Would you date a cam girl?

[shygirl]

Great thread.

My partner quite likes the thought of me being a camgirl/model.....not sure I would like him doing it tho - hehe.

 

[gingerhobbit]

Like anything else, the answer is a very firm "it depends."

I want anybody I date to be a decent human being, the kind who makes a place better for having passed through it, or at least doesn't make it worse. Some people who do sex-related work are like that, some aren't (same as any profession).

Years ago, I dated a stripper. She was just a mom looking for the best way to support herself and her son. She wasn't in it to take advantage of anyone, or to pay for a drug habit, or because she was too lazy or venal to do any other kind of work. It was the best option for her at that point in her life, and there was nothing wrong with it.

I'd date a cam girl who was like that, for sure.

With a caveat: Solo or g/g only, no b/g because I wouldn't want to be on cam (and trust me, nobody else would want me to either) and because I wouldn't want her to be with another guy.

If I did date a cam girl, though, I think I'd insist that she be very safety conscious. I don't have a high opinion of my fellow men in general and "internet" guys in particular, so I would want to make sure she takes precautions that none of her members ever show up on our doorstep.

tl;dr: Hells yeah, long as she is awesome sauce.

P.S. As a guy on the wrong side of 40, I am totally in support of younger women/older men. Or vice versa.

 

[AutumnAtoms]

What an interesting topic. Before I started dating my fellow, he was totally against dating a camgirl. He wasn't really for the idea of other people seeing his lovely lady in her special moments. But he grew to understand that its something I love doing & it makes me happy so if he wanted to be with me he would have to accept that part of me.

 

[Drunky]

Heya,

I made an account just to reply to this. I dated a cam girl for a bit, and a lot of my friends are cam girls or strippers.
Personally, I don't understand the stigma behind it. It's a job. It's nothing to be ashamed of and the only guys that would be pushed away by it are shitty anyways. I can see why some guys might be upset with girl on girl shows, but thats a bit different and you'd most definitely have to talk about the confines of your relationship before you do one of those shows in a relationship.

P.s.
One of the best parts of dating a cam girl is that their sugar daddy(s) are also yours as well!

 

[Sevrin]

P.s.
One of the best parts of dating a cam girl is that their sugar daddy(s) are also yours as well!

I'll tip my fedora to that!

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Heya,
P.s.
One of the best parts of dating a cam girl is that their sugar daddy(s) are also yours as well!

Lol. An enjoyable fantasy.

If camgirl becomes disillusioned with dating you and gives you a hearty boot to the curb, the sugar daddies that follow along behind you were also yours.

Was married to a stripper/escort/complete freak. We went to Splitsville, and I spent several miserable years trying to get over her. During my recovery period, I can't remember a single swinging dick who liked her stopping by to see me, not even for so much as a friendly cup of coffee. :lol:

Perhaps someday you will date a doctor, and you can tell people her patients are yours as well... :lol: :lol: :lol:

 

[TacoBelle]

Perhaps someday you will date a doctor, and you can tell people her patients are yours as well... :lol: :lol: :lol:

I completely understand him saying that sugar daddies are his too. At least, WHILE they're in a serious, trusting, relationship where they each support one another monetarily. He's saying that while they're not necessarily giving HIM the money, they're still supplying it. Therefore, it still ends with THEIR money buying him new Playstation games, vacations in exotic lands, etc. Things that he'd never have been able to enjoy with both he and his girlfriend working full-time at shitty jobs.


But yes, you're right. Once the relationship ends, so do the perks. :lol:

 

[gingerhobbit]

Once the relationship ends, so do the perks. :lol:

The lesson here: When you got a good thing going, don't fuck it up, guys.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Perhaps someday you will date a doctor, and you can tell people her patients are yours as well... :lol: :lol: :lol:

I completely understand him saying that sugar daddies are his too. At least, WHILE they're in a serious, trusting, relationship where they each support one another monetarily. He's saying that while they're not necessarily giving HIM the money, they're still supplying it. Therefore, it still ends with THEIR money buying him new Playstation games, vacations in exotic lands, etc. Things that he'd never have been able to enjoy with both he and his girlfriend working full-time at shitty jobs.

Quite right Iris, quite right.

And Drunky, forgive my warped sense of humor. You made me laugh. I took no offense at what you said. I was poking fun at an idea, not you personally. Didn't mean to make fun of you.

What tickled me about it was wondering how a sugar daddy might feel if he were to wander in and read that line. Would he view it as a little insensitive? Perhaps. But I shall leave that for the sugar daddies to sort out. :lol:

At any rate, things always seem to balance out in the end. I imagine one day a sugar daddy will wander in and casually mention how he bought some camgirls ass. And I will no doubt double over at the sight of that as well.

But as for the whole money issue, who supplies, who benefits...meh. That stuff doesn't bother, or even interest me. I bought some custom photos not long ago, and I paid hubby directly without a second thought. It's only fair, he was the photographer. The only thing that did bother me about it was that the guy doesn't have the first clue about lighting.

 

[DevilDaughter]

Of course!!!!

 

[Cereborn]

Male member here.

At this point I would definitely say yes. I can't be absolutely sure how I would respond to that situation when it happened, but I'm pretty sure I would be cool with it. A girl I sort of know is a stripper. Her boyfriend is really chill about it, so I'm sure I could be equally chill with cam modelling. And I like girls with an exhibitionist side anyway.

I think the biggest problem is that I would feel more concern for her than with another line of work. If she was having a bad run of camming and not making much money, I'd want to help, but I wouldn't really be able to. I'd also be concerned for her safety, especially if she started doing date raffles and Exxotica appearances.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

I completely understand him saying that sugar daddies are his too. At least, WHILE they're in a serious, trusting, relationship where they each support one another monetarily. He's saying that while they're not necessarily giving HIM the money, they're still supplying it. Therefore, it still ends with THEIR money buying him new Playstation games, vacations in exotic lands, etc. Things that he'd never have been able to enjoy with both he and his girlfriend working full-time at shitty jobs.

I don't think most camgirls are making enough to where they can pay for exotic vacations all willy nilly like or at least I don't think most camgirls make more than two people with shitty jobs. A small percentage does but camming for most isn't going to allow them to live that lavish of a lifestyle. A dude with a good job is going to be making way more than your average camgirl and be able and probably want to pay for exotic vacations himself. I could see how it would be appealing to the unemployed stoner type to mooch off their girlfriends work but many dudes wouldn't be comfortable with doing that.

Mostly posting because I wanted to say willy nilly but also because I got a chuckle at the leap from video games to exotic vacations. Like one isn't 60 bucks and the other isn't like 20+ grand depending on where and what you do. Totally the same ballpark, friend. I sadly know a bunch of dudes that would prefer playing Call of Duty over any kind of vacation, weirdos. Thankfully don't really know many dudes that would enjoy leeching off of their significant others work while they get high and play Call of Duty all day.