busy, fairly easily. But the psychological toll isn't worth it to me. Nvm the physical.

I'm here to teach them, and if they can't be taught, they can fuck off and kick rocks

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I saw a video on youtube about the supposed "truth" about MFC, and I had a question. If you're completely sore from the day before, let's say that you used a dildo/vibrator that's just too big for you, or are too dry, etc. Do you really get on the next day and do it all over again? I mean it's a job and all, but if it's hurting that much, do you even bother?

Can you link to the video?


I don’t cam anymore but when I did - full time for over a decade, the answer is mixed.

Sometimes I’d take a day off and work a different day, sometimes I’d try a show that didn’t involve penetration. I’m not going to pretend that when I was newer when offered a lucrative private show I wouldn’t put up with discomfort though. Or if I had a deadline to deliver a custom video.

Over time I’ve learned my own boundaries better, and I’m better’s positioned to only take work I want to do.

 

[ElGato]

At the end of the SM contests, many of the women who have done well, can barely do anything for days.

Daaaammmmnnnn. That is messed up! That's sad from all angles

Edit: sorry, did not mean to be chiming in in ask a model

 

[Vixxen81]

Daaaammmmnnnn. That is messed up! That's sad from all angles

Edit: sorry, did not mean to be chiming in in ask a model

You weren't first or offering an answer/opinion on the thread, just a reaction to information presented.

 

[MarieElise]

Daaaammmmnnnn. That is messed up! That's sad from all angles

Very. I was expecting that coming into this work, at the age that I did, and the experience level in life I was at, and with the type of life I have/ had chosen to live for myself prior. Lol, that was just a fancy way of saying I was already an alley cat when I came into this. Had I been younger and had led a more sheltered life, that would have been a very, very, very horrible thing to learn for the first time. In a very horrible way

I started this out at age 33.
I think it's really awesome and helpful that as many people add truthfully to this conversation, as possible.
Becase there's a lot of learning that needs to be done, to heal all of the many rifts and disconnects that we are facing in society today.

 

[Vixxen81]

Very. I was expecting that coming into this work, at the age that I did, and the experience level in life I was at, and with the type of life I have/ had chosen to live for myself prior. Lol, that was just a fancy way of saying I was already an alley cat when I came into this lol Had I been younger and had led a more sheltered life, that would have been a very, very, very horrible thing to learn for the first time. In a very horrible way

I started this out at age 33.
I think it's really awesome and helpful that as many people add truthfully to this conversation, as possible.
Becase there's a lot of learning that needs to be done, to heal all of the many rifts we are facing in society today.

I was 32 and I found out in a really horrible way but not physically -- emotionally. Until that point in my life I had never had a guy want me to hurt myself for his pleasure. It was extremely traumatic.

 

[MarieElise]

I was 32 and I found out in a really horrible way but not physically -- emotionally. Until that point in my life I had never had a guy want me to hurt myself for his pleasure. It was extremely traumatic.

I am so, so, so, so sorry .
That's what I define as abuse, not swear words. Abuse to me is someone wanting gratification at the expense of another, with no regard or thought to the other, and treating that other person as an object. Dehumanizing them, basically. Outside of any kind of consentually agreed upon, plan or session.

 

[Vixxen81]

I am so, so, so, so sorry .
That's what I define as abuse, not swear words. Abuse to me is someone wanting gratification at the expense of another, with no regard or thought to the other, and treating that other person as an object. Dehumanizing them, basically. Outside of any kind of consentually agreed upon, plan or session.

It was the day I learned that I have zero fucks about being sexualized and a million fucks about being objectified. Love you and thank you.