Territorial regular

[SMuser69]

So I decided to give MFC another try and after dealing with that stupid search finally found a RP model that's pretty good. Except she has a regular that keeps messaging annoying things when I take her "private too long". I figured it was just some room banter but this is week 2 of this. Now this guy is a paying regular for her before I showed up but I'm just about to walk away because it's annoying. I'm pretty sure she doesn't know about what he's doing because she seem confused why people don't stay in her room.

Is this a MFC support issue to fix or do I bring it up to the model? or is there something I can do to reduce the irritation of it?

 

[Yarrow]

You could always just put him on 'Ignore' and you'll never see another message or comment from him.

Personally, I would want to know if someone was doing that to members in my room, but it would more than likely have to come from someone who has been a reg for a long time -- I might think a newer member is just trying to start drama.

 

[AnneDVille]

I would tell the model. This dude is basically trying to affect her income negatively and that's not cool.

And yeah, put him on ignore so you won't have to deal with him again..

That's just weird man...

 

[SMuser69]

I would tell the model. This dude is basically trying to affect her income negatively and that's not cool.

And yeah, put him on ignore so you won't have to deal with him again..

That's just weird man...

He getting upset because I take her private instead of putting into the room goal. I'm used to SM where you take someone private and she's fine with it. Anyways apparently he's her high tipper for over a year so he gets to do what he wants. She agreed to switch me to tokens for skype instead so it should be a non issue now hopefully

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Right click on his name. Look for ignore user. While you're there, make some notes on the douche so you remember why you have him on ignore.




Then if you want to prevent him from even leaving a message on your profile. Go to Edit Profile in the menu on the homepage. Then click Profile Settings and click the Block Users tab. Add him there as well.




You should only ever have to get one single idiotic asshat private message from anyone on mfc. Then you can feel free to do those things. And if you get too many of them or just don't want to be bothered in the first place, change your privacy options. Main menu hit Personal Options. Under the Chat/PM section you'll see Privacy Options. Uncheck all but Models and Friends, or less if you want. You'll never see a PM from anyone you haven't specifically added as a friend.



As for the model. I'd tell her. If he's annoying you, he's annoying others. And that means money out of her pocket. Fairly certain she'd want to know.

 

[dilligaf0]

He getting upset because I take her private instead of putting into the room goal. I'm used to SM where you take someone private and she's fine with it. Anyways apparently he's her high tipper for over a year so he gets to do what he wants. She agreed to switch me to tokens for skype instead so it should be a non issue now hopefully

I think you should tell the model that it bothers you.
The model always has the option to deny a private if they wish.
Finding a balance is up to her.
She can always mute his messages during the private.

 

[DonaDiabla]

Personally, I would bring it up to the model and put him on ignore. Sometimes, top spenders get very territorial and try to become the only source of income. So, I would inform her if I was you because he is hurting her income and stopping other clients from spending.

So I decided to give MFC another try and after dealing with that stupid search finally found a RP model that's pretty good. Except she has a regular that keeps messaging annoying things when I take her "private too long". I figured it was just some room banter but this is week 2 of this. Now this guy is a paying regular for her before I showed up but I'm just about to walk away because it's annoying. I'm pretty sure she doesn't know about what he's doing because she seem confused why people don't stay in her room.

Is this a MFC support issue to fix or do I bring it up to the model? or is there something I can do to reduce the irritation of it?

 

[Magnolia]

Absolutely let her know. I had an old regular that was my room helper that scared off a lot of people behind my back for a while. I wish people would have let me know right away instead of letting it go on.

Also, screw room counts if she offers privates and you prefer that.

 

[AriaAnderson]

If she is allowing you to take her private, she appreciates you and enjoys doing them. Don't feel intimidated by this guy, trust your girl to let her tell you if she didn't want to go private.

This dude sounds really controlling and not so nice. If I knew one of my regs was messaging others like this I would be really upset. Definitely agree with everyone else, tell your model and ignore the guy, whether you choose to just not reply or actually put him on ignore.

 

[KiraaQuinn]

I'm on SM, but I would want to know if anyone was messing with the guests in my room. Not cool.

 

[SMuser69]

I'm on SM, but I would want to know if anyone was messing with the guests in my room. Not cool.

This can't happen on SM since members can't PM each other. I never dealt with this till I tried MFC again.

Just to update everyone. After the last session I had with her I mentioned the guy to her. Turns out it's not her high tipper but actually her SO and was so pissed I was accusing him of things she banned me. If I kept my mouth shut about it everything would had been fine. Well at least I didn't go too far down the rabbit hole with her before I found this level of crazy.

tl;dr being helpful backfired.

 

[AliceoftheSKY]

This can't happen on SM since members can't PM each other. I never dealt with this till I tried MFC again.

Just to update everyone. After the last session I had with her I mentioned the guy to her. Turns out it's not her high tipper but actually her SO and was so pissed I was accusing him of things she banned me. If I kept my mouth shut about it everything would had been fine. Well at least I didn't go too far down the rabbit hole with her before I found this level of crazy.

tl;dr being helpful backfired.

Probably for the best. Sorry that happened.

 

[ExcellaExe]

This can't happen on SM since members can't PM each other. I never dealt with this till I tried MFC again.

Just to update everyone. After the last session I had with her I mentioned the guy to her. Turns out it's not her high tipper but actually her SO and was so pissed I was accusing him of things she banned me. If I kept my mouth shut about it everything would had been fine. Well at least I didn't go too far down the rabbit hole with her before I found this level of crazy.

tl;dr being helpful backfired.

