It really isn't flipping my views, since it's up to her to make those decisions. I was giving my viewpoint on it, with what I have seen a number of models do and how I felt. Ultimately, it's her decision on how to run her business. Which, has always been my stance from the beginning. She'll either learn or not and potentially keep losing members.
But I was never trying to take away her right to make her own decisions. This thread was supposed to be about establishing whether there is a common etiquette for when and how to end a goal. And you are agreeing that the way she ended this goal probably violates you own sense of propriety. From what I have seen in your other threads, you would probably spend less time and less money on a model who did this. That is what I care about: what is the member's response to this behavior.
I'm not asking you to justify it. Where I am at is that I feel you keep sticking your head further down the rabbit hole, and eventually you're going to find that it's a snake hole. Everyone has to make their own decisions regarding what kind of help to give, how long, and when to cut their losses. While you say you're not as likely to do so in the future, I feel you still are allowing yourself to be taken by those whom you still want to help. You follow 200 models, yet say "only about 4" or 98% are ones you'd want to help.
There's no way I could follow 200 models, I'd be sitting on cam sites all day just doing that. Add in that you're here asking questions for models you're doing things for, as well as actually doing the work for them? When do you have time to sleep, or work to make money and pay your bills and tip the 200 models you follow?
Having a 200 channel TV, does not mean you spend time on all 200 channels. I have a 500+ channel digital TV, and I haven't turned it on once in a year. For a model to get on my CB follow list might mean nothing more than I saw her online once and I had a moment of curiosity. It does not mean I am invested in her or that I will ever spend time with her again.
Regarding the rabbit and snake hole, your assumption seems to be that my only goal is to improve the relationship with the model. On that count, I might agree with you in many cases. But what you are ignoring is that I want to learn the business side of the activity, and she is giving me an opportunity to do this that is independent of any personal relationship.