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I agree with both as I not only get irritated when everyone is at an ok volume while going through cams till WHAM loud noises...then of course when I leave the room I have to readjust to the volume that most have it.

Sound however can be tricky on the model's side...I guess the best thing to do is test it if possible, by opening another tab and listening to how it sounds with a regular volume.
 
There are soooo many reasons for a model to want her sound up. If it's loud enough that it's disturbing you, let her know! I'm sure she isn't doing it on purpose.
Thank you! we can't hear ourselves so if it's doing something crazy we don't know unless you tell us. SAY SOMETHING!
 
Maybe I'm an idiot, but if a member is annoyed because a model's sound is too high, why can't he turn down the sound on his end?
 
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Maybe I'm an idiot, but if a member is annoyed because a model's sound is too high, why can't he turn down the sound on his end?
Well I can understand, if the sound is too high that it's peaking out the mic volume adjustment can't fix distortion.
 
True. But distortion is a different problem than simply "too loud." Although they are related.

One night I got chewed out by a model because I told her that her volume was causing her mic to overdrive, distorting her sound. She thought I was being presumptious and rude. Oh well. lol
 
Even if the member can turn his sound down, it's nice to get a heads up because I'd reckon 95% of dudes will just leave if it's loud. Like when I'm clicking around and suddenly get that blast of tinny music and yelling, haha, I usually leave unless I already know & like the model. So you might be helping her retain more visitors!!
 
Even if the member can turn his sound down, it's nice to get a heads up because I'd reckon 95% of dudes will just leave if it's loud. Like when I'm clicking around and suddenly get that blast of tinny music and yelling, haha, I usually leave unless I already know & like the model. So you might be helping her retain more visitors!!
Agree. Although I've seen situations where the complaining member was the only one in the room who had a problem, and when the model turned her sound down, no one else could make out what she said.

It's good to feedback to the model problems you see with her feed, but models should make sure it's not just one individual who has the problem.
 
Honestly, one of the reasons I like cam sites is that most of the girls on them ARE 'normal women' in the looks department; as in women you'd potentially be able to see walking about. This isn't too say that there aren't gorgeous 'where do they grow women like that?' types, or the more overly made up 'porn hot' women as I refer to them... But most of them look like women any of us could meet in our lives.

When I'm browsing the home page, the girls that tend to grab my interest are the cute, 'normal' looking models. I like a girl next door look, generally. Attractive, but not over doing the name up. A really cute face goes a long way with me, regardless of body type.

I'm kind of the opposite, while I do like the "normal" looking girls, the ones that stand out the most for me are fit chicks & pornstar looking ones. That is actually something that shocked me the most about MFC because most of the top girls seem to just look like regular chicks. MFC has opened my eyes up a lot when it comes to camming, never did I think guys would be tipping cam models as much as they do on MFC. Hell, seeing Non-nude models on a cam site being #1 is still mind blowing to me lol! Sites like streamate don't have these kind of rankings and guys seem to be very stingy on there compared to MFC but that might be because MFC's " pay model" is different, you can't do shows in public on streamate, that site is mostly private shows (gold shows too) but MFC is all about those. So you don't see as much "tipping" on sites like that but I guess the money is spent on the private rate instead.








and about the sound stuff, I ALWAYS turn the models sound down. It starts at 50% and I probably put it down to 5-10 because I absolutely hate that tip noise lol
 
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Oh gosh, yeah, trash talking or gossiping about other girls is terrible! If I talk about another model, it's usually because I like her or saw her do something I thought was super interesting!
 
Maybe I'm an idiot, but if a member is annoyed because a model's sound is too high, why can't he turn down the sound on his end?

I've done this on MFC (lowered my volume in the model's room to under 10%) and STILL its ways too loud. Nothing to do at that point except mute the model or leave. (And yes, I do let them know their volume is too high.)
 
Awhile ago, i came to the realization how people are extreme narcissists when it comes to musical preference. Everyone believes their own choice of music is the best, while everyone else's is shitty... sometimes speaking as if their opinions should be regarded as an absolute truth. It's such an ear-of-the-beholder thing.

Yes, and I notice that people get like this over video game systems (Wii-U/PS4/XBox360) and cell phones too, and can be pretty obnoxious about it. Try telling a PS4 fanatic that you just bought a Wii-U system, and watch them go into a "You should've got a PS4 instead!" rant. Lol.
 
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I've done this on MFC (lowered my volume in the model's room to under 10%) and STILL its ways too loud. Nothing to do at that point except mute the model or leave. (And yes, I do let them know their volume is too high.)
Yeah, that's an uncommon occurrence I hope. :) But still, if the sound isn't distorted, turning down volume at my end fixes most such problems. Another problem is where the music is so loud you can't hear the model talk...that really calls for feedback.
 
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Hopefully this does not come off as mean, but it's something I've noticed lately and is really bugging me...

Cam girls getting fed up with slowness. They will post to social media that they are going to quit camming because it has been so bad.

So the members come through. They tip, and make sure she has a great day - suddenly, the model is on cloud 9 and no longer quitting!

