It really depends on who's in the room. I have a few guys who love spanking/paddling me, so some nights I'll wail on my butt until it's red as Rudolph's nose. Then again, the other night I played a spanking game and hardly anybody tipped. A few of my regs like messing with me and tipping for a ball gag cause they know I'm such a talker. Some of my guys love it when I read erotica, but some nights I never read anything. Cumshows, of course, are always a crowd pleaser.
There's no magic formula. You just gotta try a bunch of stuff and see what sticks.