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Hey ladies, had my first go 'on cam' last night i was sooo nervous. I only popped on for about 30 mins and already my cam score has gone down :( Dang! Anyway hopefully i'll be able to sort it out soon..

Can anybody advise what my first room topic should be? I started with 'tip 50 for boob flash' ... not very inventive i know lol!

Thanks for all the advice,
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xxx
 
hey ladies- quick question - if I have a token countdown (i.e 500 tokens to naked) Can I get my topic to adjust automatically for do I have to adjust it with each tip?


many thanks in advance
xxx
 
LacyLaila said:
hey ladies- quick question - if I have a token countdown (i.e 500 tokens to naked) Can I get my topic to adjust automatically for do I have to adjust it with each tip?


many thanks in advance
xxx

If you're on MFC, then yes, you have to update it manually as people tip towards it. I use the calculator on my computer open to make it easier to keep track, which works very well.
 
In need of so much help.
I started on MFC October of last year, I didn't do too well. I made enough monthly to pay rent, but, I wasn't doing too well. I ended up having to take time off, like the last 2 months.
I had 0 regulars before, and I just started back on cam 2 nights ago. My cam score is dropping drastically and fast. I can't get a huge number, or even a reasonable number, of people in my room. And most don't want to tip and just ask for stuff. I get on and spend an hour, get maybe 3 small tips for flashes, then get off because I just suck. Lol. I finally got some videos made and will be able to sale those soon, hopefully that will help me some. I need some ideas and tips on how to get my room to be more entertaining. I have watched many girls on MFC (I actually started on MFC because I was on so much watching other models) and took notes on what they are doing. I have tried being friendly and chating with them, but no one seems to talk, its like having a conversation with myself. I have tried games, but no one seems at all interested in that. How do I make this better??
Sorry I wrote so much. Thanks.
 
I have one question. I want to be paid via Payoneer, but they demand to answer a few questions on their website

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How did you girls answer these questions?
 
Professor said:
I have one question. I want to be paid via Payoneer, but they demand to answer a few questions on their website

payoneer-questionnaire.jpg


How did you girls answer these questions?

If you sign up with a Payoneer partner (myfreecams, streamate, extralunchmoney, etc.) you won't have to go through all of that and it will automatically be saved in your payment options to use it for payouts.
 
Hello!

I am not sure if this si teh right place or I shoudl make a topic of my own- But I'd rather post here than flooding the forum, I'm sorry if it's the wrong place

So, I've been thinking on becoming a camgirl, and however I did all my research and preparations, I have one question--

To apply to MFC, they ask you to send some pictures of yourself. What kind of photos do you girls recommend I send? I can't afford a studio photoshoot right now- But I do have a professional camera and I guess I could work something out by myself. My biggest question is just what content I should send. Like.. If it's just regular face and body pictures or if I should send something on some poses-- If it needs to be nude and those kind of things

Can someone give me some idea on what I can do about that?
 
Pheobee said:
Hello!

I am not sure if this si teh right place or I shoudl make a topic of my own- But I'd rather post here than flooding the forum, I'm sorry if it's the wrong place

So, I've been thinking on becoming a camgirl, and however I did all my research and preparations, I have one question--

To apply to MFC, they ask you to send some pictures of yourself. What kind of photos do you girls recommend I send? I can't afford a studio photoshoot right now- But I do have a professional camera and I guess I could work something out by myself. My biggest question is just what content I should send. Like.. If it's just regular face and body pictures or if I should send something on some poses-- If it needs to be nude and those kind of things

Can someone give me some idea on what I can do about that?

Regular photos are just fine (headshot and/or full body with visible face) and no nudity required. :)
 
Hi!

I've been thinking of becoming a model for MFC for a while, since I discovered it from a girl on Tumblr. I searched what it was to be a cam girl and the advantages/disadvantages of the job. I have occasionally watched some chats (especially, Amber) and the girls always seemed very comfortable and happy with what they were doing. Then I just thought: Why not?

I need extra money and I'm tired of going to job interviews where I know I will not be hired. Sad, but true.

Anyway, I don't know where to begin. I don't know how many tokens ask for a private chat or add me as a friend. I don't even know what to write about me on the sign up page of MFC. :crybaby:

Thank you! Hope somebody can help.
 
spielmitmir said:
Hi!

