Being dumped.

[AudriTwo]

Well beat me up a little more I didn't have full total when I first posted but I do now. Thanks for your input but didn't post to be called a lier. Don't respond if you are going to bash me. I have never bashed the model just wanted to get input on why a model will do this. If you want models name maybe you can get the reason because I can't. Please be nice I would never bash you.

So what do you want? Sympathy? Pitty? Reassurance you are a good person? She did it because you were no longer financially beneficial to her because she is a cammodel. You cannot buy friendship, only company.

I really find it baffling some of you members think it's your responsibility and bragging rights to pay for someone else's schooling. I banned someone who reminded me they gave me $5k for school. No you gave me money to perform bitch. You cannot take ownership for what I spend my money on.

 

[Emberblaze]

It was me at beginning that posted and was taken care of. Was someone being rude. That's why I haven't posted since.

Yes someone was being rude. YOU WERE.

No one else even had the chance to speak to you and you flipped out.

 

[JickyJuly]

It ended because she wasn't your girlfriend. You were trying to buy something that wasn't for sale. That's not generosity. You're no more giving than she is. She took your money not your heart. You were not dumped. It's hard to decipher if you were even duped.

 

[Wolf_3_5_9]

Sorry to here that but I hope you know why it ended because I don't. Just left hanging.

The models here have been pretty unanimous in their answer to that. It’s because she saw your “relationship” as a financial opportunity that dried up, you were too attached/draining, or both.

Nobody is saying, “oh she probably hit the ban button on accident. I’m sure she still loves you.”

Just because you don’t like the answer, it doesn’t mean it’s being rude. Not sure what you are seeking in posting here, but if it’s an answer to “why?”, you’ve got it. If you’re looking for loving sympathy, you’re probably in the wrong place.

 

[Phoenix4987]

Bragging that you're just a giving person and laying out figures for every cent you give out doesn't make you a giving person. Like you do it in the hopes for recognition as if to say "Look what I did for you" while you silently say "What can you do for me?" You write over and over again that "you don't ask for much in return" but here you are complaining a storm about a girl who didn't want to give you what you really wanted: a meaningful relationship.

We say it over and over again. Tokens and $ can buy lots of different things from sex workers, but true love and friendship is not something that can either be bought or held over someone's head to try and make them submit for it.

 

[52 kisses]

I was supporting a model on mfc for about 9 months. Spent over 20k on to help support her and her sister. I put myself in a little debt and told model wouldn't be able to tip as much and she dumped me. Blocked and banned me from everything. Won't talk or reply to any messages I send her. Anyone else ever had this problem. We were pretty close. Chatted daily. I'm personally hurt because we were so close. Please let me know what your opinions are. And please don't say I was a sucker because I already know that. I'm a very giving person

OK I get the point it was all my fault to try and help someone out that I cared for. I never asked to meet her. Loved her as a friend. Helped her when she needed help. When you cam twice a day and can't reach goals I was there to help. When she need a amazon gift card to by a security system I was first to respond. So I guess I'm the bad guy. I was just looking for input. And I got that and more.

 

[52 kisses]

Bragging that you're just a giving person and laying out figures for every cent you give out doesn't make you a giving person. Like you do it in the hopes for recognition as if to say "Look what I did for you" while you silently say "What can you do for me?" You write over and over again that "you don't ask for much in return" but here you are complaining a storm about a girl who didn't want to give you what you really wanted: a meaningful relationship.

We say it over and over again. Tokens and $ can buy lots of different things from sex workers, but true love and friendship is not something that can either be bought or held over someone's head to try and make them submit for it.

Were do you get I'm bragging. I spent a lot of money and was dumped with out a reason. You going to tell me you would just move on. I don't think so.

 

[Mintx]

Okay but... it doesn't sound like a loving relationship or anything more than a business interaction.

Also if someone wanted to say they were going into debt for me, I'd be kind of turned off and freaked out that someone would think that's what they should be doing to show support.

 

[52 kisses]

Okay but... it doesn't sound like a loving relationship or anything more than a business interaction.

Also if someone wanted to say they were going into debt for me, I'd be kind of turned off and freaked out that someone would think that's what they should be doing to show support.

But would you just dump them or let them stay around and be there for support until get back on feet. I helped her reach her goals. I would hope that she would do the same. She said she will always be there for me.

 

[Phoenix4987]

Were do you get I'm bragging. I spent a lot of money and was dumped with out a reason. You going to tell me you would just move on. I don't think so.

Oh...I don't know.....

I was supporting a model on mfc for about 9 months. Spent over 20k on to help support her and her sister. I put myself in a little debt

For the money I spent I have I pic and to videos.

I gave a guy I only new for 2 days $500.00 so he could pay his taxes.

Helped her when she needed help. When you cam twice a day and can't reach goals I was there to help. When she need a amazon gift card to by a security system I was first to respond.

I helped her reach her goals.

Maybe it's just all in my head....

 

[Dan Epstein]

I was never dumped by bartender, the bouncers however...She was not your girlfriend dude.

 

[AudriTwo]

OK I get the point it was all my fault to try and help someone out that I cared for. I never asked to meet her. Loved her as a friend. Helped her when she needed help. When you cam twice a day and can't reach goals I was there to help. When she need a amazon gift card to by a security system I was first to respond. So I guess I'm the bad guy. I was just looking for input. And I got that and more.

i wouldn't call you stupid. i would call you reckless and naive. you should just quit camsites, and go speak to a counselor.

 

[52 kisses]

I was never dumped by bartender, the bouncers however...She was not your girlfriend dude.

