lol I'm an INFP
I'm an INTJ, so I guess I'm not s'posed to be a liberal
But I do have a lot of empathy... Why can't I just neatly fit into a pigeonhole?
lol I'm an INFP
The problem with what you are saying is there are exceptions and variations in everything but we need to simplify in order to talk about things and not everyone will be represented to the T in a generalization, but that is what generalizations are for, so we can simplify reality to talk about it.
We could say that a table is a piece of furniture with a flat surface used for eating that usually has 4 legs. You could then claim: "not all tables are for eating" true. "Not all tables are flat on the surface" true also and "not all tables have 4 legs" also true. So what do we do? Do we get rid of language? No, because we understand that even though there are exceptions and variations we agree on what the concept of a table means and most tables fall within that description.
With the couple from the article, I did not use them like they were a representation of a majority of liberals, I used them as a perfect example of what liberal ideology holds true. It is a good example precisely because of how extreme it is. And even when you call them "bizarre" the were the darlings of liberal media from the Guardian to the NY Times to the front page of Reddit for a month because of how "selfless" they are. So I think it is fair to say that liberals identify with the concept of helping others that have no connection to them before helping their own in-group. There are many others examples of this: adopting kids from Cambodia before adopting kids from your own city, accepting Syrian immigrants and giving them welfare that you don't even give your own poor people and a long list of similar things.
We can also agree that even if the Wise couple cannot know for sure whether each African person their money goes to is truly in more need than people elsewhere, we can safely say that there is a very slim chance that American people are going through the same hardships Africans are going to. They probably did quite a bit of research since they are giving away 50% of what they make to them.
Either way I think you are just nitpicking my posts for fun or to pass the time and I think everyone understands what I am trying to say well, it is a bit boring having to explain the same concepts 50 times and clarify what is already evident so I want to step back and let others interact with you on the thread.
I'll preface this by saying I agree with you completely in this specific topic and would trust politifact a lot more then a random youtube link.Politifact is a incredibly reputable site and they interviewed the director of The River School (the school attributed with translating what Michelle said) and they stated that they had nothing to do with it.
I'm more apt to believe a website like Politifact than some random youtube conspiracy channel.
I'll preface this by saying I agree with you completely in this specific topic and would trust politifact a lot more then a random youtube link.
That said I am very distrustful of politifact in general. It's incredibly democratic/left leaning and should be viewed skeptically with that in mind (just as any news source should be viewed with the lens of bias they each have, left or right leaning). It's owned by The Tampa Bay Times, a paper that has on record, publicly endorsed Hillary Clinton. They've endorsed the democratic nominee in every election since at least 2000. Tampa Bay Times are owned by Poynter Institute, which is heavily funded by George Soros. I think it's an important thing to keep in mind whenever reading any stats/article from them.
I say this as a generally left leaning individual.
So I think it is fair to say that liberals identify with the concept of helping others that have no connection to them before helping their own in-group.
This is not fair to say at all. Many many people who lean towards the left would not identify with how you have characterized who they want to help and why. I also think you can want to help people in your own country and people in other places at the same time. And I think you can relate to people for many different reasons, perhaps these reasons are not obvious to you.
Yes, it does sound nice in theory, but...Fear! Danger! Trump will save, or fire! Disaster!It sounds nice in theory, but it's consequentially dangerous. If you do not repair a stagnating economy, that is still stuck under pre-recession levels, and propose mass influx of homeless penniless people, (to greater numbers than currently, the amount of people displaced, are in the millions)that are going to be on government assistance at least a few years you are playing with fire, and economic disaster.
Hey we might have the space or some jobs!.. depends where you're going... OH!.... the already struggling parts of America... I see...
http://www.fox2detroit.com/news/local-news/55826987-story
^^^ Pontiac, MI (building the refugee center) is not exactly a fancy schmancy neighborhood.
http://www.detroitnews.com/story/ne...03/19/refugees-michigan-recent-high/82031954/
What kind of message does that send? People involved in the contracts for the business of resesttling refugees also make money on it... oh... people leave that out don't they?... convenient....
So let's take in all the people! America! (but lets just keep them with all the other poor people while we rake in the benefits of these contracts so no one notices mmkay....)
You have to focus on things best for the economy of the area on the whole, most people can easily see more people on welfare does not fix any of that.
But other people can feel good about themselves from far away, saying "let's help all the people! America!" Without being directly involved or affected by any of the consequences of it ever.
. . . .So my response was to the false idea of helping all people at the same time vs. prioritizing.
This is not fair to say at all. Many many people who lean towards the left would not identify with how you have characterized who they want to help and why. I also think you can want to help people in your own country and people in other places at the same time. And I think you can relate to people for many different reasons, perhaps these reasons are not obvious to you.
Clearly. The pattern is you presenting false black and white choices, and using them to reassure yourself that your false black and white assertions are correct.I could go on, and on, and on. But I think you see the pattern.
@Ms_Diane said, "I also think you can want to help people in your own country and people in other places at the same time." I don't read that as wanting to help all people equally at the same time. I don't read that as failing to prioritize. You can help your family, your community, your country, and still help those in need on the other side of the world to some extent if you've taken care of the needs close to home first.
I could go on, and on, and on. But I think you see the pattern.