I've been thinking of becoming a model for MFC for a while, since I discovered it from a girl on Tumblr. I searched what it was to be a cam girl and the advantages/disadvantages of the job. I have occasionally watched some chats (especially, Amber) and the girls always seemed very comfortable and happy with what they were doing. Then I just thought: Why not?

I need extra money and I'm tired of going to job interviews where I know I will not be hired. Sad, but true.

Anyway, I don't know where to begin. I don't know how many tokens ask for a private chat or add me as a friend. I don't even know what to write about me on the sign up page of MFC. :crybaby:

Thank you! Hope somebody can help.

I need extra money and I'm tired of going to job interviews where I know I will not be hired. Sad, but true.

Hi,

first of all, if you really need money and/or have given up on finding a 'normal' job, keep in mind the possibility that you might fail at camming - it's not for everyone, it might not work out for you, and you definitely shouldn't stop applying for jobs or going to interviews until you find that you consistently make your monthly goal on a camsite!


I don't know how many tokens ask for a private chat
You don't have to worry about prices for private shows, they're always either 60 or 80 tokens per minute.
Normal privates are 60.
TruePrivates are 80.
The difference between those two is that in a normal private, other members (who are not the member who started the private and pays 60 per minute) can spy on you, and they pay for that. 20 tokens per minute to be precise. In a TruePrivate, the show is entirely between you and the member who started it, and nobody else can spy on you. So you lose out on money from potential spies. That's why the member pays 80, and not 60 like in a normal private.
- Some girls only accept TruePrivates because they either feel like they make more money that way, or they don't want anyone to spy, ever.
- Other girls accept TruePrivates sometimes, like when they're fulfilling specific fetishes and they don't want anyone other than the member who started the private to be able to watch.
- Other girls only accept normal privates because they make a lot of money through spies, or they're simply happy with 60 per minute.
You'll find out soon enough what works best for you.

or add me as a friend.
About friend adds:
The whole point of friend adds is that not everyone can send you a PM.
New models get overwhelmed by PMs very fast when they're broadcasting.
Lots of guys will send you PMs you don't want to get, such as
- trying to get free personal attention in the form of small talk
- trying to get free dirty talk from you
- trying to suggest off-site payment like PayPal (NEVER ACCEPT PAYPAL. NEVER.) or gift cards for Skype shows
- trying to 'help you' by giving advice that might be with good intentions, but might be misleading. Please accept advice from us models here on the forum, rather than from members who not always but often just want to get an advantage from your lack of camming experience, saying things like 'If you give us a free flash, your room will fill up and people will start tipping you!' No. Don't do that. No one will tip you if you're giving things away for free.)

^ So for those reasons, you won't want to get PMs from people who are not on your friends list.

Some girls handle this by asking for a certain amount of tokens to get on their friendslist, like you suggested. The problem with this is that if you take 100 tokens for a friend add, that guy might tip you 100 and then never tip again - but instead annoy you with PMs every time you're online and then get mad when you won't reply immediately, because after all he tipped for it. That stress is not worth the $5 in my opinion.
I prefer just adding people to my friendslist who
- are in my room a lot
- tip regularly
- I actually like, so I don't mind PMing them and having them PM me
You can also add someone to your friendslist temporarily if you don't know them but need a quick PM conversation with them because they're seriously interested in talking about a private. They might want to know if you'll be ready to fulfill their expectations in private, but might not want to ask about it in public chat. There's no problem with that, but remove them from your list and end the conversation once you start getting they only want to go on and on about their expectations for the private, without actually making the private happen. Those guys are timewasters who you shouldn't focus your attention on in PM, when you could be chatting with people in your public chat.

This is an example of something that happened to me in PM when I started out.

Member: Hi, I love seeing girls in schoolgirl outfits, do you have a schoolgirl outfit you could wear in a private show?
Me: Hi, I have a white blouse and a little skirt.
Member: Sounds nice. Have you done any teacher/schoolgirl roleplay before?
Me: No
Member: Would you want to try it?
Me: Sure, if you take me private, I'd love to.
Member: Yeah? Do you want to be my little slutty schoolgirl?
Me: We will see once the private starts ;)
Member: Tell me how bad you want my cock (blah blah blah more stupid dirty talk)
Of course he didn't end up taking me private. He just wanted to get off via PM, for free. He wanted me to talk dirty to him while neglecting my public chat.
Watch out for timewasters.
In general, always focus your attention on public chat and not on PMs.


