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If your looking for some thing more tame. You might want to check out Doc Johnson. They have dildos with suction cups and syringe.
POP has replaceable tubing.
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Sliquid has some great water based lubes with vagina vagina friendly pH. And are iso-osmotic, paraben free,
Spunk seems to be a popular choice for. But you probable don't want to use that with any silicone toys.
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