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Ok I have to admit I saw something in myself that I have no problem pay $5-$7 a min for cam sessions but had to think a few days before taking @AudriTwo suggestion to pay $3.99 to watch a 2 hour movie.

Anyways it was OK. There enough text walls here so I won't add mine.

I will say what I got from it is how clear leadership in messaging helped the MRA in this documentary more than the feminist.I don't understand why any feminist would thinks the MRA is in clear contradiction to them. The MRA leaders in the film (I don't know if there were any other major MRA leaders not represented in this film) aren't proposing taking resources from women to deal with their issues, rather they advocate unifying or just requesting support resources shouldn't be exclusive to one gender. Asking for thinks like an abuse shelters for men shouldn't make any feminist feel outraged something is being taken from them.

I am worried that there are to too many people that are wave their banners of science and facts but completely forget something isn't fact till it can withstand a challenge. We're see too many people self censoring or refusing anyone that challenges their belief that they forget what a fact is vs a statement. We are debating topics with few actual facts and holding evidence as fact itself when it's merely clues.
 
I am worried that there are to too many people that are wave their banners of science and facts but completely forget something isn't fact till it can withstand a challenge. We're see too many people self censoring or refusing anyone that challenges their belief that they forget what a fact is vs a statement. We are debating topics with few actual facts and holding evidence as fact itself when it's merely clues.
Eugenics?

Out of these controversial threads that have all touched on this same issue, this following quote is probably the most thought provoking I have read so far.
Many feminists do believe feminism is about choice. And most of them are pro-sex and in favor of sex workers, or at least they say they are. That group wants to legalize prostitution and sex work so the State can regulate it. It is a socialist move, but they say it is "to grant sex workers rights" or something so they pose as an ally to sex works everywhere. Some of them do things like fighting to decriminalize hookers by throwing their clients under the bus instead.

Camgirls and sex workers who call themselves feminists are, for the most part, of the "feminism of choice" group. But to me feminism has the same structure as most cultish movements... which is that they don't present their core beliefs to the new members. They have a palatable and easily acceptable ideology for anyone who is knocking on their door, but as you get deeper into the cult other parts of the ideology are revealed to you. By the time you find out the true aim of the group you are involved with you are so deep within the fold and you have sacrificed so much and built so much around it that it is very hard to backpedal.

So for example.. in the case of Scientology, if you visit a temple what they tell you is that Scientology is about making your life better and helping to save the world. They tell you they are in favor of taking care of the environment, fighting against injustices, that they promote a clean form of living free from substance abuses, that they want you to reach your maximum potential and they can help you do it. It sounds really pretty. It is only after decades of devotion, after spending hundreds of thousands of dollars and countless hours within the cult that they reveal their true beliefs: that an intergalactic warrior called Xenu imprisoned more than one billion souls in the volcanoes of Planet Earth and that these souls are trapped in every one of us. If they had said this to you from the get-go you would have never signed up. But after decades it is very hard to get out, especially when you have built a life and a community around it. Evidently.. it is only a tiny minority of people who reach those levels, the vast majority quit or are expelled from the movement before reaching those revelations, or simply never get there for being deemed unworthy.

In the case of feminism, the most attractive and palatable form of it is what attracts the most people. And the most palatable form of feminism is pop-feminism, the Spice Girls and Beyoncé variety. It is attractive because it is much shallower: it accepts you no matter who you are, it doesn't require literally anything from you other than sharing a certain imagery and easy words. It feels good to belong and many young women sign up.

But the feminism of choice is only the getaway drug. As women get deeper into the movement they start reading feminist literature and get indoctrinated into the ideology which has a very strong marxist bent. What actual feminism looks to do is to abolish the differences between men and women. All of them, they don't even recognize the differences that spring from biology. In that sense both femininity and masculinity are enemies of the movement. Which is why they hate feminine women, motherhood, housewives, and at the same time they hate strong men, the sort of men feminine women are naturally attracted to. Why do they do this? Even the feminists who understand that feminism is a marxist ideology are often deluded about the ultimate political goals of the movement....

 
Does this focus on mens rights and gender roles? Or is it bashing feminism? I actually believe strongly in mens rights and just roll it into feminism/need for gender neutrality. Will I get wound up or enjoy this thing? I need to plan my adult viewing time properly. :blush:

It's more so how feminism failed men's rights and how they favor women's issues over men. Honestly if you do care about equal rights, you should watch it. It's another perspective.


