Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

[SaffronBurke]

I have had several people order shows late at night, that are very long and expensive, where they basically want to just talk shit to me for an hour or so? Like clothed, and not even about topics that are related to nudity, masturbation, or sex. Just basically arguing about stupid things like what music I am playing. But although they grumble the whole time, they end up staying spending money for the whole time. I am always nice in response, offer to change music etc/ explain my perspective on whatever they are grumbling about. Like what? It's fine with me, but that means they just spent like $300 or more dollars on the site overall, to just sit and grumble with a stranger about, what I see as nothing. When I was on MFC, this one hot guy did it every night, and then always came back the following night for more, then sent big tips when he was done??? Whaaaaaaa?? Is there a fetish for grumbling about nothing?

They're using you as a therapist

 

[MarieElise]

They're using you as a therapist

I wondered that. I do have a Master's degree in mental Health counseling, but I never became licensed, and gave up on that field. Well whatever makes people happy. Cheers Saffron, I thought maybe I was imagining it.

 

[Danigirl]

This isn't a "wtf" but it is something that frustrates me.
When another member (grey or colour, doesn't matter) is not begging the model but instead, they beg the tippers.. or "ask nicely". This guy for example below, he has at least done this 3 or 4 times to this model I visit - he ONLY seems to come in the room when she is already butt naked, with her toys being used and then he says this (exact wording every time) - and I assume he says it to other rooms too:


windsurfingfra: any generous soul it drive that goddess to heaven?

I call that out real fast in my room saying something like “I don’t ask for tips and you certainly can’t beg others for tipping what you want. It’s rude to me and it’s definitely rude to those nice enough to tip” then I mute/ban their ass. I hate freeloaders demanding shit with a passion. There’s no directing from the peanut gallery. I don’t even do demands from those who have tokens

also hate when a gray member asks me to call him “daddy” or says “oh daddy likes___”. Dude. You cannot be both gray and a daddy. Those two do not go together. Sugar daddy tippers actually have to have sugar and tip.

 

[StarSpirit]

...what?!

 

[NotYou]

He should have at least said "I would offer money but I am broke" at the END of it all.
Not sure who he is (by the way he says "if you have heard of me" he thinks he is someone?)... lol but yeah, i didn't read it all as soon as I saw that bit, I finished the first image but then was just "whuuut"

 

[NotYou]

They're using you as a therapist

One would assume this is "easy money" but from what I have learned from people who have had to do this, especially if it's several hours in, or at the end of their show, it's much more draining on them than say, a 2 hr sex marathon. To be fair, I can understand why, too. Have to put up a pretense of giving a shit about the potentially weird/stupid subject/s the guy is wanting to discuss.... it can be enough to send anyone to sleep and get banned (on CB lol)

 

[MarieElise]

One would assume this is "easy money" but from what I have learned from people who have had to do this, especially if it's several hours in, or at the end of their show, it's much more draining on them than say, a 2 hr sex marathon. To be fair, I can understand why, too. Have to put up a pretense of giving a shit about the potentially weird/stupid subject/s the guy is wanting to discuss.... it can be enough to send anyone to sleep and get banned (on CB lol)

I see your point, but I actually do find it interesting, and I do give a shit. It's not at the level of being that annoying. It's not like they are going through a real life trauma with me or anything hardcore, that has the potential to exhaust me emotionally. It's easy for me, just baffling. But if someone did that in free chat, I would totally ask them to stop and/ or likely ban them fo sho It could also be some less common fetish for my accent, or something random, that the person does not want to be open about. I have had a guy get long fetish shows, to jerk off repeatedly, to my nasty old fillings in my molars, so I know that some people have very unique and individual fetishes. And others for non nude, and nude shows for freckle fetishes, on my body. I am sure there are some fetishes out there, that are less common, than the ones we hear of a lot. That's a good idea for a thread....most unique fetish shows you ever do/ have done...

