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Re: Any of you that have worked in other "adult" occupations

AliceDoe said:
Isabella_deL said:
I very nearly went into escorting for a very high class agency in London, except it wasn't like 'hotel room for an hour' escorting, it was very high class girlfriend experience, so a £1000 minimum to go out to dinner with me (no sex), then the night more like 3/4 grand. Basically a LOT of money for very little work.

I could totally do that! Thinking of going to university in London next year, when I'm finished with school, so maybe you could point me in the right direction for this kind of thing? :)

I just looked online, it's not a fast process for the high class stuff, they took over a month to reply to me, then you have to go to interviews, pass those, get all your pictures taken, which isn't too difficult. With this one it was a long shot me getting in. They're extremely picky, I was just lucky that they were looking for a girl like me at the time, I think having a posh accent helped too! I was 19 at the time, their minimum age was 21, so they told me I'd have to lie about my age.

Some of the money is INSANE! So if you do get into it and are good at it then great! Just if you do, don't ever count on the cash! Or actually even think of the money! Besides that I'm not entirely sure, I wished I'd known about camming while I was at uni! life would have been so much easier!! good luck! xx
 
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Isabella_deL said:
AliceDoe said:
Isabella_deL said:
I very nearly went into escorting for a very high class agency in London, except it wasn't like 'hotel room for an hour' escorting, it was very high class girlfriend experience, so a £1000 minimum to go out to dinner with me (no sex), then the night more like 3/4 grand. Basically a LOT of money for very little work.

I could totally do that! Thinking of going to university in London next year, when I'm finished with school, so maybe you could point me in the right direction for this kind of thing? :)

I just looked online, it's not a fast process for the high class stuff, they took over a month to reply to me, then you have to go to interviews, pass those, get all your pictures taken, which isn't too difficult. With this one it was a long shot me getting in. They're extremely picky, I was just lucky that they were looking for a girl like me at the time, I think having a posh accent helped too! I was 19 at the time, their minimum age was 21, so they told me I'd have to lie about my age.

Some of the money is INSANE! So if you do get into it and are good at it then great! Just if you do, don't ever count on the cash! Or actually even think of the money! Besides that I'm not entirely sure, I wished I'd known about camming while I was at uni! life would have been so much easier!! good luck! xx

Thank you :)
I will start looking now, it's over a year until I expect to be starting uni so I have plenty of time. I'll keep camming while I study, but making a whose semester tuition in one night does sound so very, very tempting! :p I'll be 21 by then, but I don't know if I have an accent at all - and if I do it's probably a mix of regular British and American, with just a little bit of Swedish (We learn British English in School, I watch a lot of American TV and I've travelled a lot)...

What should I look for online? If escorting legal in the UK, or would I have to search for "code words" and such?

Again, Big thanks for you help, you lovely :)
 
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Jupiter551 said:
MercyRain said:
Well, let me start off by saying YES. When I was 18, and out on my own, I had nobody to help me. I chose to do escorting or more appropriately prostitution. I did not work for an agency or a pimp. I worked for myself, by myself. I required all of the clients to wear condoms and I set my limits. Sometimes things were scary. I remember one night I had some knife wielding crackhead bitch chasing me around because I tried to help another girl get away from her abusive pimp. I look back now, and I think about how fast it made me grow up and realize not to take anything for granted. I know of several girls who continue to work the same street that I worked back in 2005. It's not safe if you don't know what you're doing, and can be very dangerous. Take Potsy for example: http://johntv.com/?p=935
WTFFFFF "47-year old “Potsy” was in the news in the past after a group on young Mexicans removed one of her eyes with a broken bottle after she refused to have sex with them in their car."
AnabelleLeigh said:
Jupiter551 said:
AnabelleLeigh said:
I want to do porn but I'm too lazy to put effort into finding out how to get into it lol
Just pm phone number bb

You can get it for 1000 tokens, bb ;) lol
Nono bb, we make screen test, then I send it to directors to get you work!

And even after all of the shit that has happened to her, she still continues to put herself in harm's way every day. I think she is addicted to drugs. What's even worse is that she has family that is well off and they won't try to help her get out of the mess. It's like they don't even care about her at all.
 
