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I guess none of you saw the part where I said, and I quote: "Firstly, if I make a request that reasonably shouldn't be granted without a tip, then it is my responsibility to tip, and in this case, the model is entirely justified in asking for one(IF I make the request)." You guys are making a lot of assumptions about me based on an example scenario. For one, no, seeing someone raise one eyebrow alone isn't my fetish. I said it INVOLVES it, and then said I wouldn't go into detail, as details are irrelevant to the point of my post, which brings me to that: The point of my post should have been obvious, but I'll make it clear: The point of this post was to show certain things that models, or moderators, do that potentially turn a large amount of men off to the model, thus not only ruining the time of the member, but also ruining any chance for the model to make money from them. Oh, and any of you who wish to take stabs at me by saying I'm a gray member, give me your model name and I'll show you otherwise. Assumptions are based upon ignorance, thus they are never logical. You'd all do well to remember that.
 
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lol... the million responses made by OP in the middle of the night came through in strange (reverse?) order since they had to go through moderation process. just posting this in case anyone gets confused.
 
I'd like for you to quote the part of my OP that even implied that I expect one or more of these models to fulfill my fetish(es) for free. Being that I know I never stated nor implied that, you'll find nothing of the sort. Thus, your words are proven to embody nothing more than an assumption, which proves the point I made in my above reply to this post.

We are going by this...

Some of the models ask for tips for ridiculous things. The eyebrow raise for example. Asking someone to pay you to see something on your face is absolutely ridiculous, and I'm sure pretty much 100% of the members, and likely a good chunk of the models on most sites, would agree with me on that.


Man the entitlement and elitness from you is kinda nauseating. You are kinda sad, I will pray for you.
 
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This is seriously like the official 2016 phrase isn't it?

I hope you're happy, Jolene. With your... words, and your... sentences. Sentences that while logical and some might say, fair, conveyed something counter to what some guy on the internet wanted to hear from you. I don't know how you sleep at night.
 
I hope you're happy, Jolene. With your... words, and your... sentences. Sentences that while logical and some might say, fair, conveyed something counter to what some guy on the internet wanted to hear from you. I don't know how you sleep at night.
I eat my nightly soup with rice noodles while under the covers, take some melatonin and then watch episodes of 30 rock until the snores of my cat rock me gently into a soup/melatonin coma... where I proceed to sweat entirely too much
 
I eat my nightly soup with rice noodles while under the covers, take some melatonin and then watch episodes of 30 rock until the snores of my cat rock me gently into a soup/melatonin coma... where I proceed to sweat entirely too much
Well now I'm all hot and bothered, thanks.
 
I eat my nightly soup with rice noodles while under the covers, take some melatonin and then watch episodes of 30 rock until the snores of my cat rock me gently into a soup/melatonin coma... where I proceed to sweat entirely too much
you monster!
 
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@Lintilla I think you quoted the wrong person :p

This is true, I'm not sure what I did, actually, because the words I meant to quote are there! I must have had more than one excerpt in my quote box. It is obviously bedtime. I'm such a newb at forums, too :p
 
I guess none of you saw the part where I said, and I quote: "Firstly, if I make a request that reasonably shouldn't be granted without a tip, then it is my responsibility to tip, and in this case, the model is entirely justified in asking for one(IF I make the request)." You guys are making a lot of assumptions about me based on an example scenario. For one, no, seeing someone raise one eyebrow alone isn't my fetish. I said it INVOLVES it,

If it makes your boner jiggle, tip.

End of story.
 
I eat my nightly soup with rice noodles while under the covers, take some melatonin and then watch episodes of 30 rock until the snores of my cat rock me gently into a soup/melatonin coma... where I proceed to sweat entirely too much

This is exactly the type of sleep routine I'd expect from the monster that Kultivator described. Textbook.
 
lol... Alright. I can see that there isn't one person here interested in taking a serious look at the issue I presented. That said, I see no reason for me to continue here. I'm honestly not sure why I expected civility and intellectual honesty from a bunch of porn people anyway. Fuck knows I've never been given any reason to think so in my years of using these sites. All I've seen really are people who whom are entirely egocentric to the point of being completely unable to accept any type of criticism. Oh well, back to the drawing board I suppose.
 