Things slow down the next month, and the cycle continues all over. She's ready to quit again.

As a model, I absolutely understand the struggle. I have been through it time and time again. I'll panic during slow times and think "DOES THIS MEAN I HAVE TO GO BACK TO MY VANILLA JOB?" \

I get it - and I also understand that sometimes members respond very well to those "crisis mode" type posts.

However, I strong believe "crisis mode" posts should be used SPARINGLY. Like, as little as possible. Threatening to leave is incredibly unprofessional in my eyes. It also makes me wonder how many times the members will cater to it. Will they eventually think, "Here she goes crying wolf again" and stop helping?

If things are slow, sometimes it doesn't hurt to say just that. "Hey, things are slow, I would really appreciate X, Y, or Z to help me during this time!"

If you really foresee that the end is near for your camming career, I think it's a good idea to plan out your very last show and make it a big party. Go crazy! Cry if you want to! But only if you ACTUALLY plan on leaving for real.

Spontaneous threats to leave just strike me as manipulative.
 
I really appreciate your post Picnic. While I haven't come across any models I follow tweet that they are going to quit. I do see a bunch of the tweets and snaps about slow nights. And I'll be honest when I see them I tend to stay offline as it usually means she(they) will be in a down mood or the room just won't be fun.
 
Sometimes it is just that the model has her tip noise too loud. I've seen it before where the volume is fine as she's talking normally but every time a tip comes in it pracitcally blows up the speakers.

I kinda had mixed feelings about muting the tip sound. Even with the volume lowered, it scared the crap outta me, and I worried that it'd wake up my son next door (even though he's a deep sleeper). On the other hand, weird question but does anyone here think the tip sound maybe encourages some people to tip? I think there's something exciting about going from a dead/silent room to hearing the tip sound (it means YAY, MONEY!).
 
For me, the most annoying thing a model can do is ungrateful for tips. Example: A member tips 50 tokens (Chaturbate) and the model just shrugs it off or even goes as far as to say "that's it?" Especially if the model was just sitting there doing nothing when she got the tip.
You'd think it doesn't happen, but I've seen it more than once and I don't understand it. Like, yeah large tips are great but every little bit counts. Right?
 
I kinda had mixed feelings about muting the tip sound. Even with the volume lowered, it scared the crap outta me, and I worried that it'd wake up my son next door (even though he's a deep sleeper). On the other hand, weird question but does anyone here think the tip sound maybe encourages some people to tip? I think there's something exciting about going from a dead/silent room to hearing the tip sound (it means YAY, MONEY!).

I hate the MFC tip sound--it's just so loud and jangly and distracting (especially during a quiet, erotic show, or anytime with a yellow wall of 1 token tips). However, I have to admit that it might indeed have the effect of encouraging more tipping. I can't explain why. Maybe because it sounds vaguely like a slot machine. (BTW, here's an interesting WaPo article on the psychology of slot machine sounds. The goal, of course, is to encourage more betting.)

I used to think that MFC should allow models to change the sound, much like you change ringtones on your phone, but I'm pretty sure that 99% of the resulting choices might be more pleasant, but would lower the tip rate.

There are actually MFC tip sound ringtones. Horrifying!
 
I really appreciate your post Picnic. While I haven't come across any models I follow tweet that they are going to quit. I do see a bunch of the tweets and snaps about slow nights. And I'll be honest when I see them I tend to stay offline as it usually means she(they) will be in a down mood or the room just won't be fun.

Next time consider stopping by and helping spread some cheer instead - whether it's 10 tokens or some pleasant conversation :) means a lot to us, especially during slow times, and can help turn that bad mood around instead of making it worse ;)
 
Next time consider stopping by and helping spread some cheer instead - whether it's 10 tokens or some pleasant conversation :) means a lot to us, especially during slow times, and can help turn that bad mood around instead of making it worse ;)

To be fair I've been in the room on both ends of what you are saying. I've been in the rooms tipping and talking, but because the countdown isn't going down fast enough the model becomes flustered and it isn't fun to hear them complain(for lack of a better word) about it being slow. I've also come in after receiving the snap or tweet about it being slow and then try and participate and it still doesn't go well. So because of that I tend to stay away on those nights. I tend to prefer to just give an offline tip the next time I'm on and she's not to show my appreciation.
 
To be fair I've been in the room on both ends of what you are saying. I've been in the rooms tipping and talking, but because the countdown isn't going down fast enough the model becomes flustered and it isn't fun to hear them complain(for lack of a better word) about it being slow. I've also come in after receiving the snap or tweet about it being slow and then try and participate and it still doesn't go well. So because of that I tend to stay away on those nights. I tend to prefer to just give an offline tip the next time I'm on and she's not to show my appreciation.

Offline tips = good move in this situation :)
 
Hopefully this does not come off as mean, but it's something I've noticed lately and is really bugging me...

Cam girls getting fed up with slowness. They will post to social media that they are going to quit camming because it has been so bad.

So the members come through. They tip, and make sure she has a great day - suddenly, the model is on cloud 9 and no longer quitting!