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Jessi said:
Id do stripping, I'm as graceful as a newborn moose.

And this:

Jaydenrainey said:
ive thought of dancing but im chubbyish and i dont think id get hired. besides im not so good in heels or with real life social interaction

But I do fetish modeling for a spanking site. Both video and pictures.
 
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AliceDoe said:
EmelieSky said:
AliceDoe: :hello2: to a fellow swede.

You're swedish too?? :D Stockholm?
:D I married into a Swedish family. Does that count? lol (although I'm Norwegian-American) I do miss the dinners with lots of aquavit and the singing.
 
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Nordling said:
AliceDoe said:
EmelieSky said:
AliceDoe: :hello2: to a fellow swede.

You're swedish too?? :D Stockholm?
:D I married into a Swedish family. Does that count? lol (although I'm Norwegian-American) I do miss the dinners with lots of aquavit and the singing.

Yay, the schnapps songs :dance:
 
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EmelieSky said:
Jessi said:
Id do stripping, I'm as graceful as a newborn moose.

And this:

Jaydenrainey said:
ive thought of dancing but im chubbyish and i dont think id get hired. besides im not so good in heels or with real life social interaction

But I do fetish modeling for a spanking site. Both video and pictures.

How do you get into fetish modeling? And does it get paid decently? I've always wondered :)
 
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It was the companies Swedish co worker that found me on a swedish comunity for BDSM, saw some of my private spanking photos and sent me an e-mail through the site and asked if I was interested. He talked about the company and I got to talk to other models.

There is no sexual things involved at all, it's "just" spanking, and it's real.

About the payment we have some disagreement with the swedish co worker. He is responsible to pay us, and me and another model is actually discussing with the owner about it, because of a lot of trouble with the payment last time. So next time we probably will be payed in USD directly from the owner and director so we see that everything is in order.

But they pay our travel fees and everything around the shoot.
 
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AliceDoe said:
What should I look for online? If escorting legal in the UK, or would I have to search for "code words" and such?

Again, Big thanks for you help, you lovely :)

Prostitution is legal in the Uk, pimping and advertising prostitution is not, meaning you would be legal, your agency/website you were on would not be!

Girlfriend experience was what I went in for, that's doing the whole dinner date etc, kind of like a sexy girlfriend who won't have any arguments or cause hassle! The agency I was going to join was actually all legal tax payers, because they sold company and not sex. Other websites usually say similar things.

Agencies usually take 40/50% of your earnings, and different girls/agencies earn different rates. Generally you will get very few men who will want to wine and dine a girl (which is why the in call/out call 'escorts' are very popular) and very very few, even the richest, will pay serious money for it. I mean London/other english cities are full of rich men and gorgeous poor girls who'll sleep with them/date them without having to be paid a thing!

Just bear in mind that once you go down that road you may never be able to get back out, it may also ruin future relationships/friendships. Also it may start looking for high class girlfriend experience, getting a job every now and then, but usually ends up being a working girl, possibly having a 'client' a day+ if you're in demand, high end being paid a couple of hundred pounds for it, half goes to the agency, £100-£200 a day average, good money, but camming is often about the same, more or less!

It's just one of those things, like everything, it's very easy to think of all the good things, but you need to make sure you're ok with all the bad things too! if you are then great and go ahead! but if you're not there is a lot at stake if you don't think it completely through then do it!

good luck hun :) xxx
 
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Isabella_deL said:
AliceDoe said:
What should I look for online? If escorting legal in the UK, or would I have to search for "code words" and such?

Again, Big thanks for you help, you lovely :)

Prostitution is legal in the Uk, pimping and advertising prostitution is not, meaning you would be legal, your agency/website you were on would not be!

Girlfriend experience was what I went in for, that's doing the whole dinner date etc, kind of like a sexy girlfriend who won't have any arguments or cause hassle! The agency I was going to join was actually all legal tax payers, because they sold company and not sex. Other websites usually say similar things.

Agencies usually take 40/50% of your earnings, and different girls/agencies earn different rates. Generally you will get very few men who will want to wine and dine a girl (which is why the in call/out call 'escorts' are very popular) and very very few, even the richest, will pay serious money for it. I mean London/other english cities are full of rich men and gorgeous poor girls who'll sleep with them/date them without having to be paid a thing!

