Vagina Question for Ladies...not so sexy..lol

[jenovakitty]

So...I guess I would say I'm a sexual noob...I haven't utilized my vajay to its greatest capabilities in the past, let's say.
So in the last year, and especially with my newest sexual partner, I've really loosened up, relaxed, both literally and metaphorically, and learned a lot more about downstairs and how it works, what its boundaries are, etc...

My question is, since I've been doing all this exploring and 'liberating of my femininity' I guess, my vajay looks poofy and bigger, like it's grown an attitude. It goes down, but hasn't gotten to like.....the shy, timid looking small jayjay it used to be....is this a 'I'm blossoming into womanhood' kinda thang, do all vaginas do this at a certain point, or am I just permaswollen and broken lol

 

[CharlotteLace]

So...I guess I would say I'm a sexual noob...I haven't utilized my vajay to its greatest capabilities in the past, let's say.
So in the last year, and especially with my newest sexual partner, I've really loosened up, relaxed, both literally and metaphorically, and learned a lot more about downstairs and how it works, what its boundaries are, etc...

My question is, since I've been doing all this exploring and 'liberating of my femininity' I guess, my vajay looks poofy and bigger, like it's grown an attitude. It goes down, but hasn't gotten to like.....the shy, timid looking small jayjay it used to be....is this a 'I'm blossoming into womanhood' kinda thang, do all vaginas do this at a certain point, or am I just permaswollen and broken lol

I have a feeling maybe you're a bit younger, like maybe late teens, early 20s? I know it's intimidating to be specific, but I'm not entirely sure if you just mean that your opening isn't as tight as it was as a virgin, or if your labia seem longer, or what. Obviously once you've started having sex your body adjusts to accommodating dicks (so the vaginal opening might be a bit bigger/easier to open), but the myth of "too much sex= long labia" has been long debunked. . My best guess is it's hormonal.

 

[AudriTwo]

Kegels help strengthen your vagina muscles. When you orgasm, your dude will really be able to feel it.

 

[jenovakitty]

I'm 29 years old, with kegels that are 'too strong' That's another thing I've been doing is 'opposite kegels' kinda too, since learning that my pelvic floor muscles might actually be messing with my glutes. My opening is still tight, its just almost like...I guess like my vagina is permanently engorged? It's not painful or anything, just looks like I have a new vagina lol

 

[KylieJacobs]

I think it has to do with your hormones also. When I'm really turned on mine puffs up, sometimes a lot, but it usually goes down by the next day. I think it's because blood rushes to that area.

 

[JoleneBrody]

If it feels swollen, not even necessarily painful just swollen feeling... you may want to consider upping your lube use as well.

But I agree with the ladies that it may also be hormones. At 29 (same as me) you are basically at the peak of your sexual prowess right now and your hormones are at full alert!

 

[Lelo1]

FYI allergies can cause swelling. For instance latex allergy. Lots of lubricants contain perfumes, flavors, parabens all irritants. Switching to a low irritant lube like Sliquid H2O can help avoid irritants.

 

[jenovakitty]

Oh thanks, didnt even take that one into account!

 

[melonbun]

I second the lube thing, it might just be hormones but "perfume" on an ingredients list can baically mean anything and it might have something you are sensitive to in it.

 

[Bobbie Madison]

The clit gets bigger when you're aroused like when a man's penis gets hard. But over time, you vagina will change when you have consistent sex, have a baby, fuck yourself with different size toys etc. Even the way you shave (if you go over the same spot too much), can cause a change in appearance.

Do kegels, and maybe take a break from sex sometimes, and take a hot bath twice a month with a cap or to of vinegar, and you'll be find. The guy doesn't care what it looks like I think tho, as long as it feels good inside