This is a WTF for a model, not a user, but it's not really just at 1 model, it's happened multiple times.
When a model doesn't seem to understand that a user's "FANTASY" is still fucked up and can get HER (the model) banned, She (the model) just brushes it off "innocently" as "it's just fantasy. And despite you telling her how messed up that "fantasy" is or not, and she can get banned, she doesn't seem to care.
It's really bad when it's a model you genuinely like a lot and have been a fan of for a while because it puts you (as a user) in a very bad dilemma.
The story/reason I mention this now is that:
A model looked sad after she had been in a private show.
I asked if she was OK - honestly expecting her to say "yeah" or whatever. But she actually went on to tell me the user she had a private show with told her he had lost his wife and child/daughter in Afghanistan.
Obviously, I was "Oh sorry to hear that", but then she continued to tell me:
"And he said that his daughter watches him masturbate"
I told her it's messed up and she needs to report/ban him so she also doesn't get in trouble.
But she said, "It's only a fantasy because the daughter is dead".
Obviously, I was very gobsmacked at what she said and how she still did not really seem to understand how messed up that is.
I did finally say "it doesn't matter, it's still messed up and wrong"
She just responded with "it doesn't matter. Nevermind. Not important"
What do I do in a situation like this? I don't know the USER who took her private so can't report him to get him investigated and banned.
I am in a rock and a hard place for something like this. I know she struggled already, but do I just ignore it?