Read more about private shows and other features in the MFC wiki.
Even though that page is part of the information for members, I'd suggest that you read through the whole page (or at least the parts 'Account Types' and 'Spending Tokens'. That way you'll have an advantage to other new girls already because you know what certain terms mean, how much different shows cost, what member types there are.

Also take a look at Camgirl Wiki. Lots of great advice put together by Amber and some other experienced girls from the forum.

More important than all of this is that once you're an MFC model, you come back to this forum to get verified!
Then you'll get access to the models only section which is a treasure chest of information.



I don't even know what to write about me on the sign up page of MFC.
When I signed up I just wrote something like 'I'm a fun girl next door who loves getting naughty online so I thought I'd try being a camgirl! I'm interested in music, movies, my friends and the internet.' It doesn't get much more boring than that.
To be honest, it doesn't matter what you write there as long as you write something that shows you're a real human being and that you want to be a camgirl. As far as we know, MFC accepts every girl who applies, as long as they've sent in everything they need, and are not from one of the countries on their blacklist. Don't worry about your application not being accepted by MFC just because you didn't write an interesting enough 'about me'. They accept everyone.


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Aw. I only just saw that her post was from 3 weeks ago so she's probably not seeing this novel I just wrote.. Oh well, hopefully it can help out someone else?
 
Hello!

I would like to get help from girls here.
I am thinking to work MFC.
I live in Japan and wandering what is the good time to work (the most active and high traffic time) for MFC?
I assume 8PM to 1Am ish EST is good time?
Thank you for you advise!
 
LilyMarie said:
Aw. I only just saw that her post was from 3 weeks ago so she's probably not seeing this novel I just wrote.. Oh well, hopefully it can help out someone else?

But it was a really good novella.. Save it and cut it paste it for the next girl....:D
 
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Chat questions

Hello there! This site is seriously a goldmine of information, but I have been having trouble finding info on how to use chat features on MFC. For example, I want to display a watermark, or a pic of my tip menu, etc. Also, I have seen a lot of girls talk about setting timers but cant find that option. Can anyone help me out or direct me to the right thread?

Thanks :)
 
Re: Chat questions

KalinaKitty said:
Hello there! This site is seriously a goldmine of information, but I have been having trouble finding info on how to use chat features on MFC. For example, I want to display a watermark, or a pic of my tip menu, etc. Also, I have seen a lot of girls talk about setting timers but cant find that option. Can anyone help me out or direct me to the right thread?

Thanks :)

~ For a watermark on your feed, most girls use ManyCam (a program you run your webcam through where you can add text, effects, change the color balance, etc.)

~ I assume you want to display the tip menu on your profile - You'll need to make the graphic in an image editor (Paint, Photoshop, GIMP, etc.), upload it to a photo host (I recommend Imgur; be sure to make an account so you can store your images and access them whenever you need to), and then put the image on your profile using the following HTML code and the direct url of the picture:

<img src="DIRECT IMAGE URL GOES HERE" />

~ There is no timer feature on MFC (there are timer emoticons, but personally I prefer a nice BEEP to make sure guys know the countdown is over.) You can set one on your phone, or use an in-browser one like e.ggtimer.

~ And of course the biggest tip: Definitely get verified as a model! You'll have access to a lot more information about graphics/setting timers/best programs to use for webcams/etc.

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Hi everybody,

First of all I am so glad to have found this forum with all these gorgeous and sweet girls! I hope you don't mind my questions.
I am very new to camming. I've thought about it for a long time but never did it (was married, had a baby and was uncomfortable with my body for a while etc. etc.), and now that I'm newly single and could use some extra $$$ next to my part time bartending job I thought why the hell not? It seems like fun :)

