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actually you said this...
so how can we twist the words "im a one model man never tip others"
did you even read the thread OP?
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I think OP would be a brilliant candidate for the tide pod challenge.
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So you tipped her once forever ago? I'm sure she's so hurt now that you think poorly of her.
In regards to the actual topic. I understand that you felt your large amount of money sent this models way should have cushioned your relationship with her but if you respected her work at all you would have understood where you stand. You were generous with your money and spent tons and got what? Messages off site? Extra in room benefits? The cheeriest greetings?
Money=models attention
Small amount of money=small amount of friendly attention
Lots of money=lots of friendly attention
No money does not equal lots of friendly attention still.
If you were still pushing for the same amount of attention then I can see why you were banned. You need to respect her work, let her know you can't spend as much right now so you will be around a little less/quieter than normal. Step aside so she can focus her attention and energy on new tippers. That's respecting her and her work. If she continues giving you the same level of attention without getting payed then she's ruining her chances of making money and doing business with others who can actually pay right now.
Most models who enjoy the reg who spends on them will just reel in the amount of attention she gives him so as to do just as I stated above but still allow him to hang out. If any of my regs had come to me saying they need to spend less Id thank them for letting me know and once again tell them how much I appreciate what they have contributed and be happy that they were honest about their own finances but I would stop giving them so much attention. I would be friendly without neglecting my current tippers only if I truly enjoyed that regs company and he had respect enough for me to know his new place in my room.
If he controlled the room conversation or messaged me too much when I was trying my hardest to replace the lost income then he would not be allowed to stay.
Sorry things did not end well for you but don't let your troll side come out because we aren't feeling sorry for you and bashing a model to help your bruised ego. These things can happen, best thing to do is move on and learn from this. If you are that jaded that you want to troll everyone and cry fake model at every pass then maybe take a break from cam sites for awhile or forever.
If ever there’s a “Members’ Handbook” section of this forum that is made, this should be in there.
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When you log on and see that this has gone from 0 replies to 4 pages overnight
Time to do some catching up
Time to do some catching up
I'm just sad he didn't mention how he never even saw her naked. I would have had bingo on my card if he did.When you log on and see that this has gone from 0 replies to 4 pages overnight
Time to do some catching up
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There goes the queen again with the drama
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@52 kisses How come you are answering everyone's question except for mine? I'm feeling like I've been dumped too now :,(
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This was beautiful and also scary. I can't believe some people genuinely think like he does. He's obviously not thinking at all.
OP needs help.
OP needs help.
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While browsing sugar daddy profiles, I came across one of a dude saying he wants his sugar baby's attention 24/7. Um...wtf? Look, I don't care how much of an allowance you may be offering (I don't even think this dude's displayed income range was that good)...that is just unrealistic...and draining.
Maybe this model felt that all the things you expected of her were draining and sucking up her energy. Maybe she felt like explaining this to you would be like talking to a wall, and you'd just get defensive and not respect her feelings. So she felt that banning you with no explanation was the only solution?
From just going off of what you said...if I were in her shoes, I would've gone about it differently. I would've given you a straightforward explanation of why this arrangement will not work, and I would see if we could explore other less draining options. If I felt like you're being argumentative...getting too defensive...acting entitled...or just not respecting my feelings/boundaries, that's when I would have banned you.
But you are just giving us your side of the story. For all we know, her version of the story could be that you were calling her phone at hours of the night while she's sleeping...PMing her to death the whole time she's on cam...texting her every hour asking her to "Send me some pics." Etc.
Maybe this model felt that all the things you expected of her were draining and sucking up her energy. Maybe she felt like explaining this to you would be like talking to a wall, and you'd just get defensive and not respect her feelings. So she felt that banning you with no explanation was the only solution?
From just going off of what you said...if I were in her shoes, I would've gone about it differently. I would've given you a straightforward explanation of why this arrangement will not work, and I would see if we could explore other less draining options. If I felt like you're being argumentative...getting too defensive...acting entitled...or just not respecting my feelings/boundaries, that's when I would have banned you.
But you are just giving us your side of the story. For all we know, her version of the story could be that you were calling her phone at hours of the night while she's sleeping...PMing her to death the whole time she's on cam...texting her every hour asking her to "Send me some pics." Etc.
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“You can’t buy friendship” doesn’t mean friendship doesn’t happen. You just can’t BUY IT DUMMY
Just these four pages were draining. I can only imagine what the model in question put up with.
