I am a new cam model. I have several questions. Is this the correct spot for me to post them? thank you.
I will look into it. Some of my questions are regarding 'what to charge' for 'this' or 'that' and some current situations I'm having. I'm not a thread head so this is kind of new to me. I'm feeling a bit lostWelcome. I would highly recommend taking time to search and read a lot of various threads here as they will most likely answer the majority of your questions.
I will look into it. Some of my questions are regarding 'what to charge' for 'this' or 'that' and some current situations I'm having. I'm not a thread head so this is kind of new to me. I'm feeling a bit lost
Can you do both, or does it have to be one or the other?I actually started on mfc and did quite well at first til i had some major dental surgeries and my camscore dropoped...wondering if I should switch over to chaturbate even though I'm not exactly new?
you make a great point here. Yes, I can do both so I guess that's perhaps what I'll probably do. Not tied to any studios, so yeah!Can you do both, or does it have to be one or the other?
Love your positivbe attitude!This was very helpful to me, thank you so much!
Even if I am not a new model I feel there are so many things I am still learning
and need to learn.
Idk if the hours matter for token sites. I only cam on SM. I do know that you build regulars based upon what hours you are on, because a lot of people are creatures of habit. Lots of people do split shifts too.Do you think the hours you work matters? I'm mostly a daytime person on the west coast but see a big dropoff around noon and a pickup around 3, lots of early morning traffic so I'm thinking to switching to early mornings (5am-6am) til noon to cover more ground...hoping it will work out for me
The thoroughness and thought put into this article is extremely wonderful, thank you so much!Hi! This is from another thread but I am copying and pasting it here :
Hi!
Here are my opinions on what
I wish people had told me when I was starting out as a new cam model .
I started in April 2020 so I am still learning myself.
So this is by no means even advice, just my thoughts lol.
I have copied and pasted to try to keep it organized.
Keep in mind that every model is different! And that's totally ok
Beauty
-Honestly, working on my self-esteem
has been more the focus than physical appearance.
If you love yourself, it shows up in everything you do.
When I focused on my self-confidence, and believing in myself, it started to show more on camera.
I repeat positive affirmations, such as "you are beautiful."
I actually made my screen name 'pretty' so I could remind myself that I was beautiful in my own eyes.
As far as beauty tips, I say to find what inspires you. Makeup and fashion are two of my favorite art forms,
so I always try to incorporate those into my shows. It makes me happy.
Some guides to camming online will say don't wear makeup and wear a tank top.
I followed that advice trying to succeed at first, but I realized it wasn't my style.
I love matching lingerie, my hair done, shoes, and dramatic makeup.
It's good to do your own unique style! It shows when YOU are happy with your show
Lately for makeup,
I like to do a brown eyeshadow blend with lashes,
straight hair, (I have curly hair so it is an interesting visual change for me)
a big winged eyeliner, and a lot of highlighter to catch the light.
It's basically stripper makeup/hair but designed to catch light.
I check my hair and makeup in the webcam preview before actually going live
and then adjust as needed.
Having fun is key! My favorite part of getting ready for cam is doing my hair and makeup.
I listen to music that puts me in a good mood, and try to show up feeling the best I can!
& Wellbeing
Remember that with camming, you are 100% in control.
It is your room & your rules.
If people are disrespectful, don't hesitate to kick/ban.
I make sure to always come to my shows in a good mental state.
I use "the law of attraction" to visualize and manifest the type of room/customers I want,
although I know not everybody will agree with that.
I believe that having a mindset of wealth, generosity, and optimism will attract similar.
I go in thinking "I am going to REACH THIS GOAL AND THEN SOME! People are going
to love my show and tip me big today. My customers are going to be respectful and
fun to talk to." And lately? It's been true!
Changing my thoughts really did change camming for me, as "hippie ish" as that sounds lol.
Ideas,
-Camming is improvising. We talk "back and forth" with people a lot. At first, I used
to be afraid to joke around or show my sense of humor. It's ok to! You can be yourself on camera.