I don't think it's so much that women are purposely hired in to be paid less. It's more that women are not taught to value themselves in the workplace and advocate for themselves. Even though we're now making up tons of the workforce, we're still pushed to have the mentality of kept housewives and be seen as not needing to work. The things you listed -men are more likely to stay late -women take away from the business by having babies etc support that.

A lot of women want to have families, they aren't programmed by anyone to be housewives. Some women rather put their career on hold to raise their family. Of course this isn't always the case. Not every woman wants that. Who teaches them they aren't worth it? Who? Because I was taught to value myself and make sure I get my fair pay. Any workplace I was in with a salary, I negotiated. When I found out someone who got $100 more, I was right in my supervisor's office, that they would fix it.

There are biological gender roles that sometimes reflect socially in our day to day life. It also my effect our life choices. Which brings me back to my biggest point. Choices. How do we get women to find the confidence? I don't know.
 
The Red Pill seems pretty superficial personally, very few concerns for myself or the men I know. For men health is our main issue, we do things that injure ourselves physically, emotionally, sexually, and psychologically.
Women tend to let us or even support us in this self abuse, this is where feminist discussion should be in regard to men; to where they can help us be less self destructive.
Usually it is where women hold on to traditional misogynistic stereotypes because it has advantaged them in the past. A big part of MRAs is exposing this part of feminism that won't give up the advantages that women have over men under the previous system of inequality.

Can you explain this part a bit more? I am not really following but it sounds interesting.
 
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I was real skeptical about spending money on this film, since reading the /r/RedPill forum was an eye-rolling experience for me, but I'm glad I did. After watching, the interview with Casey Jaye, I figured any girl who wore those super cute shoes had to make a good film.:rolleyes: Of course, it is possible that I may have been influenced by Casey also being super cute (and she appears a lot in the film.)

The film portrays MRA as being far more interested in promoting men's rights than attacking women. Although the do complain about radical feminism. I'm not sure how accurate that is, but I believe Casey when she says there are lots of MRAs groups and they don't all agree. The Reddit group is the most cynical.
I have independently researched their claims about the massive disparity of men being society losers, incarceration, the length of prison sentences, high school dropout rates, college graduation rates suicide, homelessness, substance abuse, workplace fatalities, shorter live spans, crime victims. We general value men's live less than women's (e.g. woman and children first) and treat men as disposal. Men are over-represented at the top of the bell curve of societies winners, but for every excess male CEO, senator, or film director, there are literally 100 men rotting in prison, or a high school dropouts, living on the streets.

The film spends a lot of time talking about custody issues. It's a complex issue with no easy answers. On average if forced to choose between and man and woman for award custody, I'd give it to the mom since biology generally equips women to be the better parents. However, as always averages mask huge variations between individuals and seems courts give to much weight on averages. One thing, I was shocked to learn is how many laws in recent have based anti-male laws regarding false or tricked paternity. So for example, prohibiting DNA testing to establish paternity unless the mother agrees is bullshit.

The film portrayed men as being almost as much a victim of domestic abuse as women. Frankly, I suspect there is probably some cherry picking of statistics. But I am sure they are telling the truth about the lack of help for male victims, 2000+ domestic abuse shelters for women, exactly one shelter that will help men.
The media treatment of Boko Harum was the biggest surprise to me. For years Boko Harum killed literally thousand of boys (even burning them alive) while releasing the girls and the story was ignored. But when they kidnapped 200 girls suddenly the West started to pay attention.

The one area I completely agreed with film, is the frightening rise of attempting to silence people who you disagree with by shouting them down. We see this not only on college campuses, but society at large, and even on this forum by the prolific use of negative ratings. The troubles Casey went through in getting funding for this film are a sad commentary on our so-called "liberal society" and respect for free speech.
I found it worth the $4 and two hours, YMMV.
 
After watching, the interview with Casey Jaye, I figured any girl who wore those super cute shoes had to make a good film.:rolleyes:
That is why I rated your post funny.
The one area I completely agreed with film, is the frightening rise of attempting to silence people who you disagree with by shouting them down. We see this not only on college campuses, but society at large
Nothing funny about this part. Nothing funny about them dominating the media narrative either. Especially when they use it to spout racist, pro-rape rhetoric, and even have politicians willing to repeat it for them.
 
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The film portrayed men as being almost as much a victim of domestic abuse as women. Frankly, I suspect there is probably some cherry picking of statistics. But I am sure they are telling the truth about the lack of help for male victims, 2000+ domestic abuse shelters for women, exactly one shelter that will help men.

