A good example would be the N word. I use it all the time..both the soft one and the hard R version. The former is used even with black people, but the latter ironically, is always used on non blacks. Because that word to me and a lot of others, isn't an offensive way of addressing blacks but an offensive way of addressing a scummy person. Acting stingyz being two faced, talking shit behind peoples backs, not lending a hand to those less than them, etc etc. I have been to prison and if any black person should have been offended by my.use.of the words, it would be there. So if I'm still breathing here on the outs, then can't anybody ever tell me how.to use/not to use words.
But a "woke" person of today will argue that I am not woke and racist and try to enforce word and thought policing. To me, thats still asleep lol