No she wasn't just someone I met and tried to help her reach her dreams. But I guess we shouldn't do that. Just makes us bad guys.

 

[Mila_]

When I am in a relationship of any kind, even as a customer, and it ends suddenly and in a bad way, the first thing I do is ask myself if did anything wrong. Have you asked yourself this question?

 

[52 kisses]

i wouldn't call you stupid. i would call you reckless and naive. you should just quit camsites, and go speak to a counselor.

Were would cam models be if we went to counselors. I told her over and over I was there for her even if I couldn't tip. I used the wrong term when I said debt. I should of said short on cash this month.

 

[AudriTwo]

Were would cam models be if we went to counselors. I told her over and over I was there for her even if I couldn't tip. I used the wrong term when I said debt. I should of said short on cash this month.

well we'd have less clingy customers who understand and respect boundaries. also isn't draining away their life savings for attention. also customers who are a lot more responsible. also not act like the victim to situations and circumstances they created. like accountability.

No she wasn't just someone I met and tried to help her reach her dreams. But I guess we shouldn't do that. Just makes us bad guys.

 

[52 kisses]

When I am in a relationship of any kind, even as a customer, and it ends suddenly and in a bad way, the first thing I do is ask myself if did anything wrong. Have you asked yourself this question?

Over and over. Up to the day she dumped she said I was a great guy and thank for all the support. Even other regulars didn't see why. There was one reg that got super jealous so I started tipping outside room. Thinking he might have had something to do with it.

 

[CoffeeKnight]

Were would cam models be if we went to counselors. I told her over and over I was there for her even if I couldn't tip. I used the wrong term when I said debt. I should of said short on cash this month.

Is that your take away? That if you had used a different term you would still be in contact and paying for her tuition and her sister's tuition? I strongly suggest you do some evaluating in your life and speak to a professional.

 

[Dan Epstein]

Courtley Love is for English mid-terms.
No one is in online freelance for altruistic reasons.

 

[52 kisses]

Would you all be happy if I gave models name so you can get her side. I'm not crazy. I can afford what I'm doing. I learned from todays conversations that models can't be trusted. There are no good models out there. And what ever they say don't believe. Well I better tell current model she is a fake that's her only for my money. I want thank you all for your input. Now time to relay what I found out. Everyone need to know the truth.

 

[52 kisses]

Is that your take away? That if you had used a different term you would still be in contact and paying for her tuition and her sister's tuition? I strongly suggest you do some evaluating in your life and speak to a professional.

Your right I need help to be a mean selfish person

 

[heybarkeep]

Onsite tho? Like you couldn't just kinda botch it with insite? Let me offer you some insight op, you weren't dumped, not even a possibility here. Your failure to understand that and complete lack of bro on so many levels incites anger in me.

 

[Wolf_3_5_9]

Were would cam models be if we went to counselors. I told her over and over I was there for her even if I couldn't tip. I used the wrong term when I said debt. I should of said short on cash this month.

FFS, do you use a casino for your investment banking? Cam models are running an entertainment business, not a dating site. Being “there for her” means jack squat if she can’t make money.

 

[CoffeeKnight]

Your right I need help to be a mean selfish person

Or maybe learn the difference between a dating/friendship site and sex workers doing their job. Stop playing the victim.

 

[52 kisses]

Onsite tho? Like you couldn't just kinda botch it with insite? Let me offer you some insight op, you weren't dumped, not even a possibility here. Your failure to understand that and complete lack of bro on so many levels incites anger in me.

Ty for your knowledgeable incite. Means a lot

 

[justjoinedtopost]

There was one reg that got super jealous so I started tipping outside room. Thinking he might have had something to do with it.

Now we are getting somewhere...

 

[52 kisses]

FFS, do you use a casino for your investment banking? Cam models are running an entertainment business, not a dating site. Being “there for her” means jack squat if she can’t make money.

Were are your getting your info I supported her even after she dumped me. Never said I wanted to date her. Please read before commenting. Ty

 

[52 kisses]

Or maybe learn the difference between a dating/friendship site and sex workers doing their job. Stop playing the victim.

Is anyone reading before posting. Never said I wanted to date her. Was just helping her.

 

[Emberblaze]

OP you're a trainwreck that thinks a model owes you free attention even when you are no longer paying for her services. The sooner you realize THIS IS A REAL JOB AND PAYING FOR OUR SERVICES IN THE PAST DOESN'T MEAN YOU GET THEM FOR FREE AFTER YOU STOP PAYING the sooner you can calm your tits and let this go.

If you cancel your netflix membership are you going to email them and tell them you will still be there for them and expect free services? No. Why? BECAUSE YOU ACKNOWLEDGE THAT IS A REAL BUSINESS.

But guess what? So is cam work.

The models aren't crooked. YOU ARE CROOKED for expecting something from a model other than the PAID SERVICES she offers.

*explodes with fury*

 

[AudriTwo]

Is anyone reading before posting. Never said I wanted to date her. Was just helping her.

SHE NO LONGER WANTS YOUR HELP. SHE SAW THAT YOU WERE NO LONGER FINANCIALLY BENEFICIAL TO HER SO SHE BANNED YOU. NOW IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON.


honestly after your meltdown of a thread, OP, i can see why she banned you. we've all done it before. had that one reg that was extra extra clingy, but he is nice and pays so he gets a pass. but once he gets to a point where he is worth more trouble than he is worth, cut your loss. that's the real truth. you told her you were broke and she saw this as an opportunity to finally cut you off.