Mikeythegeek said:
A few points and a question about Candie's post...
About Leo's comments at the night club, Candie... do you feel he was serious or was just saying those things in a joking manner? And I mean that about all of his comments, not just the ones towards you specifically.
Never attribute to malice, what can adequately be explained by stupidity.
'you're stealing other girls tokens' - could be an intentional insult, or it could be someone who before MFC spent very little time around girls, and is trying to be funny.
"very high camscore models only" - could simply be that the MFC person at the show has had instructions that they don't understand.
Getting upset about how your boss treats you is horribly hard to avoid.
I've found the only way to deal with it is to try to take the emotion out. Writing angry letters, or angry phone-calls just tends to back you both into your own corners.
Trying to be rational and calm, making logical points, considering any points they make rationally helps.
People can only make you mad if you give them permission to make you mad by caring about them enough to be bothered by what they say.
Sorry for the rambling nature of this post - feeling crap, and have slept about 18 of the last 24 hours.