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    What happens next.....

    what if my friend is the one asking for help. anyway, the thread was more about trying to understand what happens to people in this situation. It wasn't an advice thread because everyone knows how they turn out. I was hoping for some stories or references to similar situations A few people...
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    What happens next.....

    You could be wrong or you could be right but I'm not sure why the age matters although is that the demographic that usually falls into this mess. Although I guess given that people are talking about marriage and children there is a limited age range into which people would fit. All I meant was...
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    What happens next.....

    Thanks Pilya. Part of what my friend is worried about is the distance, the economic divides and desire the model has to escape, the fact that even though there is discussion of marriage and setting up home it is still mainly a financial arrangement. I really have no idea. He is in a bit of a...
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    What happens next.....

    To be honest Hippy I am concerrned about both parties making (or saying they are making) serious and irreversible changes to their lives on the basis of the other party. It is a bit of a mess really. Either one or the other or both (or neither) could get badly depending on sccenarios. All living...
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    What happens next.....

    Old enough to know better. So is the model
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    What happens next.....

    Things for my friend are not looking good at the moment. Every attempt so far at breaking free or clarifying is resulting in him getting more deeply entangled. I on't want to discuss too many details in case I give either identity away but there is either something real going on or the lengths...
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    Have you ever had an experience where your member(s) just get TOO attached...?

    Yes sure. But we could get very philosophical and debate what reality is. If you get enough fantasy that can be reality
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    Have you ever had an experience where your member(s) just get TOO attached...?

    I didn't really mean asking advice and thats obviously not the reason for going in the first place. But as far as I can tell many of the more successful models are those who have great personality and do much more than just perform sex, they talk and build relationships. Do you think all those...
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    Have you ever had an experience where your member(s) just get TOO attached...?

    Hi I agree with this a bit. I have had a few times like this where at some very difficult times of life I ended up drawn to the sites and the cam models were like (very expensive) counsellors who provide a combination of sex and imagined intimacy - they are often a place to go when there is no...
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    What happens next.....

    PS I will post a follow-up if he isn't able to break free and either of them get on a plane
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    What happens next.....

    Thanks Audri. Yes I know. It isn't always gullibility. Even when people have their eyes open and know its not real they are still vulnerable to attachment. I suspect most guys know but can't stop themselves. I don't necessarily regard is as a con. My sympathy is generally with the models since...
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    I've been scammed :(

    Hi Saffron, I agree. Sorry. What I meant was only if you have genuinely moved into type of relationship where payment wasn't expected any more
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    What happens next.....

    Thanks. Yes. I understand completely.
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    What happens next.....

    Yes I know. I agree with you 100%. But some guys just totally fall for it and probably should avoid such sites altogether. Some people are prone to the "vulnerability" shown as part of the act and the ongoing offline relationship. And for some people that genuinely is hard to break free from...
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    What happens next.....

    the only thing I do know for sure is that whatever the real situation is he is somewhat trapped emotionally
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    What happens next.....

    yeah. could be fun but you are right :)
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    What happens next.....

    yes, that's what I reckon. I actually already knew but its still hard to break free sometimes because they can sometimes be very persuasive. Thats part of what I wondered about what happens if you jump on a plane or if she jumps on a plane :) Thanks
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    What happens next.....

    Hi Audri, thanks. Yes that what I think too regarding the payment. Even though there have been months of long days of off-line social interaction offline it is still essentially about getting paying sessions. don't know which country it is. But thats why I asked about gangs and whats it like in...
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    Have you ever had an experience where your member(s) just get TOO attached...?

    Forgive me commenting as a non-lady :) As a customer (who has been very entangled a few times with models - works both ways sometimes - and sometimes both parties are happy to pretend and take the fantasy a long way) but you are the one who has too set boundaries I think. I would say tell him...
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    Ripped off by model, now being threatened

    I'm sorry but everyone should go into these situation eyes wide open and know that there are risks for all parties in this relationship. The biggest risks are for the models (usually) depending on where they are. Many of us have had a situation where we may have felt we didn't get something we...