Ive talked about this on here before I think but I had a prof who teaches about crime and he was also adamant that men were as victimized as women. I was suspicious of cherry picking too because his studies were really specific and he also presented a very specific set of data (tons of info on lesbian relationships, literally nothing on gay men -- very suspect not just for transparency and balance but because DV is a big issues in gay relationships too). Anyway he's the prof who inspired me to do a lot of independent research just to uncover wtf was actually going on, and based on the info I found, it was kind of in the middle between the general societal view of DV being primarily men beating women only, and his portrayal that it's primarily women beating men.

Anyway his rate my prof page had many accusations of misogyny; his data was certainly meant to teach us a very specific version of facts, but I felt like the reaction was quite harsh especially as his own research is primarily in DV so he's just doing what any prof does and teaching from his experience. And he did a good job of inspiring me to care about the material apparently since I spent a lot of time googling it, haha.

About the shelters, there was one up here that was closed due to lack of funding from both government and private donors. Obviously there is likely bias in the government but I was surprised that there was a lack of donors.

And I agree about silencing people we disagree with. I was reading this earlier and thought it was really interesting: http://nymag.com/daily/intelligencer/2017/05/transracialism-article-controversy.html
 
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If this is the case, this is illegal and they need to be prosecuted. I would love to know actual places that do this so they can be reported.; Please provide me an actual company that has done this in the past ten years that hasn't been prosecuted, charged, or whatever.

I just saw this article and thought of this thread: http://m.huffpost.com/ca/entry/16413292?

Job advertising $11.50/hr for ladies, $12 for guys. They're saying it was an interns mistake (isn't it always?), but kind of a weird mistake. Especially because they're saying it was for different roles but that kind of implies they're hiring different genders for different roles which is discriminatory in its own way. It's obviously getting attention so I'm sure they'll get in trouble but I wonder how long that's been going on.

My favourite part is that they're gonna get dragged for a $0.50 difference, lol. If you're gonna get fined for discrimination at least make it worth it for yourself.
 
just saw this article and thought of this thread: http://m.huffpost.com/ca/entry/16413292?

Job advertising $11.50/hr for ladies, $12 for guys. They're saying it was an interns mistake (isn't it always?), but kind of a weird mistake. Especially because they're saying it was for different roles but that kind of implies they're hiring different genders for different roles which is discriminatory in its own way. It's obviously getting attention so I'm sure they'll get in trouble but I wonder how long that's been going on.

My favourite part is that they're gonna get dragged for a $0.50 difference, lol. If you're gonna get fined for discrimination at least make it worth it for yourself.

If something gets posted on the internet, odds are pretty good that an intern is involved. You really don't want to trust a baby boomer to post things correctly on the internet.:haha:
 
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If something gets posted on the internet, odds are pretty good that an intern is involved. You really don't want to trust a baby boomer to post things correctly on the internet.:haha:
I feel like it's a coin flip between "we were hacked!" and "it was the interns!" Poor interns always getting the blame. :p
 
Something I have noticed about a lot of the issues that get brought up with men's rights, is it's not necessarily that there is a legal problem, but there is definitely a case that men believe they have less rights in certain aspects and therefore do not seem to use their rights.

Take domestic violence and rape cases for example, one of the major problems that men face is socially not feeling able to report it. The legal ramifications are the same (they focus on harm done rather than gender), but society not only teaches us that men are not supposed to be the victims, it's also common belief that men will be discriminated against if they do report it. I think this can also lead to some men having low empathy for women fearing harm or being harmed. Because it's much easier to lack empathy when you don't think you have anything to fear. In reality while a man's chances of being raped or severely abused in a relationship are much smaller than a woman's, the chance is still very much there. With rape I have also noticed some straight men assume it would be a woman raping them, which could definitely happen, but statistically they're much more likely to be raped by another man. Rapists do not care about your sexuality or preferences.
Recently Aella posted a poll asking men and women whether they'd rather be raped or falsey accused of rape. The majority of men said they'd rather be raped, with the female majority saying accused. I asked my boyfriend the same question and at first he answered rape too. Until I described being raped by a man and the very permanent effect it would have on his life in comparison to the (while also not nice at all) fairly short term social problem of being accused but not convicted- which aren't nearly as bad or public as people seem to think. He changed his mind after he thought it through, but it did make me think about bias towards different fears. Men seem to fear being falsey accused much more than rape, possibly because they believe the chances are much more likely of being falsey accused. They aren't though, as a man you are dramatically more likely to be raped than falsey accused.
This I think is pretty important information that should be talked about more, and perhaps make men feel less shameful about the experience of being assaulted. Under reporting is an issue with rape cases with both genders, in both cases not being believed/accused of lying and facing potential social issues for reporting it is a major factor. Men face their own unique social issues when it comes to rape cases which make it even less likely that they will speak up, these results are heartbreaking.

