Compliments

[ILikeUonTop]

I did a search and couldn't find a thread about this so if has been discussed somewhere I apologize.

I think we can all agree that tips are the best compliment but I'm curious about what you ladies hear or see typed in your chat. Everyday cam models go online and are bombarded with compliments from the people in their rooms. It may be things like "You are so beautiful" or "You are very sexy" or things like "I love your tits" and "You have a great ass". My questions are, as much and as often as you hear these things, do they even still register? Do you genuinely feel complimented? Do you like it when you hear people say these things or do they seem trite? Thoughts in general?

 

[KristinaReapsMe]

Well....depends on the model. I still appreciate them, because the compliments are usually a precursor to the tips from the premiums that come in my room. I feel that if you're more receptive to their compliments(the tasteful ones, I mean. Great tits/ass makes me want to roll my eyes) they'll be more compelled to stay and talk more.

 

[CharlotteLace]

I genuinely appreciate compliments, especially if it's something different or complimenting something I really like about myself. Also, when it's a regular or a good friend, and they say something really sincere and kind, I tend to feel all warm and fuzzy.

That being said, the guys who come into my room and are overly verbose tend to piss me off. I always feel like they're getting off more on how poetic and sensitive they are, rather than anything I'm doing. Don't tell me my eyes are like emeralds glinting in the sunshine on a snowy mountain morning or some crap like that. It's silly and tends to lead to hyperbole.

 

[SexySteph]

For the most part when I get a random generic compliment I just smile and say thanks while internally sighing. BUT when I get compliments from regulars and they're really sincere that can make my whole day. Especially when the compliments are more than just "you're so pretty" but are instead something like "I love the shows you think of! Super creative!" or "Video xyz was so cool! You clearly put a lot of work into it!"

 

[Crumb]

I rarely compliment any more
I see so many guys compliment models that I figure it must be like water off a ducks back by now, and they're just going through the motions of saying thank you but really inside her head she's thinking "yeah yeah just tip me already"
maybe I'm delusional about this, I don't know.

when I do get around to complimenting, it's normally a little more subdued as in.. hey, lookin good today or nice bra... sort of thing
yeah, i'll get a little more cheesy and playful with the model/s I'm more comfortable with but I definitely don't go around saying best ass on mfc to everyone like I think some guys do.

 

[AmberCutie]

I genuinely appreciate compliments, especially if it's something different or complimenting something I really like about myself. Also, when it's a regular or a good friend, and they say something really sincere and kind, I tend to feel all warm and fuzzy.

That being said, the guys who come into my room and are overly verbose tend to piss me off. I always feel like they're getting off more on how poetic and sensitive they are, rather than anything I'm doing. Don't tell me my eyes are like emeralds glinting in the sunshine on a snowy mountain morning or some crap like that. It's silly and tends to lead to hyperbole.

100% this. Verbose and gushy are off-putting. Compliments from regulars feel the best because they aren't just doing it to get your attention like many newcomers might be.

 

[mynameisbob84]

I genuinely appreciate compliments, especially if it's something different or complimenting something I really like about myself. Also, when it's a regular or a good friend, and they say something really sincere and kind, I tend to feel all warm and fuzzy.

That being said, the guys who come into my room and are overly verbose tend to piss me off. I always feel like they're getting off more on how poetic and sensitive they are, rather than anything I'm doing. Don't tell me my eyes are like emeralds glinting in the sunshine on a snowy mountain morning or some crap like that. It's silly and tends to lead to hyperbole.

100% this. Verbose and gushy are off-putting. Compliments from regulars feel the best because they aren't just doing it to get your attention like many newcomers might be.

The thing I covet most about you bbs is the haven you provide me, the place where I can bask in the aura of your effervescent beauty and magnetic charm, and where the minutes seamlessly turn to hours and time drifts away, gone forever more but never a second wasted with you. Even through a webcam, I get lost in the watery blue glimmer of your wide lovely eyes, an ocean behind them calling me through the colours and the shapes, they beckon me and I'm torn asunder. But don't save me, bb. Don't save me. Not yet. Let me stay a while, afloat in the glistening waters of your affection. There's no place I'd rather be, bb. No place I'd rather be...

 

[ILikeUonTop]

I genuinely appreciate compliments, especially if it's something different or complimenting something I really like about myself. Also, when it's a regular or a good friend, and they say something really sincere and kind, I tend to feel all warm and fuzzy.

That being said, the guys who come into my room and are overly verbose tend to piss me off. I always feel like they're getting off more on how poetic and sensitive they are, rather than anything I'm doing. Don't tell me my eyes are like emeralds glinting in the sunshine on a snowy mountain morning or some crap like that. It's silly and tends to lead to hyperbole.

100% this. Verbose and gushy are off-putting. Compliments from regulars feel the best because they aren't just doing it to get your attention like many newcomers might be.