A boss isn't going to just pop out of the screen and fire you, lol.
I was so used to customer
service type environments where you had to be like a perfect robot almost.
Camming isn't that!
You don't
have to be polished, doting, and polite 100% of the time. You can comment back if a troll
says something. You can laugh at the (VERY!) funny things that they say.
That actually gets the room moving for me sometimes! Decent guys know you aren't going
to do the most for a token. I worried about scaring tippers away with my jokes, but they actually like it !
Guy: I tipped 1token did you [ ] ?
Me: ooooh Yes, that HUGE 1-token tip made me explode with the most powerful pleasure! (sarcasm)
I was thinking a lot of funny things that I held back
because I thought it would be rude or "not sexy" to say them. Obviously be nice to your
customers lol, but it's a relaxed environment and you can joke too.
-Apps and bots are great, and help keep things moving.
-Camming for me is my own TV show with no script. You can make it anything you want it to be.
I get inspired a lot by film as well. It very much is cinematography.
Tips & Tricks
-The thumbnail (visual) is what gets people to click. I try to think "if I were choosing a thumbnail for this
as a video to sell, what would it be?" and do that til people come in.
-I didn't have my tip menu set up on my first day camming. Everybody kept saying "tipmenu ? tip menu?
pm ? pm? I pm'd you. "
So I would say to decide on your tipmenu, PM rate, and what to do in PM scenarios (will you reply when it's busy?).
as well as goal countdowns, BEFORE streaming.
I was so overwhelmed my first time camming. I "winged it. " ended up typing PM's for like an hour and made no tips.
I wish I had my tip menu and PM policy decided. You
can see my early thread about my struggle with this, it took months for me to really have it down.
(This forum helped me so much, and to those here who helped me when I was new- thank you )
I appreciate you all so much and want to give credit for what I learned from you.
There are so many good threads
both here and in models only which I highly recommend!)
I decided on 18 tokens per PM or fan club for unlimited (the guys who join my club have so far
been super respectful and NOT overwhelmed my pm.)
Believe it or not , tipping viewers want a show.
They KNOW you can't just type all day.
And they don't want to watch models sitting/typing!
The ones that expect a lot of PM and quickly, seem to have been the more
time wasting types from my experience.
I mean the ones like "oh I tipped for 1pm an hour ago. Why aren't you replying to my dirty talk essay in a room full of tipping viewers
when the goal show just got reached??"
Most viewers really do know we have a room to run and can't just type all day.
I feel like some tried to take advantage of my newness with it actually, as now I barely get aggressive "PM NOW" types.
Guy: PM??
Me: (outloud!) Yes, I would love to, it's on the tipmenu!
Most of them leave. Those that do tip for PM have been very understanding about the fact that I have to perform
and can't just sit there typing.
When "PM me!" types try, that's when I learned to ask them to go private for their detailed request.
Many will do private if asked,
but they will absolutely let new models give them all their time for free too.
It's like at a club. The guys will either go to VIP to chat (if sold on it) or just talk for free all day.
The difference?
The dancer who gets the VIP is the one who wasn't afraid to ask for it.
A common response is "but your private price is too expensive"
You can charge any rate you want, even being new.
and even at lower rates, guys still say things like that.
For me, showing that I am not afraid to walk away has helped.
I would rather one private a day with a quality customer
than several privates with cheap types who expect the most for less than a dollar.
And that attracts the quality customers!
Guys with extra money to spend do not care how much things cost. If they want you, they want YOU.
I charged 90 right away, even with a BAD laptop camera, no items, and no lighting.
I still do 90, going up to 150 later this year.
When I get the 'expensive ' line, I say
"yes, but I'm sexy and worth every token!"
Surprisingly? Even with my awful camera, some would still do private.
The confidence, almost cockiness,
is sexy to them. They like that I can't be manipulated by their 'negging.'
Now I have a 'tier' private rate where they can turn spying on.
When I get the "expensive" (negging) line, I hit the negging back with an UPSELL.