Just bear in mind that once you go down that road you may never be able to get back out, it may also ruin future relationships/friendships. Also it may start looking for high class girlfriend experience, getting a job every now and then, but usually ends up being a working girl, possibly having a 'client' a day+ if you're in demand, high end being paid a couple of hundred pounds for it, half goes to the agency, £100-£200 a day average, good money, but camming is often about the same, more or less!

It's just one of those things, like everything, it's very easy to think of all the good things, but you need to make sure you're ok with all the bad things too! if you are then great and go ahead! but if you're not there is a lot at stake if you don't think it completely through then do it!

good luck hun :) xxx

You are amazingly helpful, thank you so much :D

I think it will not be very hard for me to stay away from the "cheap shag every day" stuff, because I will be going to university at the same time and won't really have the time to meet clients every day. Also, I am very stubborn and probably won't accept working for a small amount (I consider myself rather valuable :p).. As you said, yeah, camming on an average level is probably about 100-200 dollars a day anyway, and then I don't have to meet the guys that are paying me :p

The legality around this seems to be similar to as it is in Sweden. Here it is legal to sell sec, but not to buy it - making it easy for girls being forced into prostitution to go to the police (forcing someone into prostitution falls under abuse and things like that, so the "pimps" get taken down too).. The result of this law is that Stockholm only gets about 400 girls through trafficking every year, while Oslo gets close to 40.000!

I will be looking into escorting on a GFE-level, as well as some modelling and other things in this field for making extra money. If I am very lucky I might even end up with a "sugardaddy" to help me out. Some people think that's wrong, but I have no problem enjoying being spoiled by someone with the means to do it, as long as I am young and haven't finished uni there's no way I could be making that money on my own - so I don't think it changes the fact that I am a strong, independent woman... But then again, that's just me :p

Thank you so much for your help! xx
 
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I'm a cam model now (been too lazy for status here, maybe this week). I have been in the adult industry since I was 18 (22 now). I escorted for a while and there are some fine points and terrible points. I'll get into that in a minute. I have done some photoshoots and videos for "private collectors". I'm sure some of it might even be out there on the interwebs.

Back to the escorting thing. I can say it wasn't any Pretty Woman thing. I didn't work the streets, but through the internet. I had a driver/ad responder. He and I agreed on a 50/50 split because I didn't want to deal with answering a million emails every day. It also helped getting my entire day lined up so that I had basically back-to-back calls. It was a great setup. I eventually got tired of my driver getting 50% and was looking for another driver. That didn't work out and I'll explain why here shortly. I met only four guys in the few years I escorted that made me want to slap them. I had one guy who confirmed the price of seeing me three times and I spent 15 minutes at his location. He tried to negotiate the price down the entire time. I finally told him that he could either take a flying leap or pay the price we'd discussed. He chose to leap and I left. There were two guys who took one look at me and "suddenly" had something come up. Translation: Despite my ads saying BBW/180 pounds and having recent pictures, they didn't understand that I was fat. The last guy insulted me by saying I wasn't pleasurable at all after I'd gotten him off three times in 30 minutes. I unceremoniously told him what he could do with himself.

Overall, most of the guys I saw were decent. A lot were married. Even more never understood that they should wash their man parts before I came over. Most weren't bad; just had the distinct smell of not showering for eight hours and sitting in a chair. I did have a guy or two who had "just gotten from the gym". I obviously refused to go anywhere near them until they grabbed a washcloth and soap. I never had a problem with violence. I did meet up with a few drunks or 420 friendlies. I'm not one for either, but it usually went well.

Some things that were always a given: Trying to talk down the price, never tipping, never reading the ads, always wanting to go over the time, always wanting kissing (Pretty Woman reference there). I met some guys that I would have like to be friends with. I met a lot of guys with really nice pets. I met several guys who I could get off in less than 30 seconds. I also met a few guys who turned into stalkers and I'm still paying for that.

