Relying on decade old forum etiquette may not be useful as the industry is constantly evolving. As Gen said this forum is more about girls helping each other. We tend to run off scammy white label dudes
There are male models that use this forum as well as woman are completely able to do scammy behavior with white labels. Gender doesn't dictate ethics or good and evil in people. If you're going to champion evolving then dismiss that evolution in the next sentence with sexism while telling someone else they're being old fashioned.