 

[NotYou]

Do you ever have guys come to your room who seems to be having a conversation with themselves?
This guy came into the room I was just watching and randomly said "it does" followed by "I've had 3 trying for 4 th". The model was dancing and no one was speaking so there is nothing he could have responded to lol.
As soon as he said that he left, so I couldn't even ask what he meant, so now I am just confused. This kind of thing is something I see members do more often than you'd think. It's just bizarre lol

 

[xoxAprilJames]

Do you ever have guys come to your room who seems to be having a conversation with themselves?
This guy came into the room I was just watching and randomly said "it does" followed by "I've had 3 trying for 4 th". The model was dancing and no one was speaking so there is nothing he could have responded to lol.
As soon as he said that he left, so I couldn't even ask what he meant, so now I am just confused. This kind of thing is something I see members do more often than you'd think. It's just bizarre lol

She might have a word list that gets certain messages muted, esp if he was a gray. I have that set up for grays to curb advertising bots and dirty talkers who aren’t tipping. I can still see the messages they’re sending but the room can’t, and it kind of seems like they don’t know they’re being selectively muted either.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

She might have a word list that gets certain messages muted, esp if he was a gray. I have that set up for grays to curb advertising bots and dirty talkers who aren’t tipping. I can still see the messages they’re sending but the room can’t, and it kind of seems like they don’t know they’re being selectively muted either.

Interesting. I've seen people do as Brett mentioned on MFC. No idea if the muted words show to the model or not, as I've inadvertently had it happen where a message will pop up saying the word isn't allowed.


Still gets me every time a model's doing something such as a BJ, cum show, etc. where she's obviously busy and not going to respond. But, these people come in with "Hey, BB, how are you?" Yeah, okay, like she's just going to stop the show and answer then carry on a conversation.

 

[xoxAprilJames]

Interesting. I've seen people do as Brett mentioned on MFC. No idea if the muted words show to the model or not, as I've inadvertently had it happen where a message will pop up saying the word isn't allowed.

I'm on CB so it's probably not quite the same, but the ability to see what they say is optional! I have it turned on because I like to know what's happening

 

[Deleted member 37064]

I'm on CB so it's probably not quite the same, but the ability to see what they say is optional! I have it turned on because I like to know what's happening

One can only imagine what's said.

 

[MarieElise]

Here's one I got the other night..

Member; "Are you more of a MILF, or a Cougar?"

Me; "Um, go ask your Dad."

 

[Nigerian Prince]

Name is Nigerian Prince, location says Canada, so logically I must be Colombian

 

[NotYou]

She might have a word list that gets certain messages muted, esp if he was a gray. I have that set up for grays to curb advertising bots and dirty talkers who aren’t tipping. I can still see the messages they’re sending but the room can’t, and it kind of seems like they don’t know they’re being selectively muted either.

For this specific model, I am confident she has no filter bot/app running. I know she has 2 bots for games (spin the wheel + dice), one for a tip menu, and one for lovense (no all in one bot)

 

[DoD404]

Some just mismatch the window in a copy/past action I saw complete lines of C# code posted in the chat

 

[NotYou]

I don't know if other users get this and if so, how often or what type of things are said... but:

Being in a model's room (obviously, it helps ) and a random member sends YOU (they are not a moderator and neither am I) a PM talking dirty about the model, trying to engage some weird conversation.
I am not into that. Sure if we're all doing it (and allowed) in public chat with her then ok, I don't mind "bouncing" conversation off each other but in a PM it's just weird as hell for me. I just ignore them, regardless of whether it's a regular or new member of the room.

The most recent one wasn't "bad" (yet but it would become so, you just know it lol). All he said was "lucky husband of hers" and "great porno of hers".. but if I engaged you know it is going to become much more and worse. I don't fancy a random guy saying "mmmm" at me about a model hahaha just is not something for me.

I seem to get"targeted" for stuff like this because I actually chat with models in public.. so I understand but my god, I need to stop talking I think lol.