Now, I can say this: I do have problems with relationships. My off-and-on boyfriend of three years has a big problem with my past and present. It's sad because he was an ex-client (don't cross boundaries like I did). We often break up and get back together. And, as I said before, I have several stalkers. I've gotten it down to two, but one had the need to hack into my old Myspace and Facebook accounts and posted links to my ads. My underage nieces saw these and I now see my family once a year, if that. Most of my family wants nothing to do with me. It's the price I've paid. This same stalker is the type that will be there until he dies. This, of course, causes a problem with my boyfriend. I know that because of escorting, I don't have friends. Many people do not understand a person's ability to work in the adult industry. That's why many break down or go into drugs.

I stopped escorting when my boyfriend at the time tried to kill me. He was drinking and on drugs. He also suddenly couldn't handle the fact that I was making $8000 a month while he was barely clearing $1200. He didn't like my "job" even though I met him while doing it. He beat me with a rock and fled. I have the picture if y'all want to see them. I had to take a break to heal and by the time my hip healed up, I'd shot up from 132 pounds to 210. I miss my size 8 jeans....

So, the moral of the story: even something as mild as camming can really really affect your life. Most of my bridges are burned, so I'm not as worried as many of you might be if someone "found out". My family knows and I'm very much aware of how they feel. Any relationship I have in the future will always be in doubt because men are usually jealous jealous jealous beings. Lastly, I have to always watch myself because of stalkers. A girl has to be okay with these facts. I have to deal with my choices and sometimes I don't like it. Many girls forget that these are real problems. I never started drugs or drinking while escorting but I now have trouble cumming as easily as before and I often just don't want sex at all. That's pretty damaging too.

Of course, once I'm in front of that cam, my desire goes through the roof. Strange huh?
 
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^ I think that took a lot of courage to say. :handgestures-salute:
 
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EmelieSky said:
Nordling said:
AliceDoe said:
EmelieSky said:
AliceDoe: :hello2: to a fellow swede.

You're swedish too?? :D Stockholm?
:D I married into a Swedish family. Does that count? lol (although I'm Norwegian-American) I do miss the dinners with lots of aquavit and the singing.

Yay, the schnapps songs :dance:
Pass the tunnbrod and lutefisk please.
 
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Chamaeleon said:
EmelieSky said:
Nordling said:
AliceDoe said:
EmelieSky said:
AliceDoe: :hello2: to a fellow swede.

You're swedish too?? :D Stockholm?
:D I married into a Swedish family. Does that count? lol (although I'm Norwegian-American) I do miss the dinners with lots of aquavit and the singing.

Yay, the schnapps songs :dance:
Pass the tunnbrod and lutefisk please.

Ooooooh, did you ever have Kalvsylta?? Like the real one, not the pink store-bought stuff?

Kalvsylta on tunnbröd with pickled beet root!! YUM YUM!! :h:
 
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AliceDoe said:
Ooooooh, did you ever have Kalvsylta?? Like the real one, not the pink store-bought stuff?

Kalvsylta on tunnbröd with pickled beet root!! YUM YUM!! :h:
No, can't say that I have. But what about some good potatoe sausage or ligonberries or cardamon bread?
 
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Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Ooooooh, did you ever have Kalvsylta?? Like the real one, not the pink store-bought stuff?

Kalvsylta on tunnbröd with pickled beet root!! YUM YUM!! :h:
No, can't say that I have. But what about some good potatoe sausage or ligonberries or cardamon bread?

Hmm, maybe I should make some and send you... It really is very, very good :p
 
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AliceDoe said:
Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Ooooooh, did you ever have Kalvsylta?? Like the real one, not the pink store-bought stuff?

Kalvsylta on tunnbröd with pickled beet root!! YUM YUM!! :h:
No, can't say that I have. But what about some good potatoe sausage or ligonberries or cardamon bread?

Hmm, maybe I should make some and send you... It really is very, very good :p
Yummy. I have had all of these except Kalvsylta since my heritage is Swedish. :thumbleft:
 
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Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Ooooooh, did you ever have Kalvsylta?? Like the real one, not the pink store-bought stuff?

Kalvsylta on tunnbröd with pickled beet root!! YUM YUM!! :h:
No, can't say that I have. But what about some good potatoe sausage or ligonberries or cardamon bread?

