wishy washy members

[Lyllla]

So I will have guys tip for my snap, and be up my ass then delete me after few days lol Does anyone have this issue? It has happened multiple times or they just go ghost om you

 

[autumnstorm423]

I've had members in the past that were up my ass but I was the one who eventually had to block them because they couldn't respect boundaries. That was 7 years ago. My personal opinion is that it can be dangerous to interact off site with members. They're not all crazy but you never know who the crazies are until they reveal themselves. I assume you're giving them a work related snap and not personal correct?

 

[Lyllla]

Yes it’s my prem snap lol I only use snap for cam

 

[Wuggie]

This topic is probably one of the longest talks I've JUST had with a model friend!

She also just had trouble with a guy BOMBING her, then getting FURIOUS that she did not reply instantly, to a point where she got so frustrated and sad, because she actually kind of liked him as a client, but it broke everything!
It seems people can't control themselves when they "finally" get to talk to a model "Off work"

I would consider myself lucky they stop bombing you, I have never heard of them not having to be blocked or "scared" away before.

so in short; Partially heard about all of this, at least the "be up your ass" part... It sucks it has to be like that though

 

[Sashacurves]

I hated snap for the whole 9 months or so that I had it. I applaud any models who can handle the intensity of it because for me, it was always just so full of attention-draining over-demanding types like you get nowhere else. I agree with you Wuggie there's something about it which makes them almost forget you're a cam model and think they're talking to someone they met off a dating app or something.

 

[misterical]

I've been Snapping with my favourite model for a while now. I had resisted signing up to the app for a while but eventually succumbed to pressure from her. We had a lot of fun with it at first just constantly sending endless daft pictures to each other but the novelty soon wore off. It was a lot of fun while we explored all of the things that the app does but now we use it more infrequently. I wasn't charged for access so that maybe changes my perspective on how I used it.

I can see how Snapchat could become an enormous pain in the ass fairly quickly for a model though. I think it's a good bit of fun on a personal level. Adding a fee to access it has the potential to set the wrong kind of expectations for people who already have trouble respecting boundaries. I guess a lot of models use it purely for the Stories feature. It just seems to me that in that case, something like Instagram might be better suited to the job.

Just an important thing to note, watch the connection with your cellphone number as it could "out" you to family and friends inadvertently. Sign up via email.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I've been Snapping with my favourite model for a while now. I had resisted signing up to the app for a while but eventually succumbed to pressure from her. We had a lot of fun with it at first just constantly sending endless daft pictures to each other but the novelty soon wore off. It was a lot of fun while we explored all of the things that the app does but now we use it more infrequently. I wasn't charged for access so that maybe changes my perspective on how I used it.

I can see how Snapchat could become an enormous pain in the ass fairly quickly for a model though. I think it's a good bit of fun on a personal level. Adding a fee to access it has the potential to set the wrong kind of expectations for people who already have trouble respecting boundaries. I guess a lot of models use it purely for the Stories feature. It just seems to me that in that case, something like Instagram might be better suited to the job.

Just an important thing to note, watch the connection with your cellphone number as it could "out" you to family and friends inadvertently. Sign up via email.

You can’t post nudes or sexual content in instagram stories. Snap doesn’t seem to flag it (yet)

That’s why we use stories..
Also Snapchat feels more intimate and interactive to a lot of members. And has way more functionality for mass messaging etc.. and far less worried about being accidentally outed to family etc. instagram is known to connect you even when you tell it not to.

Snapchat is easy to manage anonymity.


To the OP:

Yep. Setting clear expectations and boundaries around snap is key. But honestly flakey guys are everywhere. Often the ghosting/deleting is due to getting caught by wives etc

 

[misterical]

You can’t post nudes or sexual content in instagram stories. Snap doesn’t seem to flag it (yet)

A good point. We've been so busy sending photos back and forward with novelty noses and glasses that I'd actually forgotten that some people will actually have an expectation of explicit content

 

[LaceyRoyce]

A good point. We've been so busy sending photos back and forward with novelty noses and glasses that I'd actually forgotten that some people will actually have an expectation of explicit content

Yeah…. You’re not using Snapchat in a “typical” way for members.. which is fine but I don’t think it has a lot of bearing on these types of questions

 

[Sashacurves]

Yeah…. You’re not using Snapchat in a “typical” way for members.. which is fine but I don’t think it has a lot of bearing on these types of questions

Or then again maybe it does because I feel like that's the type of high effort low reward (on her part) that a model could quickly get sick of, slow down the replying, then the member leaves because he's not getting the 24/7 attention he thinks he's paid for. It definitely happened like that more than a few times for me with expectations of constant messaging (not photos). OF is another one where this seems to be common!

