Does your other half know about you camming?

[BackpackerBaby]

We live together so I had no choice but to tell him I want to cam. He thought it was "out of the blue" but I've been thinking and dreaming about it!
He is fine with it, and shared the news with some of his close friends for their opinions. Friends are pretty neutral....
Now he wants to wife me, start a family, and wants me to discontinue.
Those whose partners are cool with it are so lucky. :animals-bunny:

 

[dirtybirdy]

Ahh touchy lol my bf & I live with his parents ...& no he does not know I cam & would probably flip the F out if he ever found out. I guess you could call me a sneaky person :icon-twisted:, but it's complicated.. I've wanted to make camming a fulltime job but have not been able to so do to the fact I practically live in a commune... Obviously don't do what I'm doing lol be upfront or don't do it at all! Being sneaky is hard.

 

[SaffronBurke]

My husband was more than happy with it when he was alive - he got to brag to his gamer buddies that his big-boobied wife did porn! It probably helped that we were kinky polyamorous exhibitionists....

As for now, most of my friends know, when I had a regular fuck buddy, he knew. I honestly wouldn't even be friends with someone who had a problem with it, let alone have a relationship with them.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Hi,

I'm new to this forum and also considering being a camgirl. As the title states, does your husband/partner know that you're a camgirl? If so, how do they feel about it? Did you tell them before you started or after you had already been doing it? If not, then do you feel it's because they won't understand or like it?

As i said, i am considering doing this, however, I have no idea how my partner would react if he ever found out or if I told him i was thinking of doing it. I would not want something like this to ruin my relationship but i am really interested in it.

Hi, lady_phoenix. That's good that you know what you want, but even if you're worried about how your partner will react, you should still let him know that you're considering this. You've gotta have honesty in a relationship. Plus, hiding something like this just makes it look like YOU think you're doing something "bad." Definitely talk to him about it. And I don't mean via casual text messaging. Have a face-to-face conversation. :twocents-02cents:

One other thing...in case he ever plans on stopping by your chat room while you're broadcasting...you'll want to remind him beforehand how you have to be mindful about what's said in your public chat. For example, accidentally blurting out your real name, etc. right there in front of everyone. Should be common sense, I know, but sometimes in these chat rooms, people don't think before they speak. Lol.

 

[Phoebe]

My boyfriend is 100% okay with what I'm doin. Why won't you talk about it with your man?