Should you meet your cam girl?
I would like to thank everyone visiting my blog, the increasing traffic is a sign that there really is no good "how to be great" guide for MFC premiums. Today's topic is regarding the big question that comes up ever so often: Should you meet your cam girl after you have made "friends" with her? The answer in most cases (if not all) is no. Remember that the girls on MyFreeCams, like all adult websites, are your "friends" because they expect money out of it. Sure it is possible to find someone who likes you for who you are but it is rare. And if you somehow manage to figure out she is not after your money and still go ahead, here are a couple of things you should consider:
1) Let's say she's not after your money and you can develop this into something meaningful, but you still might want to ask yourself are you sure you know what you are getting into. Camming is job after which there is no turning back, returning to corporate life or working in public sector and so on. Cam girls are making ridiculous amounts of money (most likely more than you do) at a young age but when years go by the money is getting less and less. Even their CV will look suspicious to someone potentially recruiting. So you will have to accept the fact that either she will be showing her naked body for guys on cam or then not working at all. And there is no retirement/medical plan either.
2) Because of their job, cam girls usually turn into general man-haters. After all, they see the creepiest guys in the whole internet universe asking all kinds of weird requests all day long. Ask any cam girl and she will tell you they simply cannot date a guy without getting annoyed. E.g. after receiving a naughty SMS from the guy their mood turns sour and turned off, thinking: "I should be getting paid for this" etc. There is a saying in Asia amongst Western men who frequent some of the bars with "bar girl" entertainers: "you can take the girl out of the bar but you can never take the bar out of the girl". In camming world this translates into girls thinking of guys as "wallets" and never as normal people with relationships.
3) And even if you are ok with all this, there is still one more thing: cam girls get recorded constantly and it is only a matter of time until the pictures and videos are posted somewhere. Now what would you think if your friends or family would see a video of your girlfriend/fiance/wife stripping for money on cam? This kind of video is likely to pop up even years from now.
So getting involved with a cam girl is a big no-no. But what about just having casual sex? Once a cam girl I knew asked me to visit her for sex (her own words). Now call me crazy but I still said no. So let's treat MFC as it is, a fun place to play with girls and even have a meaningful chat sometimes and not try to make it more than it is. Forget about meeting cam girls in real life. The Holiday season is starting now, spend more time with the people that really matter to you.