NovaNirvana said:
I got this one last night during my insomnia shift, and maybe it was the sleep deprivation but it made me all stupid smiley and blushy. I love compliments that honestly acknowledge my ungraceful awkwardness XD
I just came in here to question something along this line. I was just perving on a model- one who visits this hallowed forum- and her mannerisms were just.....nerdy and slightly awkward, but not even awkward, just...nerdy. I found it absolutely adorable and endearing and I wanted to mention it, but then I thought, "That can be taken as an insult." So I refrained.
I'm one who views what society or whatever may consider a negative trait to be wonderful and endearing sometimes, but find that if you mention such things, if the person is a bit obsessed with it in a negative way, it causes... drama, for lack of a better word. (I sleepy) I hate this. I hate censoring myself, even if I do it all the time. But especially when I want to tell someone, "NO! That thing you hate about yourself is what makes you awesome and unique and the best you that exists in this often fucked sidewards universe."