Would you tell the gf?

[mutantdonut]

Been seeing this a lot lately...

Random dude see's a random attractive girl on some form of social media, so dude decides to message girl. Dude proceeds to hit on attractive girl while letting her know that he has a gf but doesn't want the gf to be aware of what he's doing. Of course, attractive girl is disgusted by his actions and rejects him immediately.

A couple of the girls went as far as telling the dudes' girlfriend of their man's attempted cheating. I have no idea what became of it afterwards. Question being, would you have warned the gf of what their man is doing? Even if you're male, feel free to answer the question as if you were in the girl's position.

 

[Mila_]

I dont spend a second of my time on internet Romeos and finding out who his girl is and how to contact her is 10 minutes more than 0.

 

[Worship Jaclyn]

Random guy as in I don't have any idea who he is, no. Just seems like a waste of my time to look at his profile, hunt down girlfriend, message her and then there's a slim chance she will even get pissed at him anyway.

Now if this happens with a guy I actually know in real life, not friends with him but know him then yes I have told his girlfriend on him in the past. If it's someone hitting on me then I'll ignore it but if he is specifically saying "I know I have a girlfriend but she doesn't have to know" then I forward the messages to the girl and block his loser ass

I've seen a version of this where girls will just publicly shame the guy and I think that's a shitty thing to do. I don't believe in bashing people publicly regardless of what they did but all that's doing is humiliating the innocent girlfriend and is just extremely trashy imho.

 

[Gen]

I haven't but I would consider it; I'd want to know if my boyfriend was doing it. But I also wouldn't want to deal with it beyond sending screenshots and I imagine some girls would lash out at the messenger.

Once when a guy hit on me and then got aggressive/mad and threatened me, I did send the screenshots to his mom. And he apologized after, go figure.

 

[EllaGray]

I feel like online flirting isn't really cheating unless it becomes an emotional affair type of thing...but even then, I wouldn't entertain it because the minute someone tells me they are attached they become unattractive in my eyes...if it was online flirting I wouldn't say anything because I wouldn't reciprocate anyway, if however it was an IRL situation and some attached dude kept hitting on me etc I might say something to the lady that he's with if I think she will handle it ok and not go crazy on me or something.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Some of these ladies truly wanna believe that their man loves them so much and is

Been seeing this a lot lately...

Random dude see's a random attractive girl on some form of social media, so dude decides to message girl. Dude proceeds to hit on attractive girl while letting her know that he has a gf but doesn't want the gf to be aware of what he's doing. Of course, attractive girl is disgusted by his actions and rejects him immediately.

A couple of the girls went as far as telling the dudes' girlfriend of their man's attempted cheating. I have no idea what became of it afterwards. Question being, would you have warned the gf of what their man is doing? Even if you're male, feel free to answer the question as if you were in the girl's position.

To avoid any "Nope, my man wouldn't do that!" bullshit while still keeping her aware, I would send her a screenshot of the conversation. Not in a bitchy, confrontational way, but in a "I figured you deserve to know" way. I know that if I was in her position, I'd want the same thing to be done for me.

 

[Honey Moon]

Random dude on internet? No, there's a lot of desperate dude on the internet who don't get anywhere with their creepy DM's or messages.

Dude I know? Yeah because he would have crossed a line with me as a friend and shown me how shitty of a person he is and his GF deserves to know.

 

[Yarrow]

Nah, I wouldn't. It seems waste of time and additional weird drama crud to me.