Ahh that old "so young and attractive" spiel. Yes, I'm sure we've heard it and seen it all before. Generally I am not surprised if someone is young or in shape, I have yet to meet a guy in his 20s who doesn't watch porn on a regular basis. And most men in their 20s are pretty in shape, not necessarily Joe 6-pack, but it's hardly a USP to be in shape if you're in a younger age group. I think for sure it's possibly more likely that the guys who can afford to spend money on camsites enough to form a friendly relationship with a camgirl would be a bit older. But in my experience I've encountered a real range of ages, as when I started camming I was in my early 20s I tended to get quite a few regulars who were in their mid to late 20s or early 30s.
Something I have heard a lot with young men in regards to sex work, is a misconception that looks make any difference. It's been talking to guys I know who've hired prostitutes in 3rd world dodgy brothels when I've asked them if they were concerned about sex trafficking, and they adamantly defended themselves on "but I'm young and good looking, so it must have been much nicer for them", logic I find hard to get on board with (especially as some young guys are like jack rabbits in the sack. Ouch). Or when I worked in an upmarket burlesque/strip club and guys would go on at me about all the "awful" men I must have to dance for, and be disbelieving when I say that most are under 30, many very good looking (lots of stag do's, man I loved this place), even after I've gestured around a room full of well off, good looking young men. I think it's that they want to feel special, or even have their preconstructed ideas of the people who visit sex workers affirmed. Maybe it makes them feel less like "one of the pervs". And don't get me wrong, in a strip club if you find the person you're dancing for attractive it can be pretty dam hot, but in the cam world I really don't give two fucks. For sure I will compliment someone if I find out they're hot, and if it's a particularly awesome regular then I might feel some pleasure from that information, but realistically when it comes to camming, personality and monies is hands down the only thing I really care about.
So maybe that's just me, but if you're a young, decent looking member, you may get compliments, but remember where you are. Camgirls are not poor unhappy girls who only get to meet or speak to men who are 40 years our senior, not only are members of all ages and levels of attractiveness, we also almost certainly have plenty of decent looking men and women of our own age in our personal lives. Our job is to make you feel special and attractive, try not to read into it too much.
Something I have heard a lot with young men in regards to sex work, is a misconception that looks make any difference. It's been talking to guys I know who've hired prostitutes in 3rd world dodgy brothels when I've asked them if they were concerned about sex trafficking, and they adamantly defended themselves on "but I'm young and good looking, so it must have been much nicer for them", logic I find hard to get on board with (especially as some young guys are like jack rabbits in the sack. Ouch). Or when I worked in an upmarket burlesque/strip club and guys would go on at me about all the "awful" men I must have to dance for, and be disbelieving when I say that most are under 30, many very good looking (lots of stag do's, man I loved this place), even after I've gestured around a room full of well off, good looking young men. I think it's that they want to feel special, or even have their preconstructed ideas of the people who visit sex workers affirmed. Maybe it makes them feel less like "one of the pervs". And don't get me wrong, in a strip club if you find the person you're dancing for attractive it can be pretty dam hot, but in the cam world I really don't give two fucks. For sure I will compliment someone if I find out they're hot, and if it's a particularly awesome regular then I might feel some pleasure from that information, but realistically when it comes to camming, personality and monies is hands down the only thing I really care about.
So maybe that's just me, but if you're a young, decent looking member, you may get compliments, but remember where you are. Camgirls are not poor unhappy girls who only get to meet or speak to men who are 40 years our senior, not only are members of all ages and levels of attractiveness, we also almost certainly have plenty of decent looking men and women of our own age in our personal lives. Our job is to make you feel special and attractive, try not to read into it too much.
) I'm going to guess the average demographic is much older than people think, just not all of us want to turn a cam on.