I think they need to have a serious talk about how comfortable he actually is with her camming-- that has nothing to do with you as a member and everything to do with them.

 

[AmberCutie]

This can't happen on SM since members can't PM each other. I never dealt with this till I tried MFC again.

Just to update everyone. After the last session I had with her I mentioned the guy to her. Turns out it's not her high tipper but actually her SO and was so pissed I was accusing him of things she banned me. If I kept my mouth shut about it everything would had been fine. Well at least I didn't go too far down the rabbit hole with her before I found this level of crazy.

tl;dr being helpful backfired.

Holy crapola, that's stupid. He should not be involved to that extent in her cam sessions. Husbands who can't control their jealousy should not use their premium account in their wife's room.

And shame on her for running her room this way. Glad you got out of there so you can find a better more professional and friendly cam girl to spend time/money with.

 

[SMuser69]

Holy crapola, that's stupid. He should not be involved to that extent in her cam sessions. Husbands who can't control their jealousy should not use their premium account in their wife's room.

And shame on her for running her room this way. Glad you got out of there so you can find a better more professional and friendly cam girl to spend time/money with.

He wasn't being jealous he was pushing this, "pay into the goal" mentality instead of me taking her pvt. Basically aggressively pimping her through PM then also PM me how long pvts were disrupting the room even though it was her choice to take them and to be frank only 3 or 4 including himself in the room to begin with. He would complain about long pvts the moment I appeared in the room and I was getting 10 PMs from him about what I SHOULD be doing in her room in a 20min period.

If he doing this to purposely sabotage her room it's pretty diabolical of a plan. I think they simply both don't know how toxic this behavior can be taken by people. Her overreaction to a ban was the real surprise in all of it. Never been banned by a model anywhere in years of using sites.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Maybe send her a link to this thread. It'll likely burn your bridges with her but seeing other models comments on how counter-productive her SO's involvement in her camming is might at least lead her to question things and talk to him about it.

 

[SMuser69]

Maybe send her a link to this thread. It'll likely burn your bridges with her but seeing other models comments on how counter-productive her SO's involvement in her camming is might at least lead her to question things and talk to him about it.

I try to stay pretty drama free. I'm no white knight and definitely have no need to help someone that has already overreacted once. She'll figure it out herself or maybe she won't but it's on her.

I'll put my energies to use on the next model I can find.

 

[KiraaQuinn]

WOW. I honestly think you dodged a bullet there. That's a really odd dynamic, I wonder if they realize how much of a turnoff that is? Either way, sounds like there's some type of deeper issues there whether her SO is jealous or not.

 

[AudriTwo]

I try to stay pretty drama free. I'm no white knight and definitely have no need to help someone that has already overreacted once. She'll figure it out herself or maybe she won't but it's on her.

I'll put my energies to use on the next model I can find.

That's the spirit! I'm sorry some possessive SO has ruined your experience with a model. What a douche nozzle. If my husband EVER did that, I would kill him. He sometimes hangs out in my room with a member account and help push goldshows or give me someone to talk to. But if he acted like a pimp, he would be dead in a ditch.

Like fuck, why does it matter if you aren't putting it into the total room goal? SHE IS STILL GETTING PAID. That's like if my husband got pissed at me because I canceled a gold show for a 15 minute block exclusive. He is going to be the reason she fails at being a cammodel.

 

[Influenced]

He getting upset

Um, who cares if he gets upset? *shrug*

 

[SaffronBurke]

Basically aggressively pimping her through PM then also PM me how long pvts were disrupting the room even though it was her choice to take them

While it's true that on a token site, a private can be detrimental to the countdown, that's something that should only be said by the model herself, and she can not only reject the request, she can turn the option for privates off if she doesn't want to do them.

I tend to ponder all options, and maybe she genuinely wants to focus on her countdown, but for whatever reason doesn't want to be the one telling people not to take her private (maybe she thinks declining them is rude, Idk, people have unique views on what's weird), and thought it be nicer coming from another member. Of course, that just ends up being the equivalent of some random popping in with "show feet bb" and a reg hopping down the random's throat with "tip!" or "no feet!" It's very off-putting to others in the room, and can deter potential customers.

 

[AriaAnderson]

Holy poop.

Three possible reasons:

-they're in on it together and she either hates privates and didn't have the balls to tell you so she made her SO say something and then banned you quickly bc that's how much she hates privates (this would be way dumb)

-they're in on it together and they're trying to tag team you to take her private and tip towards the count. (fuckin ruthless, man) and then probably banned you in hopes you tip to get back in her good graces (double ruthless) (i think this is most likely)

-she legit had no idea, doesn't believe you, is being hardcore manipulated by her SO and banned to keep the wool over her eyes that her boyfriend is controlling to the point of being abusive (damn)


You seem like a positive guy. You'll find another cam girl who is cool and you get along with that won't have drama like this.

 

[fandango]

What a boatload of crazy. Lucky you at least got out before you'd spent any more on her.

Just out of curiosity, without naming any names what kind of camscore range was she in? If she's got a pretty low one and unless she's new theres a very good chance her SO has run off lots of other members too.

 

[morethancorn]

Sounds like a lot of crazy :O Maybe she needs to find a new job.

 

[goldmouthbitch]

Dude, tell the model. Number 1 hes fucking with her money. and thats like fucking with her heart. And number 2 hes being a fucking creep dawg, nip that shit in the bud for her.

 

[NickiYoung]

I'm a new model but if this was happening I would want to know for sure, but sounds like stress you don't need there is already enough of that