That annoys me too. Playing hangman and people have been tipping all along trying to get some prize. Then some doofus blurts it out. At that point it's just whichever member has the least lag in the room and can copy the answer into the tip note first wins.LilyMarie said:It's even worse when you play Trivia (where people have to put the answer to a Trivia question in a tipnote), because they can easily give away the correct answer and then I have to pick a different one immediately. :roll: I hate that.PlayboyMegan said:When I'm playing "guess the right # by tipping it and get a prize" and someone writes in the chat "55"
I'm gonna go with the jealousy theory.JerryBoBerry said:That annoys me too. Playing hangman and people have been tipping all along trying to get some prize. Then some doofus blurts it out. At that point it's just whichever member has the least lag in the room and can copy the answer into the tip note first wins.LilyMarie said:It's even worse when you play Trivia (where people have to put the answer to a Trivia question in a tipnote), because they can easily give away the correct answer and then I have to pick a different one immediately. :roll: I hate that.PlayboyMegan said:When I'm playing "guess the right # by tipping it and get a prize" and someone writes in the chat "55"
And even if the member did actually know it now it just 'looks' like he was copying the answer. Puts a damper on the fun of the whole game when they do that.
I like KayleePond's stance on this issue - you answer without a tip, even a joke answer, = ban. Applies to everyone (bans may be 2 hours not sure)LilyMarie said:JerryBoBerry said:That annoys me too. Playing hangman and people have been tipping all along trying to get some prize. Then some doofus blurts it out. At that point it's just whichever member has the least lag in the room and can copy the answer into the tip note first wins.LilyMarie said:It's even worse when you play Trivia (where people have to put the answer to a Trivia question in a tipnote), because they can easily give away the correct answer and then I have to pick a different one immediately. :roll: I hate that.PlayboyMegan said:When I'm playing "guess the right # by tipping it and get a prize" and someone writes in the chat "55"
Is that a new feature or do you go in and refresh the bans before they expire?LilyMarie said:I usually ban them permanently :whistle:
Oh, I wish they had a feature where you can ban people permanently. :/Jupiter551 said:Is that a new feature or do you go in and refresh the bans before they expire?LilyMarie said:I usually ban them permanently :whistle:
JerryBoBerry said:The topic.
A poositively bad pun there.emptiedglass said:JerryBoBerry said:The topic.
Looks like she been banned, doggone it! :lol:
For some reason I'm picturing the Spanish version of MFC software just showing a pop-up with an upside-down exclamation mark as a warning.AmberCutie said:I love how she got around the restriction of those words in the topic. Because there IS a warning box that comes up on our side if we put a forbidden word in the topic and it won't allow us to update it until we change the word.
Once upon a time, I used the word MILK for a milky shower show, and it popped up a warning/reminder that lactation shows are not allowed.
lol "cultural theft"JickyJuly said:I'm probably opening a can of worms here since what I said is near the WTF line as well, but this girl asking about her irrelevant facial jewelry made my eyes roll like no other. I will concede to being an abrasive creature, though.
JickyJuly said:I'm probably opening a can of worms here since what I said is near the WTF line as well, but this girl asking about her irrelevant facial jewelry made my eyes roll like no other. I will concede to being an abrasive creature, though.
Shaun__ said:JickyJuly said:I'm probably opening a can of worms here since what I said is near the WTF line as well, but this girl asking about her irrelevant facial jewelry made my eyes roll like no other. I will concede to being an abrasive creature, though.
I saw that conversation on twitter earlier. I personally do not understand how you can steal culture. Taking ideas from other people and places is what people do. I personally think the real insult is if no one thinks your culture is worth copying.
ComicOzzie said:Topic: Tip 50 tk and get 21 vids
Under 2.5 tokens per video?
Miss_Lollipop said:I don't mean to start a huge thing, but... cultural theft is a very real thing, at least to me. It's not so much about who has the right to do what, but its about the level of respect we show for other cultures and traditions. I understand that the lines can get very blurry, but what she said was pretty much on the mark for me, from that screenshot alone, not WTF at all. I felt like Jicky's very abrasive response, was the WTF moment for me.
I don't know about the cultures that she's describing. I do know that Maori get very VERY angry and upset when their practices and beliefs are appropriated in bits and pieces without due respect. So yes, some cultures DO care. Deeply.
I do speak and think for myself. Listening when races and cultures say they have been wronged or are being disrespected, and then standing with them against does not mean I, or she, are unable to think for ourselves. It means we did, and we reached different conclusions than you.
I'm not going to jump into an argument about it, because obviously some people feel strongly about it on here.. and It's not really worth it. But I felt the need to post and say that she's not the only one that feels that way.
If need be I can start a new thread to discuss this as I'm pretty sure this could derail this thread pretty quick.
Brad said:Miss_Lollipop said:I don't mean to start a huge thing, but... cultural theft is a very real thing, at least to me. It's not so much about who has the right to do what, but its about the level of respect we show for other cultures and traditions. I understand that the lines can get very blurry, but what she said was pretty much on the mark for me, from that screenshot alone, not WTF at all. I felt like Jicky's very abrasive response, was the WTF moment for me.