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the idea of loyalty is a very interesting one. i was not even thinking of it that way at all. i am going to ask some of my more conservative friends if they think being loyal is important and if they think liberals are not loyal. i wonder if this is just not as much of a thing in canada. sorry to bring up canada so much (swidt?)
the majority of right wing conservatives I know are religious, and missionary work outside of the U.S is a major staple in their lives... So I have a hard time seeing it as a liberal thing.
Sending money to impoverished communities in other countries has always looked like a very conservative thing to me, for this reason. But that's just my view, I have a pastor evangelical father and a Very messianic Jewish mother (and yes they are long divorced haha). Father church is very dedicated to over seas charity and my mom sends more money and effort to Israel, but to her defense she is a teacher here in the US but will be moving to Israel shortly.
So any who, that's how my view is influenced
I'm not sure why I'm quoted... because I think you may be talking about a separate subject to what I was? I dunno... I'm confused now.The difference is people send people to help people over there to rebuild their own countries. We already send our soldiers over there to die supposedly helping good guys fight the bad guys. So now we stop doing that... let the bad guys have all of Iraq for example, fuggit,... and just invite everyone's left over here....how does that work. When we can barely feed our own people... and then the struggling mom and pop places can just go right out of business because muslim refugees have no money and don't drink or like most american entertainment. And then more people are out of work and homeless gahhh. And there's still terrible people who legit definitely do hate us taking over entire countries. And all our veterans are home in dire straits for what... exactly...
THANKS OBAMA!!!! (and hillary)
There's no right answer at this point but there are other options like actually destroying groups like ISIS instead of pretending, giving a fraction of the money we'd spend on refugee welfare in America to muslim nation allies willing to take them in. But you don't those ideas much on the table. Wouldn't be surprised if whoever owns the contracts making the money on all the resettling had something to do with that.
It's not a conspiracy but the level of insanity behind all these things makes it seem like it's intentional sometimes. Smiles for prez 2020!... I think I'll be old enough... oh its 35 I'll still be 25 damn too bad.
You are damn right! Thank you Obama, for not being the black muslim version of a Donald Trump!!!THANKS OBAMA!!!! (and hillary)
I'm not going for smart-alecky here. Curious, genuinely want to know. Is this a true story?Here are some examples of liberal "loyalty" and giving nature at work :
FAMILY STORY
8 year old Suzy returns home from school and finds her favorite toys gone.
Suzy : "Mommy! where are my toys?"
Mommy : " I gave them to the children across the street."
Suzy : "why??"
Mommy: "They were here this morning and the really liked them. They need them more than you do because they come from a poor family."
Suzy crying now : " but mommy ! you gave away my favorite toys! "
Mommy : "dont be a baby! you are too old to play with these anyway and these children are from a poor family! "
Suzy was in pain a very long time.
In fact it was such a traumatic experience it affected her deeply.
Mommy was pleased. Not only was she able to hurt her daughter deeply and enjoy her pain but she did it in such a way that it made her - Mommy- look good in front of neighbors.
That was her coverup story for the crime of hurting her daughter - "to help the neighbors kids."
According to @Kitsune, loyalty is one of the moral dimensions experienced by conservatives, but not by liberals:
"Loyalty/betrayal: this relates to in-group loyalty so it is the basis for ideas of patriotism, nationalism, pride and tradition. In my opinion this foundation is possibly the most problematic for liberals to understand. Because not only do they not understand this value, they actively fight it with all their might."This definition is quite one-sided and lacking in nuance, to put it mildly. However, I can accept the notion that conservatives tend to feel this moral value somewhat more strongly than liberals, on average. But, it's certainly not the case that conservatives have a monopoly on "loyalty."
the majority of right wing conservatives I know are religious, and missionary work outside of the U.S is a major staple in their lives... So I have a hard time seeing it as a liberal thing.
Sending money to impoverished communities in other countries has always looked like a very conservative thing to me, for this reason. But that's just my view, I have a pastor evangelical father and a Very messianic Jewish mother (and yes they are long divorced haha). Father church is very dedicated to over seas charity and my mom sends more money and effort to Israel, but to her defense she is a teacher here in the US but will be moving to Israel shortly.
So any who, that's how my view is influenced
So I guess that means Ann Coulter == Barack Hussein Obama. Brother and sister in Christ.What does "we are all equal in Christ" mean? That if and only if you accept Christ, then you will be equal to all other christians.
I'm not sure why I'm quoted... because I think you may be talking about a separate subject to what I was? I dunno... I'm confused now.
Missionary work costs a LOT of money, on top of the straight donating without travel that happens a lot. I wasn't saying that it's wrong or whatever, just pointing out why I disagreed with the idea that sending money overseas to help starving children is a primarily liberal thing. Just watch the T.V ads to sponsor a child, or the heaviest international relief funds... they are usually affiliated with a church and religious people are predominantly conservative and republican in the united states.
Now I'm also not saying that liberals don't donate to international charities, just pointing out what appears to be a major flaw in the idea that they are the only, or even primary source.
....What does loyalty mean, in terms of "in-group loyalty" and patriotism, nationalism, pride and tradition, in a country where so many of us are from other places?....
There is a time to go left, and there is a time to go right.
There is a time to be conservative, and there is a time to be liberal.
I wonder how many faux conservatives will cry one minute that we should be helping our own, then wail the next about foodstamps?
Conservatism has been overtaken by a political cult.