The thing I covet most about you bbs is the haven you provide me, the place where I can bask in the aura of your effervescent beauty and magnetic charm, and where the minutes seamlessly turn to hours and time drifts away, gone forever more but never a second wasted with you. Even through a webcam, I get lost in the watery blue glimmer of your wide lovely eyes, an ocean behind them calling me through the colours and the shapes, they beckon me and I'm torn asunder. But don't save me, bb. Don't save me. Not yet. Let me stay a while, afloat in the glistening waters of your affection. There's no place I'd rather be, bb. No place I'd rather be...

Damn it! I was going to say that!

 

[sweetiebatman]

hall I compare thee to a summer's day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate.
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May, And summer's lease hath all too short a date.
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines, And often is his gold complexion dimmed;
And every fair from fair sometime declines, By chance, or nature's changing course, untrimmed;
But thy eternal summer shall not fade, Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st,
Nor shall death brag thou wand'rest in his shade, When in eternal lines to Time thou grow'st.
So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see, So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

Used this many a time to describe my BB's , Its my own work, Honest Gov :whistle:

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I enjoy it if it's not every second and it seems genuine.
I once had a guy say, "You are beautiful...(then he copy and pasted from the thesaurus the rest)" It was about 20 description words, straight from the thesaurus. Not sweet at all.

 

[Mirah]

The best compliments I think are when people compliment my room or my personality. I get a lot of dudes who post the "BEST _____ ON MFC" emotes and its very eye roll worthy but I've had people tell me that I am a bright part of their day or that I'm funny and I'm so happy.
but I suppose those types of compliments come from people who hang out often enough to get to know me so thats probably why I appreciate them more. I do enjoy compliments on my looks as well but I think its easy to pinpoint when its insincere.
Same thing with insults too I suppose, a random dude calling me ugly ain't no thang but I've gotten insulted by people who have hung out in my room and who I thought were nice, cool people who just suddenly... switched and it hurt my feelings.

 

[TokenGesture]

What a gorgeous thread. A lovely opening post, followed by great replies, all neatly arranged below, one after the other. Makes me feel tingly all over, just to scroll down slowly, then up, then down again.

 

[ComicOzzie]

The ones that drive me nuts are the guys who repeatedly make the same lame compliments to the model (You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, bb!) and then NEVER, EVER TIP HER! :roll:

 

[MemberEd]

I told a model once that she had gotten all my tokens in record time. She seemed genuinely pleased by the compliment.

 

[PearlSparkles]

I genuinely appreciate compliments, especially if it's something different or complimenting something I really like about myself. Also, when it's a regular or a good friend, and they say something really sincere and kind, I tend to feel all warm and fuzzy.

That being said, the guys who come into my room and are overly verbose tend to piss me off. I always feel like they're getting off more on how poetic and sensitive they are, rather than anything I'm doing. Don't tell me my eyes are like emeralds glinting in the sunshine on a snowy mountain morning or some crap like that. It's silly and tends to lead to hyperbole.

100% this. Verbose and gushy are off-putting. Compliments from regulars feel the best because they aren't just doing it to get your attention like many newcomers might be.

this ^^

 

[MintyFlowers]

Best compliments are when they are revolved around that member's penis. It really turns me on when they say "my dik so hard 4 u bb"

But in reality, most comments like "you are beautiful" and etc is nice! I appreciate that because they took their time to compliment me.
I don't really appreciate "nice tits/ass" very much because if someone said that to me in real life or I'm bed, I would just be put off.
I hate "you are the ___est girl on MFC" or "you are better than model x" compliments because they are rude. I don't like being compared to other girls, especially of you put down someone else in the process. Rude.

 

[Reina Lynn]

I sincerely appreciate compliments.

As many of the women have confirmed, Charlotte Lace said it best! A compliment is lovely. A compliment that takes six lines of text and is repeated ad nauseam, not so much.

 

[mutantdonut]

That being said, the guys who come into my room and are overly verbose tend to piss me off. I always feel like they're getting off more on how poetic and sensitive they are

When compliments become poetic & artsy, i throw up a little. Sometimes i disable the chat because i rather not roll my eyes 50 times. Just a couple off the top of my head....
"I just found 90% of the world's beauty and it's all in front of my screen"
"Heaven doesn't even deserve someone as beautiful as you"

I also wonder if members believe they'll score brownie points with such compliments, or if members believe they can get away with not tipping by showering compliments at the model.

 

[ComicOzzie]

My favorite "makes no sense" compliment is: "You are too beautiful for MFC".

Yeah, beauty can be a real burden on this site. :roll:

 

[Crumb]

My favorite "makes no sense" compliment is: "You are too beautiful for MFC".

Yeah, beauty can be a real burden on this site. :roll:

Tori Black, a super gorgeous porn actress, supposedly gets told that a lot too "You're too beautiful for porn", her reply is/was "would you rather be watching ugly girls?" (not exact quote but close enough... the word fuck may or may not have been in there)
which is my basic response to that statement... would those guys rather be watching ugly girls on cam? I, for one, am glad there are beautiful women to watch

 

[Alexandra Cole]

My questions are, as much and as often as you hear these things, do they even still register? Do you genuinely feel complimented? Do you like it when you hear people say these things or do they seem trite? Thoughts in general?

