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One thing I have recently been doing. Not sure if this is old news to the more experienced models, but it is new to me.
I now keep a small Tupperware container with lube in it close by so I can quickly and covertly dab with a couple of fingers instead getting the getting the big lube bottle out every time.

It's a good tip, but not really talked about for some reason. I've heard of ladies putting a little bit in a bowl or plate, anything that makes it easy to dip a finger in and keep going.
 
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It's a good tip, but not really talked about for some reason. I've heard of ladies putting a little bit in a bowl or plate, anything that makes it easy to dip a finger in and keep going.
I have been keeping mine hiding just beneath my camera which is also where all the toys are. I have to bend down to grab them so no one has realized yet that I'm also getting lube.
 
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I am new here and have been on CB for the last few days. So far I am liking it. At the moment I am only doing privates there and just staying dressed in the public rooms. It’s going ok so far although I’m not getting a lot of traffic people are booking privates with me.

I have also signed up to Streamate but waiting for verification there. Has anyone done only pvts on Chaturbate can you compare to sm?

Interested to hear your opinions
 
So, I have been watching other cams and I am self conscious about my tummy. I want to get started sooner rather than later so i was thinking of wearing an underbust corset even when i shed the top and bottom, is that an okay idea? Or should I just suck it up and be totally nude? Or should I wait until I feel more comfy being completely naked? Thanks in advance
 
So, I have been watching other cams and I am self conscious about my tummy. I want to get started sooner rather than later so i was thinking of wearing an underbust corset even when i shed the top and bottom, is that an okay idea? Or should I just suck it up and be totally nude? Or should I wait until I feel more comfy being completely naked? Thanks in advance
I've gained a bit of weight in the last couple years in my tummy/midsection. The days I am feeling pretty self conscious, I do exactly that. Make an underbust corset part of the original outfit then just shed the rest/most of the outfit outside of that and keep the corset on.
 
I've gained a bit of weight in the last couple years in my tummy/midsection. The days I am feeling pretty self conscious, I do exactly that. Make an underbust corset part of the original outfit then just shed the rest/most of the outfit outside of that and keep the corset on.
Perfect! Thanks so much Amber
 
I've gained a bit of weight in the last couple years in my tummy/midsection. The days I am feeling pretty self conscious, I do exactly that. Make an underbust corset part of the original outfit then just shed the rest/most of the outfit outside of that and keep the corset on.
Perfect! Thanks so much Amber
I also wear ass-high socks pretty often for the same reason. :)
Here's an example of one just last week (forgive the boobs lol) but I feel most comfy when some of my "trouble spots" are covered, and it seems to frame the other goods nicely!

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It's a good tip, but not really talked about for some reason. I've heard of ladies putting a little bit in a bowl or plate, anything that makes it easy to dip a finger in and keep going.

I keep a shot glass half full of organic coconut oil. Perfect size to dip my dildo into and boom, ready!
 
I keep a shot glass half full of organic coconut oil. Perfect size to dip my dildo into and boom, ready!

I envy people who can keep coconut oil melted in the winter.
 
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I envy people who can keep coconut oil melted in the winter.

Mine's definitely not melted! :)

I cram it into the shot glass with a spoon, then just put the tip of the dildo in and twist it to coat the end. It melts on contact with the body so it works pretty well for me.
 
Hey, what a great thread!

I would like to ask you guys, how long did it take you to establish yourself? L

We have been doing shows every night now since end of November, so a couple of months. I also do a bit of solo cam time from work when i can to gain more followers. We are now at just under 2000 followers after camming every night (minus Xmas eve) since late november,

How long did it take you until your room was 'established'? By established i mean that you know already when you log on that you won't have to log off after a few hours empty handed or only having made a handful of tokens.
 
Can somebody tell me if you think this is a reasonable (not too high, not too low) tip menu for someone just starting up on chaturbate?

your love - 48
ass - 44
squats with titties out - 1tk/squat
tits - 39
c2c - 38
kitty - 82
feet flash - 26
spank - 15
vibrator hitachi - 149
pm - 13
wine shot or weed hit (ask me if i have it) - 70
178 - bj
400 - 30 min phone call with me after i'm done streaming for the day, or at a time that is convenient for both of us (pm your number)
braless jumping jacks - 100
anal (must be discussed first) - 1777
75 lotion boobs
hitachi and dildo at the same time for the rest of my stream - instantly with one tip of 4900tks (this also gives you texting or kik priveleges with me for a month (pm ur number n pm ur kik name if u wanna kik), as well as one phone call a week with me for 5 weeks at a time that is convenient for both of us) If you tip near the end of my stream (last 90 minutes or less) then I will either stream for an extra 2 hours than planned, OR I will do a 1.5 hour private exclusive sexy skype show with you after I get off CB for the day, your choice.