 

[thinkinboutit]

 

[SaffronBurke]

I don't know if other users get this and if so, how often or what type of things are said... but:

Being in a model's room (obviously, it helps ) and a random member sends YOU (they are not a moderator and neither am I) a PM talking dirty about the model, trying to engage some weird conversation.
I am not into that. Sure if we're all doing it (and allowed) in public chat with her then ok, I don't mind "bouncing" conversation off each other but in a PM it's just weird as hell for me. I just ignore them, regardless of whether it's a regular or new member of the room.

The most recent one wasn't "bad" (yet but it would become so, you just know it lol). All he said was "lucky husband of hers" and "great porno of hers".. but if I engaged you know it is going to become much more and worse. I don't fancy a random guy saying "mmmm" at me about a model hahaha just is not something for me.

I seem to get"targeted" for stuff like this because I actually chat with models in public.. so I understand but my god, I need to stop talking I think lol.

Eurgh! I know we're often all fapping to the model we're watching, but that's a little too circle-jerk for my taste.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

I don't know if other users get this and if so, how often or what type of things are said... but:

Being in a model's room (obviously, it helps ) and a random member sends YOU (they are not a moderator and neither am I) a PM talking dirty about the model, trying to engage some weird conversation.
I am not into that. Sure if we're all doing it (and allowed) in public chat with her then ok, I don't mind "bouncing" conversation off each other but in a PM it's just weird as hell for me. I just ignore them, regardless of whether it's a regular or new member of the room.

The most recent one wasn't "bad" (yet but it would become so, you just know it lol). All he said was "lucky husband of hers" and "great porno of hers".. but if I engaged you know it is going to become much more and worse. I don't fancy a random guy saying "mmmm" at me about a model hahaha just is not something for me.

I seem to get"targeted" for stuff like this because I actually chat with models in public.. so I understand but my god, I need to stop talking I think lol.

have had a few PM’s along the same lines and it is weird. Shit, I don’t even like it when is said in public chat. Want to tell someone? Put it in a model only tip note and tell the woman you’re wild over!!!

 

[Carmita Bonita]

Tonight in freechat on SM:

DaddyDick:get your ass butt naked again I just got out of prison


DaddyDick:get on all fours let me see that ass in the air

DaddyDick:this is Real Gangsta talking right here let me see that fat pussy

DaddyDick:all I got is my word and my tattoos and my big dick

Me: I'm not interested in any of that

DaddyDick:b**** stop lying

DaddyDick:well let me tell you something you're in a different world b****

Me: If you're so "gangsta" why are you censoring swear words? We're adults here

DaddyDick:no because I know what's right I know what's to do

DaddyDick:and I know one thing you on the right track but you on the wrong train b****

-You have blocked DaddyDick.-

Guess I missed my chance to show my pussy for free to a real gansta--such loss. lol

 

[NotYou]

This is weird and annoying in my opinion.. it's something that really puts me off.
There is a mod for a model, he is a nice guy, and the model is fun and fantastic. The moderator does the typical "thanks" after every tip. And then sometimes, especially at larger tips (25+) he will post a GIF of her (the model) that is blowing a kiss and say "thank you". Ok. Annoying but fine, it happens in all rooms, so I can ignore it and let it be... HOWEVER he goes one step further and types "BIG smooches from [model name]".
For me, that is weird... just.. weird and uncomfortable and awkward and.. yea. If it was an automated notice from the MODEL, not from her mod then it would be perfectly fine. Honestly, even if it was a female moderator doing it I would not want it. It's just weird in my opinion.

