Do you keep your perversion a secret?

[captainbuttass]

To your family? To your friends?

I don't. Then again, I hate my family and my friends don't give a shit. Either way, I don't think you should. Sure, your family may disown you and your current friends may expel you from their group, but that will give you the opportunity to meet the right friends. Not necessarily friends that share this particular interest, but ones that will be cool with it.

"Oh, him? That's Dave. He likes big asses, that scamp."

 

[mutantdonut]

Only one friend knows of my perversions. And i don't plan on revealing to anyone else any time soon. Although it'd be nice not to hide it without being chastised, the reality of it is that it's not so simple for everyone by saying 'fuck it' & opening up to the world. It complicates good-standing relationships, and for many of us, these ARE the right friends, even if they'll disapprove of this one thing that you do.

 

[Shaun__]

It is not a secret I just do not going around talking about my sexual interests with family. That kind of thing is a turn off for me.

 

[captainbuttass]

Only one friend knows of my perversions. And i don't plan on revealing to anyone else any time soon. Although it'd be nice not to hide it without being chastised, the reality of it is that it's not so simple for everyone by saying 'fuck it' & opening up to the world. It complicates good-standing relationships, and for many of us, these ARE the right friends, even if they'll disapprove of this one thing that you do.

Whatever floats your boat

It is not a secret I just do not going around talking about my sexual interests with family. That kind of thing is a turn off for me.

Allllright

 

[n_i_c_u]

I think my family knows I am in to naked people having sex because I got caught in high school with a vhs tape called "days of our lives."

I told my neighbor that I watch and talk to Camgirls and he must have told his girlfriend because she pretty much quit talking to me after I mentioned it to him. I think it is kinda lame for her to do that, but, I get it. He still talks to me. Kinda learned to not mention it out loud. (weird thing about them is that they do nudist stuff, but, I am a pariah now because of my online habits--which is less porn clips and more cam stuff).

 

[zippypinhead]

I'm with @Shaun__ on this. My "perversions" have no bearing on my outward persona, and I have absolutely no reason to reveal them to family or friends.

 

[Remykins]

Who the hell talks about what gets them hard to their family? Seriously, is this something people do? Even friends....thats just like.....no.

 

[Ambers Troll]

I keep many a perversion secret. I have quite a few that I can't act on other than as fantasy. Luckily my tastes are broad so hiding some of that is fine by me.

Family and friends know I am a bit twisted, but they are not crazy enough to want to know more.
Cam-girls get the vanilla version, as I always need to be careful to be considerate of what I ask of them. As fate would have it I have only ever found 1 model out of 100's in 10 years who I could share something of my favourite perversion, but she banned me for saying something inappropriate so I never got the chance to share it.

Pushing your sexual perversion onto others; even just the idea of it, without their consent, is not appropriate for more extreme tastes. Some should also be managed or they can get out of control.
I am not saying sharing is wrong, just that it is only appropriate if the one you are telling has opened a door to it.

 

[Ambers Troll]

Who the hell talks about what gets them hard to their family? Seriously, is this something people do? Even friends....thats just like.....no.

In general I agree, but sex does come up from time to time.

I know my sister likes men who are selfish, difficult and mostly unlikable for instance. I don't remember how it came up, but I know that about her.
Things about your sexuality do slip out to family and friends.

 

[n_i_c_u]

Seriously, is this something people do? Even friends....thats just like.....no.

Welllllll, not that I did, but there is a "bring a friend" thing on MFC. I was just amazed by the whole thing (girls girls girls) so I told my neighbor/sorta friend who is a photographer. Maybe MFC is dumb to put that on there.

 

[NoelleBright]

In general I agree, but sex does come up from time to time.

I know my sister likes men who are selfish, difficult and mostly unlikable for instance. I don't remember how it came up, but I know that about her.
Things about your sexuality do slip out to family and friends.

Yeah but general things.
Like it wouldn't be weird if your friends and family knew that you like shy blondes with green eyes and generous breasts, but it WOULD be weird as shit if you let all your friends and family know you like to wear womens panties under your clothes.
There's a line there that common sense should not allow you to cross.

 

[Guy]

I think my family knows I am in to naked people having sex because I got caught in high school with a vhs tape called "days of our lives."

I told my neighbor that I watch and talk to Camgirls and he must have told his girlfriend because she pretty much quit talking to me after I mentioned it to him. I think it is kinda lame for her to do that, but, I get it. He still talks to me. Kinda learned to not mention it out loud. (weird thing about them is that they do nudist stuff, but, I am a pariah now because of my online habits--which is less porn clips and more cam stuff).

Why does the fact that you go on camsites make her not want to talk to you?

 

[Nikola Tesla]

Because to her, he is creepy, Guy.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Who the hell talks about what gets them hard to their family? Seriously, is this something people do? Even friends....thats just like.....no.

Hey dad, just stopped by to say hi and see how it's going. Sure, I'd love a Mt. Dew. New chairs for the dining table? Oh hey, have I mentioned I like watching big titted women rub glitter filled coconut oil all over their ass, shove a buttplug in and then jump into a kiddie pool full of spaghetti noodles while giving a BJ to a silicone male torso?


