Wishlists

[SirenBecca]

Okay gals, how many pages do you think that a wishlist should be? What all should you put on there, what shouldn't you put on there?


I had 9 pages, but deleted all the over 50 bucks items, and any items that didn't have a picture to it. Also a few in between things that I really changed my mind on. Now I have 6 pages, and I'm still not done deleting things.

I'm not like OMG GET ME EVERYTHING OFF THIS LIST, because well, that's just plain rude. I have like 3 of my regulars that would buy me anything anyway, and we talk about what they would get me before they get it for me, just to ask about info about the item.

Also - guys, what do you think if a girl has about 6 pages worth of crap? Is it too much? Should I delete down to fewer items even more so?

 

[GreatDane]

it's called a wishlist for a reason, doesn't mean that you will get everything on the list, and your wishes may change, it gives people a chance to see some of the things that you would like and may help them fulfill some fantasies with you. you can have a toy wishlist, a clothing wishlist, furnishing wishlist, etc. etc... you get the point or have it all together. leave the more expensive items on, you never know if someone may surprise you with an extra special gift.

 

[Keithy]

Having items on your wishlist that are super expensive will never hurt anyone. If someone wants to buy you a gift they will get something they can afford. You never know, someone might be fine buying you something huge. I think 9 pages is a bit much though. You might want to break it up like the previous poster said.

 

[AlexLady]

Yeah... you might just be adding more and more and never taking things off that you don't want anymore. Do more research on everything, and balance out the expansive and the cheap.

Some toys are really crappy and low quality, this is what I'd avoid. Whenever I do research I find more issues with toys than you'd imagine, granted now I know what to look for. But it's up to you; everyone knows I'm picky with toys. There are plenty of awesome cheap things out there that are fun to get!


It's your wishlist; make it feel like you, and make a statement with it!

 

[SirenBecca]

Well I'm finally down to about 4 pages worth of lingerie, toys, and hello kitty items.

I deleted most of the bras on there, and the panties, and I'm sticking with the bra and panties that come together. I also deleted most of the items that were over 50 bucks, just because I feel like I'm being too pushy with stuff that I wish I could have, even though it's a wish list there isn't any reason I shouldn't keep things reasonably priced.

 

[Remykins]

I think its fine to have a good variety on your wishlist. Different types of items, in different price ranges. I see some girls who have all high priced items, and some girls who have nothing but DVD's on her list...I think that limits the guys who want to spoil, especially if they want to buy a girl a special something. So I don't think having a huge list is a bad thing as long as you have a bunch of different options for the guys to peruse. My list is 6 pages long but has so many random things on it haha.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Personally, I've refused to put up a wish list... I'm not saying anything about the ladies that have one but I just think that I'd rather not have one (for now... I go back and forth on this with myself). Not that I don't like receiving thingies in the mail... I just prefer to purchase them myself with monies I've earned. It's more satisfying to me, I think, to know that I've earned something. Like I said, I'm not doggin' on the ladies with wish lists and I'm certainly not saying you haven't earned anything on your wish lists! You're out there shakin' your ass for hours on end... it's hard work!

I had a request the other night to set up a p.o. box so that a Prem could randomly send me gifts... This, I think, is also not for me. Receiving something on a wish list almost guarantees I'll get what I want... receiving something randomly in the mail guarantees an awkward moment with that Prem if he sends me something I don't want! Plus, I have all my incoming and outgoing mail routed through a friend in a different state... she forwards my panties and prints and what-not to the Prems that purchase them so that I can continue to keep my location top secret :-D I'm not sure how that would work if I were to receive a refrigerator from a Prem... How do you forward a refrigerator for God's sake?!?!?

 

[SamCamNxtDoor]

Plus, I have all my incoming and outgoing mail routed through a friend in a different state... she forwards my panties and prints and what-not to the Prems that purchase them so that I can continue to keep my location top secret :-D I'm not sure how that would work if I were to receive a refrigerator from a Prem... How do you forward a refrigerator for God's sake?!?!?

I'm actually looking for a service that will do this.... I have had several requests for panties, for instance, and do not want to send them from my home address as I've said I am located somewhere else entirely..... Your friend doesn't happen to live in KY, eh? LOL

 

[JoleneBrody]

Plus, I have all my incoming and outgoing mail routed through a friend in a different state... she forwards my panties and prints and what-not to the Prems that purchase them so that I can continue to keep my location top secret :-D I'm not sure how that would work if I were to receive a refrigerator from a Prem... How do you forward a refrigerator for God's sake?!?!?

