This forum has been very helpful!! I had a terrible night the last time I cammed, and it got me really down. But I just have to accept that I will have slow nights.
Still not extremely successful, but I do have a few regulars who stop by almost every time I'm on, and they make it fun for me! I was even gone for a couple months because of illness, and they were so sweet when I came back!!
I agree with just being your happy, bubbly self whether you have 1 or 100 people in your room. Because even if you have that one person, he/she may want to spend all their tokens on you!!
I know it's not always easy ... and a 0 tok night was bad .. but ... need stay positive, keep smiling and playful ... for one bad day or two life will give you back 1-2 super good days and at the end of period you will be happy and proud of you (i didn't set myself a daily goal but a period goal, just want say). You eat, you breath, you have friend and family ... be happy.
I can understand you can be down (i speak to all performer in general btw), but not show that to the fans, no speak of your problem, stay always a bit innocent, you never know when the big tipper(s) will enter your room ;-). Me too last night i had a "ok" night but, as you say, i had so much fun with some regulars and laugh of and with some grey ... tomorrow will be better, i feel it, i want it
. You are performer, entertainer, virtual friend, fantasie, dream ... it's what you have to show to the fans and it's what they want, they want have good time and change their mind.
Yes camming are a bit of competition but don't think about that, don't compare, do what you have to do, just enjoy and have fun and tok will rain, i wish you.
Ok you maybe say it's easy for me telling that in my chait from home ... you are right .. i just try telling that positive attitude attrack positive
.. that's all .. i think you understand my point.
i hope all what i say make sense ...
take care, enjoy, smile
(p.s. excuse my bad english i'm french canadian)