This misinformation is partially due to scare media. Recently I read an article by a man who was complaining that paying child support for a child he'd never met had ruined his life, yet there was no mention of him ever attempting to see the child or having any interest in the child. There was also no mention of the mother trying to stop him from having a relationship with the child. He was just pissed he had to pay for child support and most of his money spent was in legal fees trying to fight paying for the support. Articles such as these are misleading, as there is a very good reason he should pay for his own baby even if he has no interest in spending time with the child. Child support isn't a service you're paying the mother for "x amount for x hours of entertainment with your child". It's to contribute to feeding and clothing your child. I know this is a very sensitive subject for a lot of men, and it isn't helped by the multiple scare stories we hear, whether from media outlets or from friends/acquaintances. I understand, it would be seriously sucky to get a girl pregnant when you didn't want it. It is a fear of mine to get pregnant without wanting it. Sadly this is just a part of life and having risky unprotected sex, and sometimes happens even when using multiple forms of birth control. I have known both men and women who have been in these situations and have stood up to the task and have incredible relationships with their children, and it definitely hasn't rendered the men bankrupt as child support is based on earnings.

@HiGirlsRHot you mentioned you'd prefer to give a child to the mother for biological reasons. I think in cases of newborn babies this is usually the most sensible option, but personally I think after that point whoever puts the most time and effort into the child should get custody regardless of sex. Women don't necessarily have this "mother instinct" that is so commonly talked about. And many men are incredible fathers and so much more nurturing than some women. I truly think the world would benefit if the idea of the mother being the carer and men being more distant weren't so dominant in our minds and more men were encouraged to give in to their nurturing side and be the primary caregiver (if that's what they want). And if less women who aren't particularly nurturing feel they have to be the primary caregiver (which could result in unhappy, poorly raised children). In court custody cases they tend to look at how much time parents spend with their children, currently in the majority of cases women spend considerably more time with the child (even in cases where both parents work), so it seems pretty logical that if that is the case they should be the carer. If the father spends the most time with the child then he should be. I mentioned earlier in this thread with a link to some info on this, 90% of custody cases are decided before court, meaning in 90% of cases the decision was left to the parents. So if in some of these cases the man did want primary (or joint) custody and gave it up, then it is a social issue rather than a legal one. Did he feel he would be discriminated against in court? Did he feel the same as Higirls mentioned that for biological reasons it's cruel to take children from the mother? Did he feel that as a man he isn't capable of being the primary caregiver? Or maybe there were other reasons, potentially black marks, abuse charges, maybe he wasn't willing to give up time at work or dedicate all of his free time to children without another carer available. I know with some men they don't want to pay for (or can't afford) legal fees in court, or just don't want the hassle, this I can understand is a difficult situation, though (just looking this up now) if you are legally the parent and there is no court order of custody then either parent is legally able to take the child. Pretty extreme route to go through, but in cases where you fear abuse or were the primary caregiver previously then this seems reasonable enough until you organise custody.
Essentially on that matter as far as I feel is if you weren't the one looking after and spending time with your child then there is no reason you should get custody, unless the other parent is abusive or has another reason they're an unfit parent/less fit than you would be. And so it's a good thing the law works out that way too. But talking about bias, it really does amaze me how it is "common knowledge" that women get preferential treatment in court. I'm actually reading up about this, and it's interesting because it's women too who believe they'll automatically get custody as men believe they'll lose it. I have been reading a bunch of cases where the father wasn't working and the mother was and she's shocked that she doesn't get primary custody and has to pay child support. It's just not the case that the woman will be favoured, the courts may be sympathetic to women but at the end of the day they judge by who is the primary caregiver, who has the most time to give and also who's the most vulnerable.