So I signed up for MFC, got accepted and went online last night to kinda see what the drill is and how this stuff works, and I found myself a little overwhelmed and not really knowing what to do, so I'm hoping you girls can help me out!
A lot of guys started privately chatting to me, and most of them wanted Skype sessions to which I declined, I'm not doing Skype sessions, or at least not yet. So how do you get someone to go into private session with you? How do you politely discuss before hand what you do and don't do? And how far did you go when you started out? It made me a little nervous to have all these guys talking to me. I don't have any sextoys, and I'd love to hear some experiences because it seems so weird/different to suddenly play with myself in front of a cam. How do you set/find your boundaries?
Also, when I was chatting the mic kept going in between no volume/low volume, I can't seem to find what the problem is because I have a Mac with an automatic built in cam and mic so it should just work?
Sorry for all these super basic questions but I'd really love to hear your first time experiences, so that I can develop myself a little more in this webcamming world :)

Thanks so much! I look forward to your answers :)










I'm new to camming technically haven't even started them yet what are the best sites for a newbie
 
So I know this is an older thread, but I'm desperately lodt in how to fix up my profile >.>
I've looked at alot of things online and on here, but I just don't get it. I'm trying to fix up my HTML code, so I can have the links, buttons, pictures, gifs, maybe even videos if I make some. But I'm so terribly lost, I can't figure it out.....if anyone can help I'd be forever grateful
 
Hey :hello2:

Welcome new girl.
It amazes me the way guys will PM a girl to death with purely daily chit chat BS. Clear it out and Close your pm list first off... let them in sparingly or for a fee so you can at least build a room before you kill yourself over the pm thing. Many reserve them for discussing whats wanted or done in privates. Some let you in for private show 'negotiations', and then close the door right after. Also, dont be afraid to tell a member to please chat in public and save pm for personal things.
Set your own boundaries. If its not comfortable for you to show the world, dont show it. Simple as that. Time will also help you with this. As you settle in you will feel less overwhelmed with all the "see my cam BB/ wanna see me cum BB/ finger ass/fist bb" bullshit.
Also, as far as I have heard from guys on MFC, Skype is usually all about getting the girl to run wayyyy past her supposed time limit for free. Sort of a bargain basement or fire sale cheap show .... kind of a trophy to some guys here.
After you get model status here... Read, read, read.... :-D

Have fun !!
Hello..is there anyone can tell me how to connect ohmibod vibrator in mfc or chaturbate
thanks answer appreciated
 
Aw. I only just saw that her post was from 3 weeks ago so she's probably not seeing this novel I just wrote.. Oh well, hopefully it can help out someone else?

I read this when I started doing research and it gave me so much insight! Just wanted to say thanks! :)
 
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I use the Logitech C920 and LOVE it! Short codes like "PLS" for "please" drive me nuts. I have to change my text on my Streamate feed sometimes, too. Tried MFC, but didn't have as much luck as other networks.

BB, hru. pls rd my pst and rspnd so i feel wlcm in the frms. You dck hrd rdng ths pst I wrote 4 u, as if I ws too drnk to type ?

Ugh... I'm articulate and that shit drives me NUTS.
 
Well, I'm a guy who spends some money and time with camgirls so it might help to have the perspective of a customer.

Hi everybody,

First of all I am so glad to have found this forum with all these gorgeous and sweet girls! I hope you don't mind my questions.
I am very new to camming. I've thought about it for a long time but never did it (was married, had a baby and was uncomfortable with my body for a while etc. etc.), and now that I'm newly single and could use some extra $$$ next to my part time bartending job I thought why the hell not? It seems like fun :)

So I signed up for MFC, got accepted and went online last night to kinda see what the drill is and how this stuff works, and I found myself a little overwhelmed and not really knowing what to do, so I'm hoping you girls can help me out!
A lot of guys started privately chatting to me, and most of them wanted Skype sessions to which I declined, I'm not doing Skype sessions, or at least not yet. So how do you get someone to go into private session with you?

One thing that's important is balance in what you wear. You have to show enough to get guys thinking about sex with you but not so much that he starts masturbating. If I saw you topless in free, or maybe even a topless picture of you, I might start masturbating. On the other hand, if you're not showing cleavage, camel toes, or a lot of leg I'll probably look for a more scantily clad woman even if she's not as hot. Most camgirls who got me in private were wearing a bra and panties or bikini. That got me thinking about sex with them but I still wanted to see more.

Another thing you can do is pm guys. I went into private with almost every cam girl who did that. I went into private with every cam girl who pm-ed me and said something dirty.