 

[misterical]

Or then again maybe it does because I feel like that's the type of high effort low reward (on her part) that a model could quickly get sick of, slow down the replying, then the member leaves because he's not getting the 24/7 attention he thinks he's paid for. It definitely happened like that more than a few times for me with expectations of constant messaging (not photos). OF is another one where this seems to be common!

I wouldn't have been snapping back and forwards like that if it wasn't just something we did for a laugh. She really pressured me into signing up to it because I was reluctant as all hell. There was no fee. I think her and her friends were, like the OP, just exploring possible income streams. Her housemate ultimately decided to sell access to her Snap, but my friend hasn't.

Her housemate just seems to use the Stories feature for non-nude stuff but she has a ridiculously high snap score which might suggest she is fielding just the kind of thing that you are all keen to avoid.

I have to say, that prior to her getting me to sign up, it hadn't occurred to me that people use it to send text messages. I had just assumed it was all photo based stuff.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I wouldn't have been snapping back and forwards like that if it wasn't just something we did for a laugh. She really pressured me into signing up to it because I was reluctant as all hell. There was no fee. I think her and her friends were, like the OP, just exploring possible income streams. Her housemate ultimately decided to sell access to her Snap, but my friend hasn't.

Her housemate just seems to use the Stories feature for non-nude stuff but she has a ridiculously high snap score which might suggest she is fielding just the kind of thing that you are all keen to avoid.

I have to say, that prior to her getting me to sign up, it hadn't occurred to me that people use it to send text messages. I had just assumed it was all photo based stuff.

Lol who looks at as snapscores. What even makes a high one??

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Lol who looks at as snapscores. What even makes a high one??

Double post.. I looked at this for the first time it’s just a reflection of how many snaps you send and receive?

If her score is high it just means she snaps a lot or ppl send her shit a lot?

 

[misterical]

Lol who looks at as snapscores. What even makes a high one??

Well, me. Purely because I'm curious about all that stuff because of the industry I work in. But the conclusion I was drawing was because it's an account in her model name, not her real name which suggests that most if not all of those interactions are member related.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Well, me. Purely because I'm curious about all that stuff because of the industry I work in. But the conclusion I was drawing was because it's an account in her model name, not her real name which suggests that most if not all of those interactions are member related.

.. yes? Why would it be in her real name?
Of course if she is selling her Snapchat she is posting so her snap score would be higher??

I feel like I am missing something and it’s irritating.

 

[misterical]

.. yes? Why would it be in her real name?
Of course if she is selling her Snapchat she is posting so her snap score would be higher??

I feel like I am missing something and it’s irritating.

Ah, the key bit of information missing is that I think she has only sold her snap to a couple of guys so these two guys are probably firing a lot of chat her way. I mean, she may enjoy that so who knows but it still made me stop and think.

 

[Lyllla]

My post was about members vanishing after tipping for it and deleting me lol not what you guys are talking about

 

[Sashacurves]

My post was about members vanishing after tipping for it and deleting me lol not what you guys are talking about

That is what I was talking about! OF as well. They pay the 1 month subscription and expect $1000+ worth of your time and attention for the $15-50 or whatever you charged and when they realise they're not getting that attention they disappear.

But also like someone else said I think, reasons could be post-nut clarity, partner finding out, fear of their partner finding out, losing their phone lol anything

 

[Smoothie]

But also like someone else said I think, reasons could be post-nut clarity, partner finding out, fear of their partner finding out, losing their phone lol anything

Could also be that they were never really in it for the long haul, and signed up to see how much they could get out of it in a very short time.

Also: “post-nut clarity” is a great term. (And a very real thing)

 

[NotYou]

There could obviously be a number of reasons, and many more we can't even think of - did he just delete you or did his account get blocked? Maybe he got banned from SnapChat. It's a possibility.

I recently had to block and delete a model from Snapchat, but I don't think you did what she was doing basically every couple of days - she kept adding all her fans/followers on her Snapchat into a GROUP conversation. I assume to make it easier to promote/reply, instead of individually sending photos/messages, but I absolutely hate being added to group stuff like that from any adult sites, it's definitely not what I sign up for and it should always be asked in advance.