I definitely agree that socially we need to change, at least the way the media portrays men and women. I am fed up with seeing stay at home dads described as "unemployed", while women with careers in the workforce are described as being forced to work long hours. Now I do understand if the person who stays at home isn't doing housework, cooking or caring for the children then I would describe them as unemployed, but if they are doing those things then they are playing an essential role in raising the children and housekeeping. Women need to stop growing up expecting their partner will have the career and they'll be able to stop working (or even if they do work they'll still be the primary caregiver) as much as men need to not assume they will be the breadwinner and the woman will raise the children and keep house. The most logical answer is for both parents to work and share housework and spend equal time with the children so they are both equal, but if one person wants to work lots and the other wants to spend lots of time with the children and keeping house then there's no reason that shouldn't work, and in that case both should be treated equally. But the working person shouldn't expect primary custody in a divorce and should expect they'll be paying for child support.

Honestly, I can't think of many male issues that can't also be related to issues I face as a woman. Even right down to the guys who are pissed that it's hard to get laid and believe women have all the power, but then call women sluts and shame them for having sex, or are the first to victim blame in rape cases. Maybe if they stopped punishing us for doing what they say they want we'd be easier to sleep with! Some women are very guilty of these things too, though funnily enough in my experience while girls can be bitchy, men have been the worst for slut shaming to the point of bullying. I don't know, just seems like logic to me.
As far as men's rights go I am a big supporter and believe they are as part of me being a feminist as women's right's, so long as they are actual social injustices and aren't well, whining. Which I don't have any respect for women doing either, like the feminist branch that focuses on changing "male" language. Like seriously, get a life, there are actually serious issues going on, who gives a fuck about a few words unless they're directly insulting towards a gender? I am also not keen on anyone who makes something a competition between the sexes and try to alter data to fit their beliefs. People do this all the time and it drives me crazy! Whether about politics or gender discrimination, as soon as you start fucking with data or ignore key factors to suit your point you lose any credibility IMO. I think for anyone to try and pretend domestic violence is as serious a threat for men (or more so) as it is for women is just insulting to those who suffer from domestic violence. That's not anything to do with me being female, I would say the same if a white person in a white area tried to say they are at as much risk of racial discrimination as a black person. White people do face racial discrimination of course, but not to the same level. It's completely insensitive and I haven't heard a decent person ever claiming such. Talking about statistics and data should be about raising awareness, not as a dick measuring competition.

Hmmm... I hope some of that made sense. Sorry I made lots of points in one post.
 
Women need to stop growing up expecting their partner will have the career and they'll be able to stop working (or even if they do work they'll still be the primary caregiver) as much as men need to not assume they will be the breadwinner and the woman will raise the children and keep house. The most logical answer is for both parents to work and share housework and spend equal time with the children so they are both equal, but if one person wants to work lots and the other wants to spend lots of time with the children and keeping house then there's no reason that shouldn't work, and in that case both should be treated equally. But the working person shouldn't expect primary custody in a divorce and should expect they'll be paying for child support.
This is some seriously outdated stuff in my area. I can think of one -- one -- family member who was a full time stay at home mother out of all the friends/family I have known (other than short periods for pregnancy, first year childcare...).

edit: from my generation that is. my parents generation adds a couple
 
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, it's also common belief that men will be discriminated against if they do report it.
It is not a common belief. It is a fact.

I had a friend who worked in law enforcement. This one incident made him rage. This man was rapped and when he reported it the police laughed at him and didn't take him seriously. When he was going into his traumatic experience, they were laughing and scoffing. You see young boys who report being sexually assaulted by female perpetrators, the public would shame him saying he wanted it and other crap.

Men may experience discrimination in some form if they report their rape and is honest about their experience.
 
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Imagine whats its like for adult males who are victims of female on male rape.
Where do you stand on feminism now Guy?

edit: I don't mind if you WTF?! my post, but I hope you answer. Genuinely curious. Wasn't digging at you.
 
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How is acknowledging male rape victims anti-feminism?
No, I am just asking where you stand on feminism.

I'm not sure where you come down on it, some things I have read sounds like you in favor, other times not. Probably confusing to quote you there, my question actually had nothing with rape.
 
No, I am just asking where you stand on feminism.

I'm not sure where you come down on it, some things I have read sounds like you in favor, other times not. Probably confusing to quote you there, my question actually had nothing with rape.
I believe in liberal feminism. I dont believe in radical feminism.
 
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I believe in liberal feminism. I dont believe in radical feminism.
I am not sure where to draw the line.

Watched and read a lot last couple of months. Truly disturbing. Looks like we've got a dangerous cult on our hands.