want a bbc show? 60tk/per minute NO RACIAL SLURS Unless I receive a single tip from you of 8000tks or more, thankss. leave ur skype name in my pm and i will call you after my stream or at a time that is convenient for the both of us



ALSO- I am planning on camming 6 hours at a time, but I'm a bit worried that this may be too low- is 6 hours too short or am I being hard on myself?
 
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Can somebody tell me if you think this is a reasonable (not too high, not too low) tip menu for someone just starting up on chaturbate?

your love - 48
ass - 44
squats with titties out - 1tk/squat
tits - 39
c2c - 38
kitty - 82
feet flash - 26
spank - 15
vibrator hitachi - 149
pm - 13
wine shot or weed hit (ask me if i have it) - 46
178 - bj
400 - 30 min phone call with me after i'm done streaming for the day, or at a time that is convenient for both of us (pm your number)
braless jumping jacks - 100
anal (must be discussed first) - 1777
75 lotion boobs
hitachi and dildo at the same time for the rest of my stream - instantly with one tip of 4900tks (this also gives you texting or kik priveleges with me for a month (pm ur number n pm ur kik name if u wanna kik), as well as one phone call a week with me for 5 weeks at a time that is convenient for both of us) If you tip near the end of my stream (last 90 minutes or less) then I will either stream for an extra 2 hours than planned, OR I will do a 1.5 hour private exclusive sexy skype show with you after I get off CB for the day, your choice.

want a bbc show? 60tk/per minute NO RACIAL SLURS Unless I receive a single tip from you of 8000tks or more, thankss. leave ur skype name in my pm and i will call you after my stream or at a time that is convenient for the both of us



ALSO- I am planning on camming 6 hours at a time, but I'm a bit worried that this may be too low- is 6 hours too short or am I being hard on myself?

i think it would be best to do tips in 5's instead of random numbers so they are easier for you and your regs to remember. those numbers are all over the place and might confuse someone. also remember 1 token = 5 cents.

  • your love - 48 ($2.40)
  • ass - 44 ($2.20)
  • squats with titties out - 1tk/squat ($.05)
  • tits - 39 ($1.95)
  • c2c - 38 ($1.90)
  • kitty - 82 ($4.10)
  • feet flash - 26 ($1.30)
  • spank - 15 ($0.75)
  • vibrator hitachi - 149 ($7.45)
  • pm - 13 ($0.65)
  • wine shot or weed hit (ask me if i have it) - 46 ($2.30)
  • 178 - bj ($8.90)
  • 400 - 30 min phone call with me after i'm done streaming for the day, or at a time that is convenient for both of us (pm your number) ($20)
  • braless jumping jacks - 100 ($5)
  • anal (must be discussed first) - 1777 ($88.85)

  • 75 lotion boobs ($3.75)
  • hitachi and dildo at the same time for the rest of my stream - instantly with one tip of 4900tks (this also gives you texting or kik priveleges with me for a month (pm ur number n pm ur kik name if u wanna kik), as well as one phone call a week with me for 5 weeks at a time that is convenient for both of us) If you tip near the end of my stream (last 90 minutes or less) then I will either stream for an extra 2 hours than planned, OR I will do a 1.5 hour private exclusive sexy skype show with you after I get off CB for the day, your choice. ($245)
  • want a bbc show? 60tk/per minute NO RACIAL SLURS Unless I receive a single tip from you of 8000tks or more, thankss. leave ur skype name in my pm and i will call you after my stream or at a time that is convenient for the both of us ($3/min + $400)
I think your prices are all over the place and low. I think you might have troubles making your goal or keeping attention spans. You might want to condense it so it is more palatable. Keep your tip menu in numerical order from less to most. Make it so it is easy to read because you will learn that most horny men don't like to read that much. Aim so it is able to skim and comprehend. You might want to create multiple outlines and don't be afraid to adjust if something isn't landing or popular.

I'd price boobs, butt, and feet the same. Maybe 75 tks or 100 tks? So $3.75 or $5. If you get more requests for boobs over butt, charge the other higher. I keep feet around or the exact same because feet are boobs for a foot fetishist.