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I think a lot people on here have articulated this quite well already, particularly a few models who have indicated that they would be kind enough to a long-time tipper to try to either let them down easy or be courteous and respectful when things came to a conclusion. In general, I think ghosting on someone, including a formerly-paying customer, is bad form. But more than that, it's bad business.
Most models that I know are happy to have a polite, occasionally-tipping dude hanging around, as long as he keeps up positive energy and isn't demanding. OP, you should really ask yourself just how bad things had to be for her to be willing to cut off someone who had paid $20k over 9 months, knowing that doing so precluded any future payments.
Finally, I think that there are a few things you should probably work out about yourself before you come back to cam sites. But if and when you do come back, why don't you try tipping a bit less, over a longer period of time? For the majority of models, tipping $500 - $1000 / month on a regular basis is noticeable and enough to get you some amount of attention and appreciation. And then you might not run out of money so quickly...
Most models that I know are happy to have a polite, occasionally-tipping dude hanging around, as long as he keeps up positive energy and isn't demanding. OP, you should really ask yourself just how bad things had to be for her to be willing to cut off someone who had paid $20k over 9 months, knowing that doing so precluded any future payments.
Finally, I think that there are a few things you should probably work out about yourself before you come back to cam sites. But if and when you do come back, why don't you try tipping a bit less, over a longer period of time? For the majority of models, tipping $500 - $1000 / month on a regular basis is noticeable and enough to get you some amount of attention and appreciation. And then you might not run out of money so quickly...
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Do you use the same username everywhere and what camsites do you use?
This post left me puzzled for a couple of minutes while I was trying to figure out what Courtney Love had to do with all this.
I once took a social psychology class where the professor wrote this relationship "equation" on the board.
MEN
-career/money
WOMEN
-youth/beauty
-kids
So basically, you will control the relationship if the things in your column outweighs the things in his/her column. So as a man, if you feel like she is losing interest, you get that promotion and start making more money. As a woman, if his eyes are starting to wander, you get cosmetic surgery or have his kid.
I made one for cam models
MEMBER
-total amount you spend
MODEL
-total amount she gets from other high tippers
-real life significant others
So you see OP, 20k in a vacuum doesn't really mean anything. How much does she get from other tippers? How much can she potentially get from other tippers? Does she have a boyfriend or husband in real life? Models will always say you were rightfully dumped because it's just business. But they also have many members they haven't dumped because they spend enough. Also, being needy/demanding/stalkerish is a minus in the member column.
MEN
-career/money
WOMEN
-youth/beauty
-kids
So basically, you will control the relationship if the things in your column outweighs the things in his/her column. So as a man, if you feel like she is losing interest, you get that promotion and start making more money. As a woman, if his eyes are starting to wander, you get cosmetic surgery or have his kid.
I made one for cam models
MEMBER
-total amount you spend
MODEL
-total amount she gets from other high tippers
-real life significant others
So you see OP, 20k in a vacuum doesn't really mean anything. How much does she get from other tippers? How much can she potentially get from other tippers? Does she have a boyfriend or husband in real life? Models will always say you were rightfully dumped because it's just business. But they also have many members they haven't dumped because they spend enough. Also, being needy/demanding/stalkerish is a minus in the member column.
You got me there, it’s basically worshipping a woman on a pedestal, without actually fulfilling your love. Could work in many niche categories I guess...A horrible mid term just flashbacks in my mind.
I ain't no Sherlock but when I opened this thread I thought this guy and Qewr where the same person maybe brothers from another mother and now this is 4 pages deep I am still thinking it 
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I'm sitting back and just in tears from laughter at the remarks that I have received. First time I have ever posted in a forum and it made 4 pages of people not knowing wtf they are taking about. Some of the models awnsers were down embarrassing. Would never even think of going in your room. I have been on mfc since it first started and this is the best time I have ever had. The model In ? Is Ruby Sparx ex porn star. She is funny and fun to chat Skype, snap phone with, all around great gal. I will miss her. Do I honesty now why she let me go, no I don't. I did something wrong I'm sure. Do I regret spoiling her like I did. No I don't. When I first started this post it was a real ?. But after hearing some of the stupid pull it out of the behind answers I got I just played on. Hard to even type I'm laughing so hard. This is what getting played is. 4 pages wow.
Is anyone familiar with the word Cabrón ?
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