I don't know about the cultures that she's describing. I do know that Maori get very VERY angry and upset when their practices and beliefs are appropriated in bits and pieces without due respect. So yes, some cultures DO care. Deeply.
I do speak and think for myself. Listening when races and cultures say they have been wronged or are being disrespected, and then standing with them against does not mean I, or she, are unable to think for ourselves. It means we did, and we reached different conclusions than you.
I'm not going to jump into an argument about it, because obviously some people feel strongly about it on here.. and It's not really worth it. But I felt the need to post and say that she's not the only one that feels that way.
If need be I can start a new thread to discuss this as I'm pretty sure this could derail this thread pretty quick.
I don't see anything wrong with voicing your opinion Lolli. But we may disagree on this one. The first issue I have is calling it theft. It is copying. Theft (imo) would mean I took it from you and you can no longer use it. And then you get into the whole "how do you prove a particular culture actually even originated something in the first place". That culture may have taken something form another culture that is now extinct.
Now I totally get the cultural respect part and agree with that but it can be misused and in the context of Jicky's post I believe it was. I think what that girl said is just silly and actually helps hurt the credibility of true cultural respect. I worry more about disrespect then anything else. And as a Jew I have seen plenty of both. I don't get too concerned with the many times our culture is copied but I can get pretty pissed off when it is disrespected.
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Miss_Lollipop said:Brad said:Miss_Lollipop said:I don't mean to start a huge thing, but... cultural theft is a very real thing, at least to me. It's not so much about who has the right to do what, but its about the level of respect we show for other cultures and traditions. I understand that the lines can get very blurry, but what she said was pretty much on the mark for me, from that screenshot alone, not WTF at all. I felt like Jicky's very abrasive response, was the WTF moment for me.
I don't know about the cultures that she's describing. I do know that Maori get very VERY angry and upset when their practices and beliefs are appropriated in bits and pieces without due respect. So yes, some cultures DO care. Deeply.
I do speak and think for myself. Listening when races and cultures say they have been wronged or are being disrespected, and then standing with them against does not mean I, or she, are unable to think for ourselves. It means we did, and we reached different conclusions than you.
I'm not going to jump into an argument about it, because obviously some people feel strongly about it on here.. and It's not really worth it. But I felt the need to post and say that she's not the only one that feels that way.
If need be I can start a new thread to discuss this as I'm pretty sure this could derail this thread pretty quick.
I don't see anything wrong with voicing your opinion Lolli. But we may disagree on this one. The first issue I have is calling it theft. It is copying. Theft (imo) would mean I took it from you and you can no longer use it. And then you get into the whole "how do you prove a particular culture actually even originated something in the first place". That culture may have taken something form another culture that is now extinct.
Now I totally get the cultural respect part and agree with that but it can be misused and in the context of Jicky's post I believe it was. I think what that girl said is just silly and actually helps hurt the credibility of true cultural respect. I worry more about disrespect then anything else. And as a Jew I have seen plenty of both. I don't get too concerned with the many times our culture is copied but I can get pretty pissed off when it is disrespected.
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Yeah not gonna argue about the word theft. It might not be the right choice for terminology..
However lets say I steal (or theive) the entire first chapter of someone elses novel, and list it as my own.... that would be a use of 'theft' that doesn't mean something is physically taken from me, and I can never use it again. But I think it's still the word used to describe it Thanks!
So, I realise you probably didn't mean to put 'white people', but it highlights the fact that as the 'dominant' culture, everything from western cultures is fair game for appropriation, use, modification, ridicule, worship etc, while apparently 'white people' doing it in reverse is theft?QueenJolene said:Its not about "copying" other cultures good ideas, its about white people wearing and using things that then become "trendy" in our cultures while we demean the cultures from which they came. Its about feeling entitled to emulate things that are sacred and special to other cultures. Like wearing a bindi, for example.
southsamurai said:im resisting the urge to post a 400 word ramble on culture appropriation. its hard, but im doing it... see how im sweating and shaking? i deserve rewards for being so good! hand jobs anyone? neck rubs? c'mon, im being such a good boy lol
Jupiter551 said:So, I realise you probably didn't mean to put 'white people', but it highlights the fact that as the 'dominant' culture, everything from western cultures is fair game for appropriation, use, modification, ridicule, worship etc, while apparently 'white people' doing it in reverse is theft?QueenJolene said:Its not about "copying" other cultures good ideas, its about white people wearing and using things that then become "trendy" in our cultures while we demean the cultures from which they came. Its about feeling entitled to emulate things that are sacred and special to other cultures. Like wearing a bindi, for example.
QueenJolene said:I didn't mean to start a thing, I was just pointing out that what was being discussed IS a real phenomenon, has a sociological name, and that Jicky was inappropriately called out for her septum piercing by somebody who wasn't sourcing anything and just making assumptions.