Ok so first of all, people started fighting and that makes me sad 
It's supposed to be a nice, happy ganging up on OP. He neeeeeds therapy, but for now he has us. I'm surprised anyone took offense to the reaction of this post in which people were both honest, but much more light hearted and joking than in the other post. That one got too real as we all got worried and up in arms for this poor woman. OP has called her friend, girlfriend (his reddit posts in which MORE people told him bad idea), best friend, and an assortment of other terms assuming an attachment more than what should just be consumer and business woman. I don't think Tista Ray ever took our invite to the website, but from what I remember that one day, PeterPan up here was very much downplaying his obsession with her when he was brought up to her. The model might honestly not understand the extent of his issues. But who knows, she might and just want the money. No matter it though, when OP doesn't listen to models who know what they're talking about and offer good advice, I don't think it's scummy or in poor taste to joke at his expense. He wants advice but we ALL know he won't take it, dozens of models and members told him the same thing last time and he didn't listen. So why try again? No one (well, most people aren't) is being malicious in their attacks. However I missed the deleted post that I'm assuming was aimed at models? *sigh* we're always the bad guys, I get it.
Also, it's been long enough since the last post that anyone that wasn't participating in the moment might not get why it got so heated and still think we're all assholes. But in the moment when we were all worried and all we got was "No you're wrong, you don't understand, I love her, I don't care what you say I'm STILL going to show up against advisement." No matter how much we said he could scare her, not once did he worry about her mental health or well being, caring only that he fullfilled the fantasy that he'd built up in his head.
I'm pretty sure everyone in here that cracked at least one joke was part of that original thread. We were all there, we all dealt with it, dealt with the ignoring, the worry, the wondering if he was a troll and then learning he wasn't. I think it's fair in that we had an emotional investment that first time. Hell, we cyber stalked the model so we could warn her, we were legitimately worried about her safety. You know what stalkers and abusers do, they downplay. You know why cops don't believe victims, because abusers downplay. You know why we all give a shit? We KNOW that behavior, we know what downplaying looks like, and we know it's legitimately serious. However the most we can do as none of us are where she is, is warn her. The next best thing we can do, is crack jokes at OPs expense because it's not like there's anything else we can bloody do, he won't listen and past that there really is nothing we can do. We could ignore him, but he needs the attention. Better to give him the attention so he comes back and we can keep an eye on the situation than stop giving him attention and force him to do something drastic so he can get it.
I'm rambling now, it's 1am, and I still have a bunch of homework, night guys, love you allllll.
It's supposed to be a nice, happy ganging up on OP. He neeeeeds therapy, but for now he has us. I'm surprised anyone took offense to the reaction of this post in which people were both honest, but much more light hearted and joking than in the other post. That one got too real as we all got worried and up in arms for this poor woman. OP has called her friend, girlfriend (his reddit posts in which MORE people told him bad idea), best friend, and an assortment of other terms assuming an attachment more than what should just be consumer and business woman. I don't think Tista Ray ever took our invite to the website, but from what I remember that one day, PeterPan up here was very much downplaying his obsession with her when he was brought up to her. The model might honestly not understand the extent of his issues. But who knows, she might and just want the money. No matter it though, when OP doesn't listen to models who know what they're talking about and offer good advice, I don't think it's scummy or in poor taste to joke at his expense. He wants advice but we ALL know he won't take it, dozens of models and members told him the same thing last time and he didn't listen. So why try again? No one (well, most people aren't) is being malicious in their attacks. However I missed the deleted post that I'm assuming was aimed at models? *sigh* we're always the bad guys, I get it.
Also, it's been long enough since the last post that anyone that wasn't participating in the moment might not get why it got so heated and still think we're all assholes. But in the moment when we were all worried and all we got was "No you're wrong, you don't understand, I love her, I don't care what you say I'm STILL going to show up against advisement." No matter how much we said he could scare her, not once did he worry about her mental health or well being, caring only that he fullfilled the fantasy that he'd built up in his head.
I'm pretty sure everyone in here that cracked at least one joke was part of that original thread. We were all there, we all dealt with it, dealt with the ignoring, the worry, the wondering if he was a troll and then learning he wasn't. I think it's fair in that we had an emotional investment that first time. Hell, we cyber stalked the model so we could warn her, we were legitimately worried about her safety. You know what stalkers and abusers do, they downplay. You know why cops don't believe victims, because abusers downplay. You know why we all give a shit? We KNOW that behavior, we know what downplaying looks like, and we know it's legitimately serious. However the most we can do as none of us are where she is, is warn her. The next best thing we can do, is crack jokes at OPs expense because it's not like there's anything else we can bloody do, he won't listen and past that there really is nothing we can do. We could ignore him, but he needs the attention. Better to give him the attention so he comes back and we can keep an eye on the situation than stop giving him attention and force him to do something drastic so he can get it.
I'm rambling now, it's 1am, and I still have a bunch of homework, night guys, love you allllll.