Pms might take up time away from your room, so charge more than 65 cents. I'm not on a site where pms are a thing, so I cannot recommend a number.

With c2c, I'd charge more, if you are in your public room. I don't charge c2c during privates because I see it as a feature for purchasing a show. Basically, it can be used as a selling point. Again, I'm not on a site where I can view c2c in freechat, so I cannot recommend a number either. Do you really want to look at another dude jerk off for less than two dollars?

Any below the belt nudity charge HELLA more. Vaginas are like touchdowns to hetero men. For a third time, I'm not on a site where this is allowed to be shown in freechat, so I don't know what to recommend.

Your braless aerobics is a great idea. I'd charge what you charge for boobs plus 10 jumping jacks. That way if they want more, they have the option to tip more. I'd probably do 150 or 200 tks ($7.5 and $10) and 10tks ($.50) per jumping jack. Same with the squats. Guys ask me to do squats without panties all the time. That could also be an option you work in.

Spanks, charge what you would to show ass plus the 15 tkns. I think 15 or 25 tks per spank would suffice.

I'd also do oil as well as lotion. I'd do 200 tks ($10). that stuff is messy and you may need to clean up which could lose viewers attention.

hitachi, anal, bj, dildo, raceplay, and other show types leave for privates. I would keep them separate from your tip menu and have another menu for types of shows people can get for privates or skype. Or leave those to group/public shows. I'm not sure what site your on or how that is structured.

I wouldn't offer phone on token sites. That is a commitment and 30-minute phone calls are long. That also might attract way too clingy clientele. When I was dating my husband I couldn't get him to speak on the phone with me more than ten minutes. I am lucky if I can get four during his hour lunch break, lol. If you want to do phone, I recommend NiteFlirt. That way you will have another egg in your basket.

Camming six hours a day is doable. I recommend shifts. I sometimes would split mine into two or three shifts. But stick to a schedule.

Hope this helps! Remember to when you get camming, you will be able to get in MO, which a lot more models maybe open to talking about rates. And remember don't sell yourself short because you are new. YOU ARE NEW AND SHINEY!
 
So, I have been watching other cams and I am self conscious about my tummy. I want to get started sooner rather than later so i was thinking of wearing an underbust corset even when i shed the top and bottom, is that an okay idea? Or should I just suck it up and be totally nude? Or should I wait until I feel more comfy being completely naked? Thanks in advance

I never get totally nude unless I feel comfortable in my own skin. The reason for that is because I feel like the insecurities show through cam, and my tips at the end of the day usually prove that. When I feel confident and sexy, my regulars say I look like I’m glowing! I always do whatever need be to feel my most confident.

I have a NAKED goal as my first target, and if I don’t feel like being full nude, I’d usually wear a cardigan and button up the middle while I leave everything else in full view. Other times, I’d wear some sort of sash or ribbon. Sometimes, I even just leave one arm over my belly during my cum show because I don’t want anyone to see flabs.

If someone hates on it, demands me to move my arm or my clothes, then screw that dude. I don’t need him in my room. POSITIVE, COMFORTABLE, SEXY ENERGY OVER ALL ELSE!!
 
Does anybody have experience with camming out of airbnbs (specifically the private rooms, not the full houses)? I worry about the family either hearing me or coming in... I can't cam at home because of my living situation, so I am gonna do hotels, and then I was also thinking about doing airbnbs so I can stay for cheaper, but I don't wanna be obvious to the family and either get weird looks or thrown out or something, idk lol
 
Does anybody have experience with camming out of airbnbs (specifically the private rooms, not the full houses)? I worry about the family either hearing me or coming in... I can't cam at home because of my living situation, so I am gonna do hotels, and then I was also thinking about doing airbnbs so I can stay for cheaper, but I don't wanna be obvious to the family and either get weird looks or thrown out or something, idk lol

I would only do it if I had the house to myself, or if they're going to be gone during the day. It's not worth the risk. Airbnb also HIGHLY discriminates against sex workers, many have been banned from using them without even being problematic, just because the site found out that they cam.
 
I would only do it if I had the house to myself, or if they're going to be gone during the day. It's not worth the risk. Airbnb also HIGHLY discriminates against sex workers, many have been banned from using them without even being problematic, just because the site found out that they cam.