"Aww too bad! I'm definitely worth it!
Just so you know, it's not the only rate available. That's if you want it to be just you and I
with no spying. You can see my bio for different rates, including special rates for fan club!"
Note: I know he won't go private at that point, but somebody else might.
Must Have Products
The ability to connect with people will get you so much further than any item.
Some aspects of camming are sales.
Knowing how to close a sale helps.
I got a lot more tips and privates when I stopped trying to be nice and hoping people would tip
and started actively asking for what I wanted.
I try to make every viewer feel good, as people do remember how we make them feel.
That being said, the items that have helped me profit more were lighting and a webcam.
When I upgraded to a Logitech Brio from my laptop webcam,
things really started getting improving for me.
Guys seemed more willing to tip more than a token. However, that could also be because I started feeling more confident.
I think my self-confidence made more of a difference than any item could.
I learned about "three point lighting" and added some fun neon lights too.
My viewers started to go up around this point so I think it was what made the difference.
I still do not have the fastest stream because of my wi-fi, but it looks a lot better with the webcam I have now.
That being said, many models do like the "tip items" (Lovense/Ohmibod.)
I think it's up to the model. I did my first month or so without them and it went well, I still do shows without them too.
I still got customers because they liked my attitude and energy.
Audience engagement matters more than having any "thing."
I try to stay off my phone and be present in the moment.
A big tipper could be watching anonymously and thinking about coming to me, so even if nobody is spending
I try to engage with "the audience" and chat, show my personality etc.
Encouragement to Continue
We all have slow days and cheap people sometimes. Every model. It is completely normal to have free loaders. When we look at them in a different light (opportunities
to pitch the room or say something witty) they become easier to deal with. The spenders will come and they will spend. They don't
need to be convinced.
If it's nobody tipping or talking, I just talk to myself. Then eventually somebody will join!
If it's really that empty and I have a few extra tokens, I use the "promote your room" feature on the site I'm on
Then I hold an interesting position for that promoted time, and the people come in.
That feature has saved several of my days. I know many do not agree with this, but I recommend it if it's really empty.
I look at it like this : successful businesses spend on advertising! There's nothing wrong with doing so too.
I went an hour with no tips before having my best day of all time on camera. So it totally happens.
You can do it, and I believe in you! This community is amazing and there's so many good posts here.
Do's and Donts
Do: Enjoy your time camming!
Don't : Fall victim to common scams.
Learn the rules of the site you are on,
and common scams that happen on there
before going live.
My first day somebody told me if I put the password in his room
I would get tokens automatically (not true and a common scam)
I told him to please do private through the site and he left.
Had I not known that, I could have been ripped off.
Tokens MAKE A SOUND on Chaturbate
and tokens on Chaturbate do show up in your token balance (top right of the screen) right away
so if it doesn't show up there and under "token stats" asap and doesn't make a sound
they are using a gif and not a real tip- kick them out!
People will try to get anything they can for free. They push, I push back. Some of them thumbs down.
I used to care so much about my satisfaction score but it really doesn't matter.
The viewers who like you won't care about some person's random thumbs down.
hope this helps! Sorry to go so into detail lol.
Ava
This was very helpful! I’m going to give 3 point lighting a try tonight. Thank you!Hi! This is from another thread but I am copying and pasting it here :
Hi!
Here are my opinions on what
I wish people had told me when I was starting out as a new cam model .
I started in April 2020 so I am still learning myself.
So this is by no means even advice, just my thoughts lol.
I have copied and pasted to try to keep it organized.
Keep in mind that every model is different! And that's totally ok
Beauty
-Honestly, working on my self-esteem
has been more the focus than physical appearance.
If you love yourself, it shows up in everything you do.
When I focused on my self-confidence, and believing in myself, it started to show more on camera.
I repeat positive affirmations, such as "you are beautiful."
I actually made my screen name 'pretty' so I could remind myself that I was beautiful in my own eyes.
