The_Brown_Fox said:
That's what I say. There's this one guy who ALWAYS comes to my room and does it, or he posts those emotes telling people to tip. I might send him a pm one day telling him that if he's going to post those emotes he should actually be willing to tip himself, at least once, and then point out that he can buy a small token package! I mean seriously, if he cannot afford to spend £1 on 10 tokens then he should really go earn some money instead of perving!
Actually quite a few of my regulars point this stuff out. To be fair sometimes they do an example of how it should work "yellow wall" then tipping for yellow wall, so technically he could claim he caused my regulars delightfully smart arse tipping response, but fact is, when my regulars do that, they're generally tips they were going to spend anyway.
heartbrokenperv said:
It is very sweet that you think this, but it is definitely wishful thinking. It most definitely DOES matter if you tip or not.
Will the model tolerate you if you don't tip ever? If you're polite enough then yes she probably will let it slide, but personally I keep note of members who are nice/polite to me and never tip, I can't help but think how they aren't willing to throw anything my way, and that means they're not a friend, eventually I will resent them (not that they'll ever know). I most definitely do mind and care in these situations.
If you tip when you can and chill out in my room, I would rather you come and hang out in my room than what many members do which is perve in the lounge or pm viewer. I personally feel happier in my room feeling like I'm surrounded by friends. Friends are those who tip me when they can, I don't mind if they're not tipping me that very second, (obviously I'd like them to) but I would much rather them hang out and not tip than not be there at all.
Now, when members ask me in pms if I'm coming online, if they have no intention of tipping sometimes I'd like to know before I come online specially because I have had the implication that i'm going to be tipped. If it's someone who's regularly a tipper, I wouldn't mind them saying in pm "really sorry but I don't have tokens today, is it ok if I hang out tonight in public chat?" then I would appreciate that as I won't waste time/hope on them. I like it when they tell me that they'll be paid on x day and genuinely mean that's when they're going to tip me. It's not necessary to tell a girl that, but I like the hope of knowing I should be getting tokens on x day.
If someone is not tipping one night then I would appreciate it if they do not pm me, and talk in the public room. If it's a close regular or a regular who tips a lot, then I may use them to bitch about the freeloaders in my room (yes I do that, and it's only because I love you). If you just tip in the 10s/20s when you're in my room and are fairly chatty/friendly and don't make requests/make me feel uncomfortable, then you will not be on pm basis, but you will be someone I will always be happy to have in the room and will be an important part of the room.
For me if someone comes to my room all the time I get used to their tipping routine. If you start by tipping 200 tokens a night, I will be concerned if it moves down to 10 tokens a night, if you generally only tip on your paydays so tip lots a few times a month, then that's your routine, I don't mind this, if you choose to do that then obviously you'll spend majority of your time freeloading. One of my best tippers does this, he won't tip and then when he has money he'll spend a load and drop it all on me on one or two nights, sure he only tips twice a month, but it works out as quite a bit per day! He's also very respectful and non demanding, which means if he wants something if I can, I'll give it to him, even if he's not tipping.
If one month, he was coming to my room etc, and then he tipped less, yet got the same treatment, was in my room the same amount, I might wonder what was up. If he stopped tipping altogether for a month or two, yet didn't seem to have any financial problems, then I would have a problem.
There are a few members who've been on my friendslists for ages, yet haven't tipped for almost a year, and still do come to my room. Often they tipped a few hundred tokens over a few nights, then the tipping stopped. I don't mind them coming to my room, but even though they're on my friendslist, I do mind them sending me pm's, yet I feel bad removing them from my list. Some of them don't come to my room for ages then send me lots of pms saying "long time no see" etc even though i know they're active on mfc, that bugs me if they haven't tipped. Cool they're catching up, but I've been here, so have they, they could have talked to me or visited me easily.
If a new member comes to my room, I do not appreciate being told they aren't going to tip that night, or hearing anything about their financial situation. When it's someone I know/talk to, then I don't mind, and it can be helpful, unless they're giving this excuse on a daily basis for a long time.
Never forget, that models are on mfc for tokens. So although a bit of conversation is cool, I am not there for conversation, I am there for tokens, so yes, I definitely mind if someone isn't tipping, there are always the lesser of two evils, and sometimes I mind more than others, but essentially, I ALWAYS want tokens.
But you're a model friend! Of course you're an exception to the rule!! :-D