 

[Lyllla]

There could obviously be a number of reasons, and many more we can't even think of - did he just delete you or did his account get blocked? Maybe he got banned from SnapChat. It's a possibility.

I recently had to block and delete a model from Snapchat, but I don't think you did what she was doing basically every couple of days - she kept adding all her fans/followers on her Snapchat into a GROUP conversation. I assume to make it easier to promote/reply, instead of individually sending photos/messages, but I absolutely hate being added to group stuff like that from any adult sites, it's definitely not what I sign up for and it should always be asked in advance.

Oh no, I never made a group on snap cause I know guys aren't into that. LOL not trying to scare people off and some what identity of their screen names private.

 

[Lyllla]

That is what I was talking about! OF as well. They pay the 1 month subscription and expect $1000+ worth of your time and attention for the $15-50 or whatever you charged and when they realise they're not getting that attention they disappear.

But also like someone else said I think, reasons could be post-nut clarity, partner finding out, fear of their partner finding out, losing their phone lol anything

I'll have guys spam me on snapchat non stop, But when I am online they do not come to my room or even watch my cam. But they are online. It does not make sense. Or when I call them out, " so why do you only talk to me on snap, but when I am online you don't come through? Their excuse, AFK, been busy, or didn't see me online..LMAO which is bullshit.

 

[darcyduke]

I'll have guys spam me on snapchat non stop, But when I am online they do not come to my room or even watch my cam. But they are online. It does not make sense. Or when I call them out, " so why do you only talk to me on snap, but when I am online you don't come through? Their excuse, AFK, been busy, or didn't see me online..LMAO which is bullshit.

I have this too, and I hate it! They respond to my content, but never come online They'll try and engage me in some dirty chat on snap too, as if they're gonna get freebies...!

 

[Lyllla]

I have this too, and I hate it! They respond to my content, but never come online They'll try and engage me in some dirty chat on snap too, as if they're gonna get freebies...!

I don't know how people can be this way. I have low tolerance for their B.S. I flip out alot. lol then they get upset when you miss their little hello in chat cause you so busy.

 

[darcyduke]

I don't know how people can be this way. I have low tolerance for their B.S. I flip out alot. lol then they get upset when you miss their little hello in chat cause you so busy.

I am so glad that Im not the only one who loses it haha! I just had one now, send me a little vid of him wanking and saying 'Id love to come play now'. I'M ONLINE, DICKHEAD!

 

[Wuggie]

I am so glad that Im not the only one who loses it haha! I just had one now, send me a little vid of him wanking and saying 'Id love to come play now'. I'M ONLINE, DICKHEAD!

Most of this thread is starting to fit into the "things members say that make you go WTF" thread )) but this really made me think so..

 

[darcyduke]

Most of this thread is starting to fit into the "things members say that make you go WTF" thread )) but this really made me think so..

Not really. It's about snapchat and wishy washy members.

 

[bbc003]

I've been Snapping with my favourite model for a while now. I had resisted signing up to the app for a while but eventually succumbed to pressure from her. We had a lot of fun with it at first just constantly sending endless daft pictures to each other but the novelty soon wore off. It was a lot of fun while we explored all of the things that the app does but now we use it more infrequently. I wasn't charged for access so that maybe changes my perspective on how I used it.

I can see how Snapchat could become an enormous pain in the ass fairly quickly for a model though. I think it's a good bit of fun on a personal level. Adding a fee to access it has the potential to set the wrong kind of expectations for people who already have trouble respecting boundaries. I guess a lot of models use it purely for the Stories feature. It just seems to me that in that case, something like Instagram might be better suited to the job.

Just an important thing to note, watch the connection with your cellphone number as it could "out" you to family and friends inadvertently. Sign up via email.

Had a similar experience. Model/studio just offered it to me as a perk for being a regular. Nothing extra paid, we used it to send each other memes and light chat. We eventually both stopped using it after the novelty wore off.

 

[Wuggie]

Not really. It's about snapchat and wishy washy members.

I get that just the 'Id love to come play now'. while you actually being online and it being a possibility, is a WTF moment to me..

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I have the opposite issue. I post rarely on snap these days, but I try to post when im doing something sexy. I don't really cam so that means filming days I try to take BTS.

Of course, when I'm busy filming and they see me posting sexy shit to my story is when I get "hey bb wat u doing can we play now?"

I keep meaning to try saving the snaps and then posting on a different day when I DO have availability.