As far as beauty tips, I say to find what inspires you. Makeup and fashion are two of my favorite art forms,
so I always try to incorporate those into my shows. It makes me happy.
Some guides to camming online will say don't wear makeup and wear a tank top.
I followed that advice trying to succeed at first, but I realized it wasn't my style.
I love matching lingerie, my hair done, shoes, and dramatic makeup.
It's good to do your own unique style! It shows when YOU are happy with your show
Lately for makeup,
I like to do a brown eyeshadow blend with lashes,
straight hair, (I have curly hair so it is an interesting visual change for me)
a big winged eyeliner, and a lot of highlighter to catch the light.
It's basically stripper makeup/hair but designed to catch light.
I check my hair and makeup in the webcam preview before actually going live
and then adjust as needed.
Having fun is key! My favorite part of getting ready for cam is doing my hair and makeup.
I listen to music that puts me in a good mood, and try to show up feeling the best I can!
& Wellbeing
Remember that with camming, you are 100% in control.
It is your room & your rules.
If people are disrespectful, don't hesitate to kick/ban.
I make sure to always come to my shows in a good mental state.
I use "the law of attraction" to visualize and manifest the type of room/customers I want,
although I know not everybody will agree with that.
I believe that having a mindset of wealth, generosity, and optimism will attract similar.
I go in thinking "I am going to REACH THIS GOAL AND THEN SOME! People are going
to love my show and tip me big today. My customers are going to be respectful and
fun to talk to." And lately? It's been true!
Changing my thoughts really did change camming for me, as "hippie ish" as that sounds lol.
Ideas,
-Camming is improvising. We talk "back and forth" with people a lot. At first, I used
to be afraid to joke around or show my sense of humor. It's ok to! You can be yourself on camera.
A boss isn't going to just pop out of the screen and fire you, lol.
I was so used to customer
service type environments where you had to be like a perfect robot almost.
Camming isn't that!
You don't
have to be polished, doting, and polite 100% of the time. You can comment back if a troll
says something. You can laugh at the (VERY!) funny things that they say.
That actually gets the room moving for me sometimes! Decent guys know you aren't going
to do the most for a token. I worried about scaring tippers away with my jokes, but they actually like it !
Guy: I tipped 1token did you [ ] ?
Me: ooooh Yes, that HUGE 1-token tip made me explode with the most powerful pleasure! (sarcasm)
I was thinking a lot of funny things that I held back
because I thought it would be rude or "not sexy" to say them. Obviously be nice to your
customers lol, but it's a relaxed environment and you can joke too.
-Apps and bots are great, and help keep things moving.
-Camming for me is my own TV show with no script. You can make it anything you want it to be.
I get inspired a lot by film as well. It very much is cinematography.
Tips & Tricks
-The thumbnail (visual) is what gets people to click. I try to think "if I were choosing a thumbnail for this
as a video to sell, what would it be?" and do that til people come in.
-I didn't have my tip menu set up on my first day camming. Everybody kept saying "tipmenu ? tip menu?
pm ? pm? I pm'd you. "
So I would say to decide on your tipmenu, PM rate, and what to do in PM scenarios (will you reply when it's busy?).
as well as goal countdowns, BEFORE streaming.
I was so overwhelmed my first time camming. I "winged it. " ended up typing PM's for like an hour and made no tips.
I wish I had my tip menu and PM policy decided. You
can see my early thread about my struggle with this, it took months for me to really have it down.
(This forum helped me so much, and to those here who helped me when I was new- thank you )
I appreciate you all so much and want to give credit for what I learned from you.
There are so many good threads
both here and in models only which I highly recommend!)
I decided on 18 tokens per PM or fan club for unlimited (the guys who join my club have so far
been super respectful and NOT overwhelmed my pm.)
Believe it or not , tipping viewers want a show.
They KNOW you can't just type all day.
And they don't want to watch models sitting/typing!
The ones that expect a lot of PM and quickly, seem to have been the more
time wasting types from my experience.