Totally natural, everyone's had that conversation, right?

 

[Bocefish]

If you consider someone liking big asses as a perversion, explain your reasoning in detail.

 

[n_i_c_u]

Because to her, he is creepy, Guy.

Yeah... true dat. I understand it, sort of (tough to be on a forum for cam models and come up with a reason why it is wrong being a perv-even trying to look at it with no bias). I'm also not a good catholic or a good patriot, but I do my part for animals and the environment and I try to be good to peoples. Can't please most people anyway.

 

[Nikola Tesla]

didn't mean to offend. Just trying to help Guy understand

 

[Shaun__]

Who the hell talks about what gets them hard to their family? Seriously, is this something people do? Even friends....thats just like.....no.

I watched this yesterday on Netflix, and thought this part of his show was relevant to the thread.

 

[Remykins]

In general I agree, but sex does come up from time to time.

I know my sister likes men who are selfish, difficult and mostly unlikable for instance. I don't remember how it came up, but I know that about her.
Things about your sexuality do slip out to family and friends.

Relationship preferences/attractions do not = sexual turn ons or "perversions" ....your sisters preference in men is not a "perversion" or even remotely sexual, so that example doesn't really answer my original question lol. My brothers know what type of guy I'm into, hell they even know that I'm a camgirl, but I would NEVER even THINK about telling them what gets me wet. I dunno....maybe if it was like, super close friends...MAYBE....but discussing this kind of stuff with family is straight up gross. And I don't care if I get negged for saying so

 

[Guy]

From what I understand the word
"perversion" means sexual stuff that is abnormal\ disturbing like
serial killers cutting up the undergarments of their victims.

 

[AuroraKnight]

I'm an extremely open person when it comes to sex and sex education. I don't just walk up to people and say things like "Hey, I like it when a strong man bends me over his knee and spanks me, how was your weekend?" or anything like that, but when topics like sex and kink come up I have no issue sharing my knowledge and maybe helping dissolve some prejudices they may have, because usually when those topics come up its along the lines of "I saw this weird thing on the internet, can you believe people do that?" And usually it'a either something I happen to enjoy, or at least know a bit about thanks to sex work.

With family though it's a totally different story, they have no reason or need to know what goes on in my bedroom any more than I want or need to know what goes on in theirs. Though I'm sure my mom knows a few things about me that I'm sure she wishes she didn't, we happened to be at a medieval faire and she walked by while my husband and I were purchasing a fancy hand made leather lead* and we were checking to make sure the clip would fit through the ring in my collar. Oops lol
*if you don't know what a lead is, it's basically a short leash

 

[Nikola Tesla]

stuff that is abnormal\ disturbing

The issue is who finds what disturbing. My grandmother would be absolutely mortified by things camgirls do without giving it a second thought. Like wearing lingerie on cam. gasp!

 

[Albert_1]

I don't go anywhere without my "I Butt Holes & Dirty Talk" hat on.

 

[Fatquack]

I have no perversions. If somebody else thinks I am a pervert, that's their problem, not mine.

 

[Carmita Bonita]

Big butts=perversion? O_O
So basically I'm a walking, talking perversion lmao sweet!

I thought the big butt fetish is pretty mainstream and normal (thanks nicki minaj and kim kardashian!) I can't imagine anyone being like "You're weird dude" but who knows.

In my opinion, my family/friends don't need to know what I like sexually as I'd rather not know random kinky details my mom will bring up about my dad.
"Your father was pretty kinky...he used to--"
"Mom stop! stop!"

 

[Nordling]

What if your fetish/perversion/interest is telling the family about your made-up perversion? j/k

 

[yummybrownfox]

I'm with AshKitten on this one. Kind of an odd thing to be discussing with family members, in my opinion. Look, even I stood there with my mouth hanging open for a few seconds that time I went into my parents' room and saw like 10 bottles of K-Y Jelly on the dresser. Lmfao.

My family members do not need to know that I enjoy porn, or that I'm freakin' nuts about the doggystyle position. And I would imagine that most people would rather not hear details about the biggest cock their sister/daughter/mother/grandmother/aunt has ever had.

Friends is a little different because they are the people I can enjoy dirty jokes with, curse like a sailor around, share juicy/naughty stories with, etc. They're not authority figures (like a parent/teacher/church pastor), and they're not gonna gasp or tsk, tsk, tsk me about that stuff. Just the other day, I was telling a friend of mine about how fucking amazing that K-Y warming liquid stuff feels during sex. You think I'm gonna have a conversation like that with my grandmom? LOL!

So I guess my answer to this thread's question is HELL YEAH, I'm gonna keep my "perversion" a secret.

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

Why does the fact that you go on camsites make her not want to talk to you?

Maybe his wife is a cam girl

 

[Guy]

Because to her, he is creepy, Guy.

Or maybe she's an anti-pornography feminist.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

To your family? To your friends?

I try to. I keep my perversions locked in the toolshed out back, and my family has strict orders they are not to go anywhere near it. Don't really have any friends to speak of.