Things slow down the next month, and the cycle continues all over. She's ready to quit again.

As a model, I absolutely understand the struggle. I have been through it time and time again. I'll panic during slow times and think "DOES THIS MEAN I HAVE TO GO BACK TO MY VANILLA JOB?" \

I get it - and I also understand that sometimes members respond very well to those "crisis mode" type posts.

However, I strong believe "crisis mode" posts should be used SPARINGLY. Like, as little as possible. Threatening to leave is incredibly unprofessional in my eyes. It also makes me wonder how many times the members will cater to it. Will they eventually think, "Here she goes crying wolf again" and stop helping?

If things are slow, sometimes it doesn't hurt to say just that. "Hey, things are slow, I would really appreciate X, Y, or Z to help me during this time!"

I can totally understand the not-so fortunate models getting frustrated/unmotivated to log on cam after slow nights. Should it be a common theme to tweet out about it? Definitely not but sometimes people need to vent. It does bother me though when the top models complain about cam being slow even though they still bring in several thousand tokens a night.

For me, the most annoying thing a model can do is ungrateful for tips. Example: A member tips 50 tokens (Chaturbate) and the model just shrugs it off or even goes as far as to say "that's it?" Especially if the model was just sitting there doing nothing when she got the tip.
You'd think it doesn't happen, but I've seen it more than once and I don't understand it. Like, yeah large tips are great but every little bit counts. Right?
What I love about tipping is when the model gets super excited, even if some you tip 10 tokens "wooohoo thanks" believe it or not I think some models get desensitized to tips amounts.
 
I used to think that MFC should allow models to change the sound, much like you change ringtones on your phone, but I'm pretty sure that 99% of the resulting choices might be more pleasant, but would lower the tip rate.

I could've sworn that a couple years ago, Amber had posted something about a certain MFC model changing the tip sound to something cool. That would be AWESOME.
 
SQUEAKY FUCKING FURNITURE.
I've come across 2 different models recently who were sitting on something that squeaked like no other everytime they so much as scratched their nose. And one of them thought it was the coolest thing ever to have a broken bed...
I am so guilty of having a squeaky chair and it sounds so loud on the member's end.
But i'm working on getting a new one, i swear :oops::wacky:
 
I kinda had mixed feelings about muting the tip sound. Even with the volume lowered, it scared the crap outta me, and I worried that it'd wake up my son next door (even though he's a deep sleeper). On the other hand, weird question but does anyone here think the tip sound maybe encourages some people to tip? I think there's something exciting about going from a dead/silent room to hearing the tip sound (it means YAY, MONEY!).
absolutely! I have a flash issue that makes me lose my tip sound when the flash memory get's tapped out pretty much every night. a heavy gif and yellow wall night will push it along even faster.
Anywho, If I lose my tip noise during a show and don't refresh to get it back, my tips from new people during said show are much less than if I had the tip noise.
 
Yes, and I notice that people get like this over video game systems (Wii-U/PS4/XBox360) and cell phones too, and can be pretty obnoxious about it. Try telling a PS4 fanatic that you just bought a Wii-U system, and watch them go into a "You should've got a PS4 instead!" rant. Lol.

as we venture further away from the topic...

Don't forget about PC gamers who like to use the term "console peasants/peons/simpletons/whatever" to look down on console players. The gaming world (and the electronic gizmo or automobile world for that matter) is chalk full of elitist attitudes. It's like, "Ok boys and girls. It's just games."
 
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OFF CAM BEHAVIOR of a model:

yep i can tell you about it haha, SO, I have this ... lets say:
acquaintance (lol i had to google the spelling and do copy paste, 1st lenguage is español !! srry ;)

of mine who was interested in caming so I helped her do her mfc account and so, gave her some pointers (even tho im not even remotely close to be on top) and even did a couple "cam slumber parties" with her and it was.... just fine UNTILL she started to talk about all of our sessions OFF CAM.... publicly ON FACEBOOK!! wich is .....OKAY..... to the point that is fine to be proud of being a webcam model and enjoy yourself but I just had to unsubscribe from her fb posts cus all I could read was stuff about how she had all these slaves giving her money and all these guys kissing her ass and stuff when her camscore is 300 LOLOLOL and.... you know, its okay to be proud but dont just go out and about telling people how you make bank from masturbating on cam when its NOT true lololol all i can see is all these creepy guys comenting on it like "Wowwwww i wish i could do that" and deep inside im like..... girl..... it doesnt count if they r not tipping u for those slave fantasy pm's mmkay...????? LOL!!
okay sorry if this sounds mean but it seemed like the right place to vent on this hella funny situation of mine !!!!!

SO - showing off your camgirl money on social media(when you make none): right or wrong??? :')
 
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Don't forget about PC gamers who like to use the term "console peasants/peons/simpletons/whatever" to look down on console players. The gaming world (and the electronic gizmo or automobile world for that matter) is chalk full of elitist attitudes. It's like, "Ok boys and girls. It's just games."

Spoken like a dirty console peasant. :p
 
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