How do you politely discuss before hand what you do and don't do? And how far did you go when you started out? It made me a little nervous to have all these guys talking to me. I don't have any sextoys, and I'd love to hear some experiences because it seems so weird/different to suddenly play with myself in front of a cam. How do you set/find your boundaries?
Also, when I was chatting the mic kept going in between no volume/low volume, I can't seem to find what the problem is because I have a Mac with an automatic built in cam and mic so it should just work?
Sorry for all these super basic questions but I'd really love to hear your first time experiences, so that I can develop myself a little more in this webcamming world :)

Thanks so much! I look forward to your answers :)
 
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Well, I'm a guy who spends some money and time with camgirls so it might help to have the perspective of a customer.



One thing that's important is balance in what you wear. You have to show enough to get guys thinking about sex with you but not so much that he starts masturbating. If I saw you topless in free, or maybe even a topless picture of you, I might start masturbating. On the other hand, if you're not showing cleavage, camel toes, or a lot of leg I'll probably look for a more scantily clad woman even if she's not as hot. Most camgirls who got me in private were wearing a bra and panties or bikini. That got me thinking about sex with them but I still wanted to see more.

Another thing you can do is pm guys. I went into private with almost every cam girl who did that. I went into private with every cam girl who pm-ed me and said something dirty.

For any new models who might be reading ^this^ advice:

There are a million different guys on camsites with a million different fetishes/interests. Just because one guy likes it doesn't mean that others will. For example, Andy just said that PMing guys and dirty-talking to them made him immediately go into private with them. MOST GUYS HATE THAT. If you look through this forum, you'll find all kinds of members complaining that a model who PMs them after just meeting for the first time is probably one of the top 5 reasons a guy will leave her room.

He also likes girls that show cleavage, leg, or camel toe. Other guys will want more of a "girl next door" look, with you in pajamas or a sweater. Others like to see feet. It all depends on each member's interests. So whenever you see "advice" like this, take it with a grain of salt. Because if you do the things suggested, you might get more viewers/tippers, but more than likely, you'll just please a handful of guys and the rest will want you wearing/doing something else.

Definitely DO try new things. You need to find what you like and what works for you. But if some guy says that the key to making big bucks is wearing pigtails and giving dildo BJs, just roll your eyes and keep doing what you want.
 
Well, I'm not new to camming, have been on Streamate since last December, but I'm totally a newbie on MFC and it's like teaching an old dog new tricks. So here I am a newbie and asking newbie questions. Please bear with me, I'll search the forum for most the answeres, but here's one I promised my guy's to figure out by today. I had several guys wanting me to watch their cams. I do have it on the tip menu, but wanted to test it out for free yesterday to see how it worked, so I didn't ask for any tips for it. I was just testing the waters and getting a feel for the chat room yesterday. So, I saw the little cam icon next to their names, but when i clicked it nothing happened. I'm sure it's something simple. I tried several times, kept clicking the icon: nothing. (does it have anything to do with having it as a link in my tip menu?) Please help. Thanks a lot girls.
 
@JessRyan clicking on a member's cam icon that is right next to their name should open up a smaller pop up window. Do you have pop ups disabled/enabled on the browser that you are using?
 
I turned off my pop up blocker. Still can't view cams. Oh well, I guess it's not meant to be. Also, I've added a couple guys as friends, can see their pm but they can't see my replies. damn

Hmmm, have never ran into that those problems before. Are you streaming via website or using the broadcast program that MFC has that you can install? I stream online, which has been fine almost all the time. All I can really think of is maybe testing out with a different browser, clearing cookies and cache, or uninstall and reinstalling their broadcaster.

I hope someone who is familiar with this problem chimes in here. Good to know just in case it happens in the future.
 
I'm streaming online not the broadcast program. I completely turned off my pop up blocker. I'm sure It's something real simple and I'll laugh when i figure it out. Funny thing, I LIKE watching cams and want to test it out before I insist on charging for it. LOL Same with the pm. I friended the guy, replied to his message and he never saw my reply. I'll do my best to figure that out. Thanks though for your help and suggestions.
 
Thank you everyone for the helpful tips. The ladies here seem to be very helpful. I am researching and getting everything ready for my first show. I have to admit I am nervous. It is helpful to have all you lovely ladies to turn to for advice. I do have a question, what is the best type of lighting to use?
 
Does anyone have any warnings and things to watch out for when starting out? I plan to start soon and I just want to be careful. And also what things should be focused on the most on the first day/week?