I'm actually looking for a service that will do this.... I have had several requests for panties, for instance, and do not want to send them from my home address as I've said I am located somewhere else entirely..... Your friend doesn't happen to live in KY, eh? LOL

Nope... but I wish she did! I have been looking for an excuse to write KY on more things! Nah... just find yourself a dear friend that understands what you do or is more twisted herself... I mail my package to her in a plain brown envelope with the Prem's address label already filled out. She opens her envelope, removes the package and mails it for me! She tells me what I owe her and I just pay her back on paypal... I usually spend twice what it would cost me to just mail it from home but it's okay... my Prems have fun trying to figure out where Coolsville really is and who am I to take that away from them?!?!?

 

[pyrite1965]

You could always just put toys on your wishlist. For example if you use http://www.edenfantasys.com at most people could see your state.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Personally, I've refused to put up a wish list... I'm not saying anything about the ladies that have one but I just think that I'd rather not have one (for now... I go back and forth on this with myself). Not that I don't like receiving thingies in the mail... I just prefer to purchase them myself with monies I've earned. It's more satisfying to me, I think, to know that I've earned something. Like I said, I'm not doggin' on the ladies with wish lists and I'm certainly not saying you haven't earned anything on your wish lists! You're out there shakin' your ass for hours on end... it's hard work!

Edit...
Latest news... yeah, I caved.
After more requests for a wishlist I finally put one up... it's five or six pages ridiculous shit. Ramen, a box of salami, crutches...
but also some fun/sexy stuff and lot's of music. I put up a few high dollar items that I'm actually saving $ for myself and don't expect anyone to purchase them. I'm really terrible at accepting gifts... it makes me feel kinda guilty, I guess. But so far I have actually received some nice stuff... A really sweet regular got me a book I really wanted, a cd and some hot nylons... I think I have a pair of heels on the way from another regular, too.
We'll see how the wish list thing goes... I never expect to be "spoiled" but at least it's there when peeps ask about it so I don't have to explain again how I feel about receiving gifts...

 

[LacieLaPlante]

I put things like books and videogames on my wishlist.

Once I put a nice necklace on my wishlist (~200 dollars) and when I got it in the mail I realized how rude it would be of me to wear a piece of jewelry another man got me to my boyfriend. He felt that if any man could buy me expensive things then what was the point of him being around. I took everything off my wishlist that was similar and Now I limit it to things that I just wouldn't buy for myself.. I love books! I hate spending the money on them if I'm just going to read it in one night.. and I have a growing library. So book/videogames are a great thing for my wishlist. That's just me though. I'm sure men would rather buy me sex toys and lingerie, but this has been working out.

Some people don't have the tip money or MFC won't let them buy more tokens but they've got some amazon card or can buy something on amazon. It's always been a nice surprise to find a gift in the mail, but I certainly don't send people to my wishlist.

 

[SexyCady]

Wishlists are a nice way for people to tip you, knowing that you'll get the full value rather than 50%.

 

[AmyLemon]

Yes, 50% of a pair of Ugg Boots doesn't get you very far in my room.

"Show tits bb, I send you other boooooooot!"

lulz, I dunno it sounded funny in my head

 

[AmberCutie]

I've realized that all the items left (and honestly all of them in total) on my list were wants and not needs... and I've realized that tokens pay my paycheck, which lets me buy my needs...

Thus I took down my wishlist.

If there is ever something someone REALLY REALLY wants me to buy, then we can discuss a token arrangement.

 

[danavixen]

I've realized that all the items left (and honestly all of them in total) on my list were wants and not needs... and I've realized that tokens pay my paycheck, which lets me buy my needs...

Thus I took down my wishlist.

If there is ever something someone REALLY REALLY wants me to buy, then we can discuss a token arrangement.

Well, yes and no for me on this.

I have many things on my wishlist that help make my cam shows better. Lighting and video equipment for example. I could spend the $800 for a nice cam or lenses and yes tokens would help to do that. But oftentimes I have fans who want to get me something nice other than cash and would rather let me see the whole of their funds in my hands w/o a site taking 20-50% of it along the way.
I've gotten a fair chunk of change off that list, both high dollar (sybian) and low (nipple clamps), all are loved and appreciated, since my wallet is a penny pincher. And no penny pinching wallet would buy a sybian!