That is probably the worst way I have seen/heard someone ask if someone else has gotten a new bed..Got a message this morning: How's it going picking out a new work bench?
it took a second to register he was talking about me finding a mattress. I need a new bed like woah but I have never done my job from a bed.
Obviously he assumes it's for the show (um no reason to assume that). I feel like the phrasing in his message is incredibly crass.
What say you?
I have a very sour taste in my mouth about it. I haven't responded but he knows I read it hours ago. Usually pretty swift in knowing how to handle this crap but this completely threw me off my feet.That is probably the worst way I have seen/heard someone ask if someone else has gotten a new bed..
I can very much understand that.. it gave me a odd feeling.. like, especially if you do not use a bed in your broadcasts... then it sounds like it's expected you use it for work OUTSIDE of the broadcast almost? just seems fuckedI have a very sour taste in my mouth about it. I haven't responded but he knows I read it hours ago. Usually pretty swift in knowing how to handle this crap but this completely threw me off my feet.
Yes and I was talking about replacing my marital bed so it feels extra icky. Even if he doesn't understand that, it's still super gross.I can very much understand that.. it gave me a odd feeling.. like, especially if you do not use a bed in your broadcasts... then it sounds like it's expected you use it for work OUTSIDE of the broadcast almost? just seems fucked
Got a message this morning: How's it going picking out a new work bench?
it took a second to register he was talking about me finding a mattress. I need a new bed like woah but I have never done my job from a bed.
Obviously he assumes it's for the show (um no reason to assume that). I feel like the phrasing in his message is incredibly crass.
What say you?
Or that we're just sitting around at their back and call. He often hits me up in the middle of the day with messages that he left work early hint hint kind of stuff. My dude, I work nights not days for a reason.“Work bench?” That’s an odd choice of words.
It’s weird to me when guys act like every single decision a cam model makes (or every purchase he or she makes) must be for camming purposes. Oh, we must have bought it for THEIR enjoyment. Lol. Cam models are human beings who sleep in beds too, people. Like damn, can’t we buy something that’s just for us (or us + a partner) to enjoy?
“Work bench?” That’s an odd choice of words.
It’s weird to me when guys act like every single decision a cam model makes (or every purchase he or she makes) must be for camming purposes. Oh, we must have bought it for THEIR enjoyment. Lol. Cam models are human beings who sleep in beds too, people. Like damn, can’t we buy something that’s just for us (or us + a partner) to enjoy?
When guys try to make a dirty joke, or at least a sexual comment, out of every single thing we say or do.... ACK I hate it so much.Or that we're just sitting around at their back and call. He often hits me up in the middle of the day with messages that he left work early hint hint kind of stuff. My dude, I work nights not days for a reason.
I'm really disappointed in his jump to conclusions skills.
When guys try to make a dirty joke, or at least a sexual comment, out of every single thing we say or do.... ACK I hate it so much.
And yes, the just being "around" at any hour. I try my hardest to only pay attention to work stuff during normal West USA business hours so I can have personal time and weekends, but it seems many guys have the opposite as free time (makes sense I guess) in which they send requests for videos and have questions.
When guys try to make a dirty joke, or at least a sexual comment, out of every single thing we say or do.... ACK I hate it so much.
So damn insensitive and inconsiderate......About 11 or 12 years ago when I was at the other house, we had a fire in the kitchen. When I’d told one of my MFC regs about it, his response was “Well you can come live with me,” which I believe was followed by a smiling or winking emoji. Tacky as hell. Not even a “Oh, no!” or anything like that. Just another opportunity for him to flirt. And I didn’t say the house burned to the ground anyway. Dumb comment. My sister went to the hospital in an ambulance, because she had soot in the back of her throat (Her baby had been coughing too, so they both went in an ambulance). I don’t think I’d mentioned the part about my sister, and I’m glad I didn’t since men sometimes hear the word “throat”…and like to make tired-ass “Well you know what’s good for the throat, right?” jokes.
I think that’s part of it yeahSo damn insensitive and inconsiderate......
Not trying to excuse that response (or similar) because it's not excusable, but do you think maybe it's because many of these guys are socially awkward and just don't know how to have a conversation or show empathy?
That's an interesting one, because here in Australia, similarly in the UK, 'piss' can also refer to alcohol, usually beer - "let's get on the piss" (for example), so that username here might just mean they love drinking beernot so much his question, as the username, was surprised this was allowed, and he had been a member for "About a year" View attachment 98394
So damn insensitive and inconsiderate......
Not trying to excuse that response (or similar) because it's not excusable, but do you think maybe it's because many of these guys are socially awkward and just don't know how to have a conversation or show empathy?
So damn insensitive and inconsiderate......
Not trying to excuse that response (or similar) because it's not excusable, but do you think maybe it's because many of these guys are socially awkward and just don't know how to have a conversation or show empathy?
Yeah I'm gonna move it in there, this isn't something that needs its own thread in the support section @lolabunny9This would’ve been a good one for the “Things Members Say That Make You Go WTF” thread.
yeah i did all the bans that i could and it was weird he was still messaging me harassing me makin it harder to move on from .. i just got offline insteadThis would’ve been a good one for the “Things Members Say That Make You Go WTF” thread.
On MFC there’s an option to ban (and extend it to a lifetime ban)…ignore…mute…and I believe block from posting on your profile wall. Click on all of those, because just banning someone on MFC doesn’t prevent them from being able to MFC Mail you. But you can also disable your profile wall too. I did that because I was tired of random-ass people (who’d never bothered chatting with me or even tipping me) posting YouTube videos on my wall.
yeah i did all the bans that i could and it was weird he was still messaging me harassing me makin it harder to move on from .. i just got offline instead
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on MFC use the "IGNORE" function it's more powerful than the others.yeah i did all the bans that i could and it was weird he was still messaging me harassing me makin it harder to move on from .. i just got offline instead