Yes, I can see where that would make things more difficult. Flying blind, as it were. Clearly, interaction is preferable from your perspective.
Still, I don't care for your tone here missy. Not one bit.
Might be fine for real relationships/intimacy. But if we are talking about webcam performers, it lends itself to the notion that an artist does not bear the sole responsibility for the works they create. Unacceptable.
If I pay for a twerk performance, must I also get on cam and grind along with you in the hopes of helping your efforts succeed? God forbid!
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GenXoxo, SaffronBurke: "Dirty talk" too vague. Need to find out what exactly they are wanting
Diana Blake: Dirty talk takes practice
AwesomeKate: Dirty talk requires mental effort, confident frame of mind, getting into character(?)
Loulou: Roleplay videos helpful
This is where I am coming from: Someone asked me about dirty talk a while back, they had no clue how to proceed. She was given feedback by whoever was asking, she just didn't know where to go with it. At one point she was flat out told a line he wanted to hear; she then latched on to that, and over the next six months, visiting her room every so often I heard that same line repeated (two or three times without anyone even asking for dirty talk that I could see). It was pathetic.
About a month or so after the first time I was asked, she asked me again. So I pointed her to this forum. Also told her she ought to go to tube sites when she wasn't working; plenty of stuff up on those to explain different terms, and plenty of examples to draw inspiration from. Too much effort for her, I guess. Why bother to prepare when you can just wait for someone to show up with money and then flounder helplessly? Fortunately, she moved on to better things.
The fact that someone may be terrible at dirty talk is a very real possibility. And that is a reality that must be faced head-on, not hidden from. I believe it should be approached with much the same mentality as other skills (such as pole-dancing),
IF someone wishes to add it to their advertised repertoire.
At any rate, if someone is going to half-ass their forays into this area without adequately preparing (assuming they aren't a 'natural' at it), they shouldn't be surprised if they eventually find themselves having to fend off unwanted ass-pinches from drunks at 3 a.m. while working tables at a Denny's.
Does pretending like you are into it and adopting a IDGAF attitude cover a multitude of sins when it comes to dirty talk? Fake it til you make it? idk.
But this guy is always going to be there watching. He may/may not be right; even if he is, probably shouldn't let him define you.
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So. She looks Asian, and you just assumed she wasn't Canadian?