Been reading and watching a lot of videos last couple of months. I like this one.

 
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I am not sure where to draw the line.

Watched and read a lot last couple of months. Truly disturbing. Looks like we've got a dangerous cult on our hands.

Been reading and watching a lot of videos last couple of months. I like this one.




This man really really doesn't like Anita Sarkeesean it seems like. lol



I am a human who doesn't believe in ideologies. I don't even like calling myself an anti-feminist. Because I'm not against feminism when needed. I just believe a lot of women are bitching about 1st world problems. When there are women out there actually being oppressed. I can't take anyone seriously who screams more women in STEM fields when they majored in gender study. I still don't understand what the patriarchy is. I feel like feminism hurts women's confidence because it tells them that they are being held back by society. When they should be told they can and be whatever they want with hard work.

I am not a fan of excuses. I am someone who believes in opportunity and choices. Maybe it's because the way I was raised? Maybe it was watching my mother go from dancing to climbing the corporate latter with her hard work and determination. I believe feminism is now used in Western societies a crutch to complain instead of fixing things.


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This man really really doesn't like Anita Sarkeesean it seems like. lol

Had no idea who she was until recently. Then again, I pretty much rolled my eyes at the whole gamergate thing and tuned it out.
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I was going to send a bunch of these to the women of Syria to help them speak out against being non-consensually gassed and blowed to smithereens by god-only-knows-who. Then I remembered they don't have any walls left to put them up on, and I was sad. :(
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I agree.
 
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@AudriTwo and @justjoinedtopost Anita Sarkeesian is a radical feminist and is very anti sex work.





I'm aware who she is. She went to the UN with Zoe Quinn to cry harassment, when most of the "harassment" they receive is criticism. I don't deny they were trolled and received some disturbing threats by crazies. Also with the whole gamergate. It's seriously about ethics in video game journalism. Even though I can care less when two people do, but if they are sleeping with the people who are giving their game they created positive reviews, that's a conflict of interest.

But Anita doesn't play video games. She has admitted in the past that she doesn't play them because they do not interest her. Which is fine.

 
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I'm aware who she is. She went to the UN with Zoe Quinn to cry harassment, when most of the "harassment" they receive is criticism. I don't deny they were trolled and received some disturbing threats by crazies. Also with the whole gamergate. It's seriously about ethics in video game journalism. Even though I can care less when two people do, but if they are sleeping with the people who are giving their game they created positive reviews, that's a conflict of interest.

But Anita doesn't play video games. She has admitted in the past that she doesn't play them because they do not interest her. Which is fine.


Why is it that the media has overlooked the fact that she is a radical feminist? They treat her like shes a liberal feminist and turn a blind eye to her extreme views on sexuality in video games.
 
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I'm aware who she is. She went to the UN with Zoe Quinn to cry harassment, when most of the "harassment" they receive is criticism. I don't deny they were trolled and received some disturbing threats by crazies. Also with the whole gamergate. It's seriously about ethics in video game journalism. Even though I can care less when two people do, but if they are sleeping with the people who are giving their game they created positive reviews, that's a conflict of interest.

But Anita doesn't play video games. She has admitted in the past that she doesn't play them because they do not interest her. Which is fine.



It was more than criticism there were death threats made and I believe she or zoe got a SWAT call as one point. Having actually received a death threat myself I can tell you it's a lot different in 1st person than from the outside in. The police are usually helpless, you start to be suspicious of everyone random around you. I would remote start my car for months because I honest was worried it would be tampered with. I was happy when the situation was finally resolved and when I found out what the person that made the threat was actually trying to do my worried felt justified which is the shame in all of it.

That said Anita and Zoe made a business out of controversy and with youtube and internet it's a growing and money making industry. A small complain here and there and you feel like something you enjoy is suffering the death of a thousand cuts.

The one issue I think Anita had actually found wasn't her issues on sexism in video games but how younger generations can't deal with challenges to their way of thinking. I remember walking past one of those, "The is coming" prophets on the way to classes in 1999. You could walk past them day in and out. I feel now those same people would be physically beaten by people because the thought of counter logic "hurts" them in some way. This "triggering" and "safe space" is just further evolution of this inability to digest alternate ideas or feel personally threatened by them.

I can stand next to a guy telling me that Hitler was my best friend and not want to come to blows with them but I don't think many younger people can or rather they think that violence is the ultimate demonstration of their commitment to their way of thinking.
 
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