Thoughts on wish lists and tips for specific things?

[JoleneBrody]

Wanting a simple "thanks" is the same as wanting to be a sugar daddy? :naughty:

Considering a tip of 1 token often gets thanks, I see your point JimX.
As someone who works for a living, each time I spent it was hard work traded to do so. It might be 20 hours work for some members to give a model a gift.

To label it as sugar daddy fetish is to label big tipping the same (there is no extra reward in tipping 1k/ 5k/ 10k beyond a target). Gifting always felt more like a thankyou for a great time, sometimes as a display of support for the model herself beyond chat. The sugar daddy fetish (have felt it a little), comes through more in tipping, constant support where you are spending on a 'friend' just to help her pay the rent.

Whatever way you wish to label a gift, a 'thank you' is only right and polite.

I think maybe my allergy med typing confused people. I wasn't trying to label this situation sugar daddy fetish or tell him he shouldn't feel bummed about not getting a thank you. I think we can all agree thanking is the proper thing to do unless you know for CERTAIN that person wants the opposite.
I would feel exactly the same as him if I were in his shoes.
I just saw him post this

Is there a point where you think the wish list is ridiculous and members become virtual sugar daddies?

and this

I had forgotten that some guys love being the sugar daddy. Alien concept to me, but I am sure every model has at least one.

and wanted to give some insight as to why some people like it. They just enjoy that thing he was after at a next level. That thrill of giving something with the expectation of a certain response, on steroids!

Sorry for any confusion. I tried to clear up my intentions but I think I messed up my thought process too much.
I've never dealt with a "sugar daddy" before, it's really not my thing but from what I understand, they just get a thrill out of doing something nice for someone and enjoy getting a reaction... mostly.

 

[RainyDayGuy]

Personally not a fan of the whole sugar daddy/sugar baby dynamic and it turns me off. But that's just me and I doubt any models (or women IRL) going that route particularly care if it turns me off.


I do think there is a legitimate concern over using MFC as a portal to solicit gifts and money and not giving MFC or the gubmint their cut.

A couple days ago she said she was sad that her camscore keeps dropping. One of her regulars suggested removing the wish list so guys actually tip (kinda surprised she never thought of this). It seems to me that this is something MFC would really hate (no, I am not going to report her ), since it means she is using their platform to mainly get Amazon gifts.

 

[JimsX]

I think maybe my allergy med typing confused people. I wasn't trying to label this situation sugar daddy fetish or tell him he shouldn't feel bummed about not getting a thank you. I think we can all agree thanking is the proper thing to do unless you know for CERTAIN that person wants the opposite.
I would feel exactly the same as him if I were in his shoes.
I just saw him post this

Is there a point where you think the wish list is ridiculous and members become virtual sugar daddies?

and this

I had forgotten that some guys love being the sugar daddy. Alien concept to me, but I am sure every model has at least one.

and wanted to give some insight as to why some people like it. They just enjoy that thing he was after at a next level. That thrill of giving something with the expectation of a certain response, on steroids!

Sorry for any confusion. I tried to clear up my intentions but I think I messed up my thought process too much.
I've never dealt with a "sugar daddy" before, it's really not my thing but from what I understand, they just get a thrill out of doing something nice for someone and enjoy getting a reaction... mostly.

All good. I follow you now. I started off upset, then understanding, then back and forth a couple more times over the course of the thread :lol:

 

[JoleneBrody]

I think maybe my allergy med typing confused people. I wasn't trying to label this situation sugar daddy fetish or tell him he shouldn't feel bummed about not getting a thank you. I think we can all agree thanking is the proper thing to do unless you know for CERTAIN that person wants the opposite.
I would feel exactly the same as him if I were in his shoes.
I just saw him post this

Is there a point where you think the wish list is ridiculous and members become virtual sugar daddies?

and this

I had forgotten that some guys love being the sugar daddy. Alien concept to me, but I am sure every model has at least one.

and wanted to give some insight as to why some people like it. They just enjoy that thing he was after at a next level. That thrill of giving something with the expectation of a certain response, on steroids!

Sorry for any confusion. I tried to clear up my intentions but I think I messed up my thought process too much.
I've never dealt with a "sugar daddy" before, it's really not my thing but from what I understand, they just get a thrill out of doing something nice for someone and enjoy getting a reaction... mostly.

All good. I follow you now. I started off upset, then understanding, then back and forth a couple more times over the course of the thread :lol:

Hahaha Sorry I fucked that up, I totally didn't mean to seem like I was pointing the finger at ya. I actually just went totally off topic... so confusion was guaranteed.
Sudafed is a helluva drug.