I don't want to (or don't know how to, or if I should?) send her a message to let her know how it seems to me and probably to others.. so I ignore it or try lol. I am confident she didn't ask him to do it but she sees it and doesn't say anything. Not sure if it's because she likws it, it doesn't bother her, or she is too nice to not wanting to be mean to the guy.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

This is weird and annoying in my opinion.. it's something that really puts me off.
There is a mod for a model, he is a nice guy, and the model is fun and fantastic. The moderator does the typical "thanks" after every tip. And then sometimes, especially at larger tips (25+) he will post a GIF of her (the model) that is blowing a kiss and say "thank you". Ok. Annoying but fine, it happens in all rooms, so I can ignore it and let it be... HOWEVER he goes one step further and types "BIG smooches from [model name]".
For me, that is weird... just.. weird and uncomfortable and awkward and.. yea. If it was an automated notice from the MODEL, not from her mod then it would be perfectly fine. Honestly, even if it was a female moderator doing it I would not want it. It's just weird in my opinion.

I don't want to (or don't know how to, or if I should?) send her a message to let her know how it seems to me and probably to others.. so I ignore it or try lol. I am confident she didn't ask him to do it but she sees it and doesn't say anything. Not sure if it's because she likws it, it doesn't bother her, or she is too nice to not wanting to be mean to the guy.

Depending on how good you are with the model, casually bring it up. Maybe it is something she wants them to do, maybe she just kind of accepts without saying it is okay. If it is a model you don’t have a good repertoire with, kind of ignore if you can.

Like you, I don’t mind the applause or generic such as from normal members. But still annoying at times

 

[Finchomatic]

@Brett M



I've been using that feature a lot as of late

 

[JigglesJane]

For the love of fuck, can members please stop asking me where I'm from?!

 

[Deleted member 37064]

@Brett M 's post made me think of something along the similar lines. Back before one of the top models retired, there was a guy who was kind of a "permanent fixture" in her room. He'd been there for six out of the seven or so years she'd been broadcasting. The whole time he was in her room, he tipped a little here and there and occasionally dropped for a monthly subscription or video. He was always encouraging members to tip, as he was a "self proclaimed room helper" as he liked to put it and figured that was his way to help out the model more was encouraging others. But, he always complained about how he couldn't afford to tip more than he was. I never said anything, as he was occasionally tipping, and a decent conversationalist. But, he also commented on how he was going over to another model's room and needed to tip her too.

Hadn't seen him since the one model retired months prior. The next time I saw him, he was doing the same thing. Encouraging people to tip the model, promoting her OnlyFans site, etc. The model calls him out by name and asks him "How and why are you encouraging people to tip me when you don't? If you want to do it, shouldn't you lead by example?" He made some excuse about how his card isn't good, etc. Had to chuckle about it, pulling the same ol' shit in a different room but this time finally being called out on it.

 

[JustMilfnAround]

For the love of fuck, can members please stop asking me where I'm from?!

All day. Every day. If I had a dollar every time they ask my mortgage would be paid off and i'd be working on paying off my vacation home in the Maldives...

 

[JustMilfnAround]

OMFG I am in tears

 

[SaffronBurke]

For the love of fuck, can members please stop asking me where I'm from?!

I once saw a girl respond with "I don't like dicks with GPS's attached.

 

[NotYou]

Depending on how good you are with the model, casually bring it up. Maybe it is something she wants them to do, maybe she just kind of accepts without saying it is okay. If it is a model you don’t have a good repertoire with, kind of ignore if you can.

Like you, I don’t mind the applause or generic such as from normal members. But still annoying at times

She is a fantastic and fun woman and me and her get on great but she seems to really "love" her mod (this guy) so I am not sure if to try and approach her regarding it. I think I may do the next time just in a PM to her. Obviously nicely and not how some guys would be. Honestly, I don't think she'd hate or ban me for it. With that said, stranger things have happened lol.

@Brett M

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I've been using that feature a lot as of late

I love the ignore option so much. This has helped my mind so much. It has stopped me from going more insane than I already am.
I use it on a LOT of moderators in particular and some members. The only problem is using it on a friendly, talkative member/mod (like this guy). Because then I will miss half the conversation, unfortunately. So it's a tough one.

I think for this particular case, I need to gently mention it to the model.