It seems like you can't take any criticism, OP. I think we all made some really great rebuttal points. Remind you we were mostly responding to your third point. If you have a request, no matter how minimal and mundane it maybe. I agreed with your first two points like everyone else who posted, it's the third point. If you want to have an "intellectual conversation" about camming. Sure, we'd all be down. It's okay to be told you are wrong and it's even better to be challenged. As a great intellect, you should be aware. You were triggered over the fact people called you a grey, freeloader, entitled, and what not is because you came across that way. If you aren't, okay but you aren't convincing anyone by acting like a elitist. I happily pointed out where you said that, and no "oh I can see why I got that response."

And I do think you are freeloader or just very cheap. If you aren't, prove it then. You see most of our Twitter and cam profiles.



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Challenging thoughts and disagreeing is a good thing. OP is a giant manvagina and can't handle being told no you are wrong.


One thing you need to know about cammodels, most of us are cynical and are pretty blunt. We are not really PC, and we can give two shits about hurting your feelings. A bunch of fucking bitches, and I love them all.
 
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It's okay to be told you are wrong and it's even better to be challenged.
No, silly. If someone challenges you, they lack civility and intellectual honesty. God, didn't you hear anything the gentleman said?
 
"I am right or you are stupid!"

If an ENTIRE thread of people mixed of both members and models are saying "hey dude, that makes you seem shitty" maybe... just maybe... they have a point?
If you are coming across a certain way to just about everyone then the only constant is you. Only a narcissist would be in such denial.
 
The moderator thing can be pretty annoying when they misread genuine for something else... but this is part of the risk a model takes for convenience and focusing on what is important. The OP needs to understand that when done well moderators can let the model focus on their members rather than housekeeping them. I'd go for a 'bot' moderated room if it bothers me too much.

The OP completely lost me on his second part, his approach is no way to get a more intricate fetish attended to. It sounds like he is wasting his money on trying to get it 'serviced' rather than finding a model who is up to making it happen for him. Making requests for silly things that the model can service will almost always lead to her asking to be tipped for it: Things such as smiling on request. I'd rather create a smile than ask for one any day.

Experience as a member is not about time spent, but on getting the best experiences with the models you like. This is about building some form of understanding/ relationship between model and member; even over a few minutes. Keep in mind that many members do this by becoming regulars, and do this so well that the model feels little need to give attention to members that they don't like or know. It may not feel fair and may seem foolish to an observer, but it isn't for models who know how they want their room to be.

I recommend that you take a moment to look at a particular model and learn to trust your instinct about whether she can give you what you desire. Say hello, look for what you really like about her, and tip her for taking such good care of her perfect eyebrows. Pay attention and you will know within moments if this model will suit you.
You can get what you want usually pretty fast, many models enjoy someone who knows what they want and will chase it. It should be fun; after all this is your free time that you are spending and spending richly on.
 
lol... Alright. I can see that there isn't one person here interested in taking a serious look at the issue I presented. That said, I see no reason for me to continue here. I'm honestly not sure why I expected civility and intellectual honesty from a bunch of porn people anyway. Fuck knows I've never been given any reason to think so in my years of using these sites. All I've seen really are people who whom are entirely egocentric to the point of being completely unable to accept any type of criticism. Oh well, back to the drawing board I suppose.

The initial issue you raised was a fine one to discuss, sir. The problem is that you followed it up with something unreasonable. Not only that, but you presumed to inform everyone that they naturally agreed with your second point. If I was to post the following:

I think it can be argued that moderators in cam rooms are a detriment to the enjoyment of many paying members, and cam girls would be perhaps better served to run their rooms without help from the very members they're there to entertain. Furthermore, and I'm sure we can all agree here, black people are rubbish.

I can't then get upset when people rightly ignore my initial point to tell me how shitty and racist and wrong my post was. And if I then tell everyone I don't care what they think because they're shitty porn people and thus inferior to me, I don't really stand to come out of things looking too good, ya know? Your post was nowhere near that bad obviously, but you get my point, yeah?
 
As for the rest of the responses I didn't respond to: Most of them were either so ridiculous that I didn't dignify them with a response, or my responses to other people effectively respond to theirs.

A quick comment: I'm actually starting to laugh at how many people read what I said, but instead of understanding the words they saw, took from it that I beat off to eyebrow raises. God how stupid some people are.
Finally, someone with the gumption to try and set the camming world's house in order! This is long overdue.
Hence me saying "[MOST members/models...

Again, hence me saying...
Poo'ed you for using the word hence twice in one post. Can't stand it when people put on airs.
 
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