Big Toys......Whats the allure?

[southsamurai]

I have a similar question for the guys. What's the allure about watching a girl with big toys? Much of the time, all you can see is the big toy. I'd much rather see the girl than a toy.

see i agree with you completely if the action is solo and im going to perv on it, i would rather the toy be either small, absent or inconspicuous. plus, being of deplorably average dimensions myself seeing one of those gargantuan toys just makes me meh. it takes me out of the fantasy zone completely. (not that it is easy to get into as jaded as i am ) plus when you run into the really really gigantic toys it becomes more of a "ommfg i cant believe how big it is" instead of "why, hello, what a lovely lady pleasuring herself! perhaps i shall fap to this"

 

[Rebecca Buck]

Re: Big toys for ladies

I'm a pretty small lady. To the point where I wonder if I should make it a schtick or something. Now, I've always wanted big toys. I started out with rather average stuff and an above-average cock, but when the time came where I was able to purchase my realistic dildo based on the real-life cock of a certain famous pornstar, I thought I was gonna be set for life in the dildo department. Sure enough, it's filling, and that's really all I want. Penetration and moving it around hurts unless I'm close and super wet, but even the very minimal skin-like texture is a bit much in terms of friction. But I like to be stretched and filled. However, like having too much cake, it tends to become less special after a while, so I can't use it all the time.

I would actually say it'd be recommended for some ladies to periodically try with just their hands/fingers. If anything, for the sake of diversity.

Seems like most guys on ACF don't really *need* to see a big toy, which is nice, because I'm all for people who just want the lady to have fun. It's a shame there aren't more like you out there when I'm working. I love my big toy, but I don't like starting my shift with it. It's like eating dessert first. X)

 

[mfctourist]

Re: Big toys for ladies

I'm a pretty small lady. To the point where I wonder if I should make it a schtick or something. Now, I've always wanted big toys. I started out with rather average stuff and an above-average cock, but when the time came where I was able to purchase my realistic dildo based on the real-life cock of a certain famous pornstar, I thought I was gonna be set for life in the dildo department. Sure enough, it's filling, and that's really all I want. Penetration and moving it around hurts unless I'm close and super wet, but even the very minimal skin-like texture is a bit much in terms of friction. But I like to be stretched and filled. However, like having too much cake, it tends to become less special after a while, so I can't use it all the time.

I would actually say it'd be recommended for some ladies to periodically try with just their hands/fingers. If anything, for the sake of diversity.

Seems like most guys on ACF don't really *need* to see a big toy, which is nice, because I'm all for people who just want the lady to have fun. It's a shame there aren't more like you out there when I'm working. I love my big toy, but I don't like starting my shift with it. It's like eating dessert first. X)

At the risk of being told nobody cares what I think, my opinion is that fingers are more sensual/sexier to see than toys.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I talked to my friend last night, over drinks, who is a midwife of 20 + yrs, and a nurse.

She was saying that the way that a womans body will respond to large items (fists, bedposts, toys) will depend on their bodies, and varies widely. some women have very elastic stretchy vagina's and some will lose muscle tone. kegels help.

maybe this explains some of the confusion?

That's more like it, because I've seen some vaginas that look like they've been thru several world wars, so I wasn't buying all the posts that said they go right back to their original shape and tightness. Maybe some (or most) do, but definitely not all.

The outside appearance (other than a large GAPING hole you can see into) does not affect the tightness. My labia are large, and look very meaty. I really hope that men don't look at them and think "wow she has a lot of sex" "she isnt tight".... thats just the way they are. And I love them the way they are. Those are my LIPS they are on the outside... not the inside.

 

[mfctourist]

I talked to my friend last night, over drinks, who is a midwife of 20 + yrs, and a nurse.

She was saying that the way that a womans body will respond to large items (fists, bedposts, toys) will depend on their bodies, and varies widely. some women have very elastic stretchy vagina's and some will lose muscle tone. kegels help.

maybe this explains some of the confusion?

That's more like it, because I've seen some vaginas that look like they've been thru several world wars, so I wasn't buying all the posts that said they go right back to their original shape and tightness. Maybe some (or most) do, but definitely not all.

The outside appearance (other than a large GAPING hole you can see into) does not affect the tightness. My labia are large, and look very meaty. I really hope that men don't look at them and think "wow she has a lot of sex" "she isnt tight".... thats just the way they are. And I love them the way they are. Those are my LIPS they are on the outside... not the inside.

I don't know which part others were referring to, but I was referring to the inside, not the labia.

 

[Nordling]

So, may we assume you carry a speculum around with you so you actually see these war-weary vaginas?

 

[Alexandra Cole]

At the risk of being told nobody cares what I think, my opinion is that fingers are more sensual/sexier to see than toys.

Fingers are more sensual to me too, whether those are my own fingers or someone else's. There's more subtlety. And that can be incredibly hot, like one long, exquisite tease, or that can be incredibly frustrating, like there's this one place that's just out of reach and the more I touch myself, the worse it gets.

I know what you mean, though, from a visual perspective. When I watch someone else, there's something about fingers that does something to me.

But I guess what I love most is when I get the sense that they genuinely enjoy it, whatever it is they're doing.