Hmm, maybe I should make some and send you... It really is very, very good :p
Yummy. I have had all of these except Kalvsylta since my heritage is Swedish. :thumbleft:

Well, kalvsylta is mostly nothern Sweden. I'm from way up north, my grandmother makes us kalvsylta every year for christmas and send it in the mail :p It's awesome
 
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RedHerby said:
AliceDoe said:
Well, kalvsylta is mostly nothern Sweden. I'm from way up north, my grandmother makes us kalvsylta every year for christmas and send it in the mail :p It's awesome
more Swedish eating fun, wtf? http://www.friatider.se/shocking-ph...nister-of-culture-celebrating-with-niger-cake

I don't know anything about the event in question, but I wouldn't trust anything written on that site... It's "white power" all the way...

I'm sure that with just a few clicks within that site, you'll also be able to find an article claiming that all criminals in Sweden are foreign, and one stating that black people have less evolved brains than white people... It is very likely that there was a context justifying the cake (Swedish humour is a bit twisted), but the writer chose to exclude that because this is the same woman keeping money from their fellow racist scripture..

I am ashamed to say that racism is on the rise in Sweden, it is getting to be a big problem and is mostly just a case of ignorance caused by a lack of education mixed with racist rumours. I just wish I could gather them all in a room and educate them on humanity and human rights!
 
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AliceDoe said:
Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Ooooooh, did you ever have Kalvsylta?? Like the real one, not the pink store-bought stuff?

Kalvsylta on tunnbröd with pickled beet root!! YUM YUM!! :h:
No, can't say that I have. But what about some good potatoe sausage or ligonberries or cardamon bread?

Hmm, maybe I should make some and send you... It really is very, very good :p
Yummy. I have had all of these except Kalvsylta since my heritage is Swedish. :thumbleft:

Well, kalvsylta is mostly nothern Sweden. I'm from way up north, my grandmother makes us kalvsylta every year for christmas and send it in the mail :p It's awesome
My real weakness is longing for Swedish rosettes. Why is it only Christmas when I get them? :crybaby:
 
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Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Chamaeleon said:
No, can't say that I have. But what about some good potatoe sausage or ligonberries or cardamon bread?

Hmm, maybe I should make some and send you... It really is very, very good :p
Yummy. I have had all of these except Kalvsylta since my heritage is Swedish. :thumbleft:

Well, kalvsylta is mostly nothern Sweden. I'm from way up north, my grandmother makes us kalvsylta every year for christmas and send it in the mail :p It's awesome
My real weakness is longing for Swedish rosettes. Why is it only Christmas when I get them? :crybaby:

Rosettes? What are those? I don't think I know of any Swedish food called that..
 
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AliceDoe said:
Rosettes? What are those? I don't think I know of any Swedish food called that..
Rosettes is what we called them
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosette_(cookie)
rosettes.jpg

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AliceDoe said:
RedHerby said:

I don't know anything about the event in question, but I wouldn't trust anything written on that site... It's "white power" all the way...

I'm sure that with just a few clicks within that site, you'll also be able to find an article claiming that all criminals in Sweden are foreign, and one stating that black people have less evolved brains than white people... It is very likely that there was a context justifying the cake (Swedish humour is a bit twisted), but the writer chose to exclude that because this is the same woman keeping money from their fellow racist scripture..

I am ashamed to say that racism is on the rise in Sweden, it is getting to be a big problem and is mostly just a case of ignorance caused by a lack of education mixed with racist rumours. I just wish I could gather them all in a room and educate them on humanity and human rights!
thanks for your informative reply, I had no idea about the nature of that website, someone did post the link in my twitter timeline and I did think about this ACF thread.

Lets switch to save humor, my Swedish hero below ! (I was a cook from age 16 to 20, some say I was inspired by this muppet)

 
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Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Chamaeleon said:
AliceDoe said:
Rosettes? What are those? I don't think I know of any Swedish food called that..
Rosettes is what we called them
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosette_(cookie)
.

Oh... I recognize them, but don't think I've ever had one... Must be southern.
:eek: you've missed out on two of the best things in life...sugar and deep frying!

In Georgia we call deep fried dough covered in powdered sugar beignet. Some people also fill them with maple or fruit preserves.
 
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