They do register and I do feel complimented. To me, it's about the intention, so they can't be trite if they're sincere. (I don't really get members rhapsodizing at length, but I could see how that could come off as a little disingenuous.) And I know that when I compliment someone, I'm absolutely sincere - probably too sincere - and it would be depressing if they thought I were being disingenuous, let alone trite.

I guess I don't see compliments as a reflection of myself but a reflection of how I impact someone else. Superficial or complex, I don't think I can be numb to that.

 

[mutantdonut]

My favorite "makes no sense" compliment is: "You are too beautiful for MFC".

Yeah, beauty can be a real burden on this site. :roll:

Tori Black, a super gorgeous porn actress, supposedly gets told that a lot too "You're too beautiful for porn", her reply is/was "would you rather be watching ugly girls?" (not exact quote but close enough... the word fuck may or may not have been in there)
which is my basic response to that statement... would those guys rather be watching ugly girls on cam? I, for one, am glad there are beautiful women to watch

I also have a tendency to dissect into people's statements, so sometimes i need to dial back that habit (I've irritated people to no end because of it and gotten into trouble). When the "You're too beautiful for _____" is made, one would think that the complimenteer's intention was to simply flatter the hell out of the model/star. Chances are the complimenteer isn't truly thinking, "yea this beautiful woman is waaay to gorgeous that it must be a nuisance for her" or "i've become accustomed to watching ugly women until this gorgeous beauty came along." The bottom line is that it's a made compliment in hopes of inducing flattery for the person receiving it, and nothing more.

 

[JoleneBrody]

My favorite "makes no sense" compliment is: "You are too beautiful for MFC".

Yeah, beauty can be a real burden on this site. :roll:

Tori Black, a super gorgeous porn actress, supposedly gets told that a lot too "You're too beautiful for porn", her reply is/was "would you rather be watching ugly girls?" (not exact quote but close enough... the word fuck may or may not have been in there)
which is my basic response to that statement... would those guys rather be watching ugly girls on cam? I, for one, am glad there are beautiful women to watch

I also have a tendency to dissect into people's statements, so sometimes i need to dial back that habit (I've irritated people to no end because of it and gotten into trouble). When the "You're too beautiful for _____" is made, one would think that the complimenteer's intention was to simply flatter the hell out of the model/star. Chances are the complimenteer isn't truly thinking, "yea this beautiful woman is waaay to gorgeous that it must be a nuisance for her" or "i've become accustomed to watching ugly women until this gorgeous beauty came along." The bottom line is that it's a made compliment in hopes of inducing flattery for the person receiving it, and nothing more.

That doesn't change the fact that it's thoughtless and supah retahded!

I guess my two cents. I'm awkward at taking compliments but when they are genuine and sincere, they make me feel pretty darn nice!
However, the majority of the compliments you see from random bloobs are not genuine or sincere, they just don't have anything more interesting to say. They don't plan to tip but they aren't social/funny/witty enough to engage in the conversation or become part of the group so they just have little compliment meltdowns in an effort to get the attention they don't want to or can't afford.

People who take the time to compliment my show after it's over but can't part with a measly 1.49 to actually compliment my show genuinely piss me off. "wow that was the hottest show I've ever seen!" "thank you for such a great show!"
Nope, unless in a tip note or you actually contributed to the countdown before hand I take it as a slap in the face. Like writing "thank you" on the tip line of your restaurant receipt, it would have been far less insulting to just put a zero.

 

[CatEarnshaw]

A guy on SM told me I looked like his girlfriends mom last night. I said "Is that a good thing?". He said "Yeah, it's hot."

I took it as a compliment, and didn't overthink it LOL

 

[JoleneBrody]

A guy on SM told me I looked like his girlfriends mom last night. I said "Is that a good thing?". He said "Yeah, it's hot."

I took it as a compliment, and didn't overthink it LOL

You don't really. He has a fetish and was trying to get roleplay. I look like a lot of moms, stepmoms, aunts, sisters, neighbors, cousins and best friends. We all do. We all look just like one dudes taboo if we are willing to play along. LOL

 

[theone]

When I'm visiting my favorite models on CB I generally compliment them in a tip note. I understand they get bombarded with crude compliments day in and day out but really guy, the tips are how they make a living. I look for more personal things to compliment them on. Things like, new hair style, an outfit I haven't seen before or something different in their bio such as new pics or messages. Most of all I try to be respectful. The lovely ladies on the screen are working hard to earn a living and deserve the same respect as everone else. My theory is, if I don't have tokens, I need to just shut up. I like to interact and joke around with them as well as other regular members I get used to seeing so I tip frequently. People may consider me odd for caring but I gotta be me.

By the way ambercutie, I love the forum. Very good idea.