Sub slave struggle

[slave4women69]

Hello guys
Its kinda my first post here .. im kinda shy about what im going to write but this is the only place i can talk freely about my desires without being judged (i hope xD)
Im 25 yo sub slave male living in a 3rd world closed minded country if anyone there knew about my fetish will face alot of problems .. the only place i can be truly who iam is the internet even when i stream i put a mask on out of fear
My problem is i still cant fulfil my desires .. im straight sub and most of my followers are male and i dont know any good sites to find a mistress online !
So please if u have any recommandations for me i will be so geatfull

 

[BiancaBaker]

IWANTCLIPS or Clips4sale would be your best bet to find a Domme.

I have been a Pro Domme (meaning I do in person sessions) for 4 years now and producing content for 6 years now (I produce femdom and fetish content). Most of us who do this don't just take on slave's. You should be prepared to fill out a slave application, tribute and be able to please your Mistress/Goddess for her to accept you. I am pretty damn picky because a lot of sub's want a ton of attention for no money. I think a great Domme is picky about who they decide to take on. A D/S relationship is an actual relationship and I feel as a successful Domme I wouldn't just accept someone if I didn't feel like we were a good match.

 

[mynameisbob84]

I could be way off, but isn't Fetlife pretty much Tinder for kinksters?

 

[slave4women69]

IWANTCLIPS or Clips4sale would be your best bet to find a Domme.

I have been a Pro Domme (meaning I do in person sessions) for 4 years now and producing content for 6 years now (I produce femdom and fetish content). Most of us who do this don't just take on slave's. You should be prepared to fill out a slave application, tribute and be able to please your Mistress/Goddess for her to accept you. I am pretty damn picky because a lot of sub's want a ton of attention for no money. I think a great Domme is picky about who they decide to take on. A D/S relationship is an actual relationship and I feel as a successful Domme I wouldn't just accept someone if I didn't feel like we were a good match.

Thats really informative replay .. thank u alot for taking a part of ur time to answer me

 

[slave4women69]

I could be way off, but isn't Fetlife pretty much Tinder for kinksters?

Gotta try this xD thanks

 

[Mintx]

Fetlife is not a dating site- a lot of people (especially those who identify as female) are not on there to meet up, hook up, or for online play. If you find someone, awesome, but it isn't like tinder where you can log on and find a quick leather studded belt with your name on it. You have to put in a lot of work and should remain aware and respectful that not every Domme is on there just to get yours and hers rocks off.

 

[Emberblaze]

John Baku the creator of fetlife maintains it is NOT meant to be a dating site but a kinky social networking site.

 

[slave4women69]

Fetlife is not a dating site- a lot of people (especially those who identify as female) are not on there to meet up, hook up, or for online play. If you find someone, awesome, but it isn't like tinder where you can log on and find a quick leather studded belt with your name on it. You have to put in a lot of work and should remain aware and respectful that not every Domme is on there just to get yours and hers rocks off.

after 12h on it i can totally agree lol

 

[CoffeeKnight]

after 12h on it i can totally agree lol

Just an assumption on my part, but it might be better in the long run for you if it isn't a dating site. As a social media, it might help you discover more of the fetish scene in your region. Connecting with other people in the lifestyle might help you find more fulfillment than just contracting a Domme. Same goes for any other message board or site that could give you access to the global community from your region.

Good luck in your search.

 

[slave4women69]

Just an assumption on my part, but it might be better in the long run for you if it isn't a dating site. As a social media, it might help you discover more of the fetish scene in your region. Connecting with other people in the lifestyle might help you find more fulfillment than just contracting a Domme. Same goes for any other message board or site that could give you access to the global community from your region.

Good luck in your search.

thank u for ur advice gone keep it in mind

 

[slave4women69]

thank u guys so much for such love u showed me