I mean the ones like "oh I tipped for 1pm an hour ago. Why aren't you replying to my dirty talk essay in a room full of tipping viewers
when the goal show just got reached??"
Most viewers really do know we have a room to run and can't just type all day.
I feel like some tried to take advantage of my newness with it actually, as now I barely get aggressive "PM NOW" types.
Guy: PM??
Me: (outloud!) Yes, I would love to, it's on the tipmenu!
Most of them leave. Those that do tip for PM have been very understanding about the fact that I have to perform
and can't just sit there typing.
When "PM me!" types try, that's when I learned to ask them to go private for their detailed request.
Many will do private if asked,
but they will absolutely let new models give them all their time for free too.
It's like at a club. The guys will either go to VIP to chat (if sold on it) or just talk for free all day.
The difference?
The dancer who gets the VIP is the one who wasn't afraid to ask for it.
A common response is "but your private price is too expensive"
You can charge any rate you want, even being new.
and even at lower rates, guys still say things like that.
For me, showing that I am not afraid to walk away has helped.
I would rather one private a day with a quality customer
than several privates with cheap types who expect the most for less than a dollar.
And that attracts the quality customers!
Guys with extra money to spend do not care how much things cost. If they want you, they want YOU.
I charged 90 right away, even with a BAD laptop camera, no items, and no lighting.
I still do 90, going up to 150 later this year.
When I get the 'expensive ' line, I say
"yes, but I'm sexy and worth every token!"
Surprisingly? Even with my awful camera, some would still do private.
The confidence, almost cockiness,
is sexy to them. They like that I can't be manipulated by their 'negging.'
Now I have a 'tier' private rate where they can turn spying on.
When I get the "expensive" (negging) line, I hit the negging back with an UPSELL.
"Aww too bad! I'm definitely worth it!
Just so you know, it's not the only rate available. That's if you want it to be just you and I
with no spying. You can see my bio for different rates, including special rates for fan club!"
Note: I know he won't go private at that point, but somebody else might.
Must Have Products
The ability to connect with people will get you so much further than any item.
Some aspects of camming are sales.
Knowing how to close a sale helps.
I got a lot more tips and privates when I stopped trying to be nice and hoping people would tip
and started actively asking for what I wanted.
I try to make every viewer feel good, as people do remember how we make them feel.
That being said, the items that have helped me profit more were lighting and a webcam.
When I upgraded to a Logitech Brio from my laptop webcam,
things really started getting improving for me.
Guys seemed more willing to tip more than a token. However, that could also be because I started feeling more confident.
I think my self-confidence made more of a difference than any item could.
I learned about "three point lighting" and added some fun neon lights too.
My viewers started to go up around this point so I think it was what made the difference.
I still do not have the fastest stream because of my wi-fi, but it looks a lot better with the webcam I have now.
That being said, many models do like the "tip items" (Lovense/Ohmibod.)
I think it's up to the model. I did my first month or so without them and it went well, I still do shows without them too.
I still got customers because they liked my attitude and energy.
Audience engagement matters more than having any "thing."
I try to stay off my phone and be present in the moment.
A big tipper could be watching anonymously and thinking about coming to me, so even if nobody is spending
I try to engage with "the audience" and chat, show my personality etc.
Encouragement to Continue
We all have slow days and cheap people sometimes. Every model. It is completely normal to have free loaders. When we look at them in a different light (opportunities
to pitch the room or say something witty) they become easier to deal with. The spenders will come and they will spend. They don't
need to be convinced.
If it's nobody tipping or talking, I just talk to myself. Then eventually somebody will join!
If it's really that empty and I have a few extra tokens, I use the "promote your room" feature on the site I'm on
Then I hold an interesting position for that promoted time, and the people come in.
That feature has saved several of my days. I know many do not agree with this, but I recommend it if it's really empty.
I look at it like this : successful businesses spend on advertising! There's nothing wrong with doing so too.
I went an hour with no tips before having my best day of all time on camera. So it totally happens.
You can do it, and I believe in you! This community is amazing and there's so many good posts here.