Dang :O Thanks so much for the info!I saw on SW that Chase bank does the same, and freezes whole account. I understand the taboo, yes, but porn IS legal, so I feel that it's kind of "extra" for companies to do that unless the person is acting out in some way...

I don't want to double-post so I'll just add another question here (lol question queen, I just want to do everything right :D): I wonder how much is reasonable to charge for bj, hitachi, and dildo fuck until I cum shows in free chat? I'll be on Chaturbate so I know there are a lot of those, but I've always wondered their exact system. I've clicked on girls pages who do those, but their "system" is so confusing to me. I'm not exactly comfortable with privates on chaturbate, because they confuse the hell out of me and I worry about being ripped off... SM's privates make so much more sense. I plan to use both sites and I know in CB I deefinitely wanna do these type of shows in free chat, but I also wanna know what a decent amount to ask to do so is, or how I should set it up, so that I'm not just giving it all away for nothing and lurkers
 
Dang :O Thanks so much for the info!I saw on SW that Chase bank does the same, and freezes whole account. I understand the taboo, yes, but porn IS legal, so I feel that it's kind of "extra" for companies to do that unless the person is acting out in some way...

I don't want to double-post so I'll just add another question here (lol question queen, I just want to do everything right :D): I wonder how much is reasonable to charge for bj, hitachi, and dildo fuck until I cum shows in free chat? I'll be on Chaturbate so I know there are a lot of those, but I've always wondered their exact system. I've clicked on girls pages who do those, but their "system" is so confusing to me. I'm not exactly comfortable with privates on chaturbate, because they confuse the hell out of me and I worry about being ripped off... SM's privates make so much more sense. I plan to use both sites and I know in CB I deefinitely wanna do these type of shows in free chat, but I also wanna know what a decent amount to ask to do so is, or how I should set it up, so that I'm not just giving it all away for nothing and lurkers

You may want to look into doing clips instead of cam if you don't have a dedicated place to cam. If you pay for a hotel you aren't for sure going to make money. Anything could happen including tech issues. But if you can sneakily make short clips while you're home alone you're more likely to see money from that.

Fetish stuff sells well on clips4sale and more mainstream sexual content on manyvids.
 
Omg... I just got my verification... I'm totally stoked!!!

So I just went onto pornhub, because I wanted to watch some porn really quick, and one of those chaturbate popups came up, as usual you know. So I licked on it so that I could click off of it, this won't affect my account will it? I mean, once I'm done with my sign up and verification process, nothing can disrupt it afterwards, right?

edit to verify exactly what I am asking: I just don't want to be whisked away to a studio, because it definitely definitely was a studio referral link I clicked on, but it was AFTER I was verified, so I'm good, right?
 
So I just went onto pornhub, because I wanted to watch some porn really quick, and one of those chaturbate popups came up, as usual you know. So I licked on it so that I could click off of it, this won't affect my account will it? I mean, once I'm done with my sign up and verification process, nothing can disrupt it afterwards, right?

edit to verify exactly what I am asking: I just don't want to be whisked away to a studio, because it definitely definitely was a studio referral link I clicked on, but it was AFTER I was verified, so I'm good, right?

Hi There,

Welcome! As long as when you submitted your documentation you were initially on the actual website not a studio you should be golden. Check your emails for the name of the company verifying you. Usually you will see a name other than let's say Streamate or MFC. If you catch it early, don't hesitate to cancel and sign up directly with the actual cam site instead. I made that mistake and found out later on. Although, I can't say that the difference has made a big difference to me...It feels better when you intend to sign up w/a studio as opposed to feeling tricked into it. Some studios have benefits but you'll want to compare and see what works for you.

PS:If anyone has any suggestions on leaving a studio w/a 6mo non-compete clause and not breaking the bank let me know. I'm contemplating how to go about it and if it'd be worth the trouble...if there's any trouble to it at all, I'd like to know.
 
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So I just went onto pornhub, because I wanted to watch some porn really quick, and one of those chaturbate popups came up, as usual you know. So I licked on it so that I could click off of it, this won't affect my account will it? I mean, once I'm done with my sign up and verification process, nothing can disrupt it afterwards, right?

edit to verify exactly what I am asking: I just don't want to be whisked away to a studio, because it definitely definitely was a studio referral link I clicked on, but it was AFTER I was verified, so I'm good, right?

That was a white label, Pornhub is making money off of those ads, because people will click on them and then buy tokens through the white label. It has nothing to do with your account.