Do's and Donts
Do: Enjoy your time camming!
Don't : Fall victim to common scams.
Learn the rules of the site you are on,
and common scams that happen on there
before going live.
My first day somebody told me if I put the password in his room
I would get tokens automatically (not true and a common scam)
I told him to please do private through the site and he left.
Had I not known that, I could have been ripped off.
Tokens MAKE A SOUND on Chaturbate
and tokens on Chaturbate do show up in your token balance (top right of the screen) right away
so if it doesn't show up there and under "token stats" asap and doesn't make a sound
they are using a gif and not a real tip- kick them out!
People will try to get anything they can for free. They push, I push back. Some of them thumbs down.
I used to care so much about my satisfaction score but it really doesn't matter.
The viewers who like you won't care about some person's random thumbs down.
hope this helps! Sorry to go so into detail lol.
Ava
If I had a nickel for all of the times people begged me to flash or "just give me a peek and I promise I'll take you private," I'd be a billionaire. One person swore "on his mother's grave" to take me private if I flash. I didn't show anything, they didn't take me private, and oh well, I then and still to this day only do shows with people who take me into a private show, and/or flash if tokens are given to me.In almost two years of camming, only ONE (literally, one) person has ever taken me private/tipped when they said, "convince me to go private with a flash!", "naked and then pvt bb", "seduce me before I tip," or any other "free show and then I pay" scheme. The one dude who did it only tipped me because I knew his scam and it made him feel badly.
I would highly recommend that you never do free things if you at all want to get paid for them That isn't how it works in camland.
That's the ol' J. Wellington Wimpy method. "I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today."If I had a nickel for all of the times people begged me to flash or "just give me a peek and I promise I'll take you private," I'd be a billionaire. One person swore "on his mother's grave" to take me private if I flash. I didn't show anything, they didn't take me private, and oh well, I then and still to this day only do shows with people who take me into a private show, and/or flash if tokens are given to me.
LOL!!!That's the ol' J. Wellington Wimpy method. "I'll gladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today."
Don't get discouraged. Build a following in a way that works for you. Like the saying goes in Ice Cube's movie The Player's Club:I actually started on mfc and did quite well at first til i had some major dental surgeries and my camscore dropoped...wondering if I should switch over to chaturbate even though I'm not exactly new?
Personally, these tips helped me very well.I am sure these tips will help young models
Glad these tips helped you.Personally, these tips helped me very well.
This woman right here. No, I don't agree with everything she says, but a couple of years ago when I was looking for pointers, Chrissy helped me out a lot. If she helps you out and/or anybody else of ACF, great. If not disregard this help/link. Have a good day/night whenever you read/see this message.And where did you get such a good experience? I just read the tips and they are very useful.
Models need to be so hot for getting atteintion of new men. I am fan of online dating and have already followed many new dating stuff on...
Models need to be hot? It probably helps, but it's everything else about the person that can make or break a date, whether online or offline. Agree with you on the mobile device and the internet connection part. But for people who do date, wherever, just be careful, because there's a lot of crazy people out there and identity theft continues to increase every single day. Date and have fun, but be responsible, and last, but certainly not least, be safe. https://www.idtheftauthority.com/3-sneaky-tips-avoid-id-theft-online-dating-sites/#:~:text=1 Identity Safety on Online Dating Sites. It,is a scammer out to get you.Models need to be so hot for getting atteintion of new men. I am fan of online dating and have already followed many new dating stuff on ...
I deleted that user and his posts for spam.Models need to be hot? It probably helps, but it's everything else about the person that can make or break a date, whether online or offline. Agree with you on the mobile device and the internet connection part. But for people who do date, wherever, just be careful, because there's a lot of crazy people out there and identity theft continues to increase every single day. Date and have fun, but be responsible, and last, but certainly not least, be safe. https://www.idtheftauthority.com/3-sneaky-tips-avoid-id-theft-online-dating-sites/#:~:text=1 Identity Safety on Online Dating Sites. It,is a scammer out to get you.