'Sexy Baby' Documentary

[Bocefish]

In today's digital age of body imagery... I can imagine it's even more difficult as a young woman growing up with all the pressures around. On a personal note, I really wish labiaplasty was only available as an option to relieve discomfort until a woman is at least 21. :twocents-02cents:

Another short vid about the girls discussing porn: http://abcnews.go.com/Health/video/sexy ... n-17491354

What say you?



Sexy Baby is the first documentary film to put faces to a seismic cultural shift: the cyber age is creating a new sexual landscape. While doing research for the film, we had intimate and candid conversations with kids in middle school classrooms, suburban shopping malls, nightclubs, college dorms, and even conducted an informal roundtable during a high school house party. While chronicling trends among small town and big city kids, we discovered this: Having pubic hair is considered unattractive and "gross." Most youngsters know someone who has emailed or texted a naked photo of themselves. Many kids have accidentally or intentionally had their first introduction to sex be via hardcore online porn. Facebook has created an arena where kids compete to be "liked" and constantly worry about what image to portray -- much of what was once private is now made public. And the list goes on. A FilmBuff Presentation. MPAA Rating: NOT RATED

 

[Jupiter551]

I'm slighty over the "kids are having sex younger and younger" media trip that's been going on for...well my entire life. It's not that I don't think it's true so much as I don't really give a fuck

 

[inkydoo]

I'm slighty over the "kids are having sex younger and younger" media trip that's been going on for...well my entire life. It's not that I don't think it's true so much as I don't really give a fuck

I'm very over it, mostly because I don't buy that it's true. It's part of a repeated cycle in which every generation thinks (usually wrongly) that the next generation is doing things previous generations never did. While previous generations obviously didn't engage in sexting or posting semi- to outright-sexual pictures on facebook, previous generations still explored and tested the limits of their burgeoning sexuality with the avenues available to them. Polaroids were the facebook of the 70s, and Dad's dirty magazines (or your friends' dads' dirty magazines) were the Internet porn for several decades, followed by VHS porn. Phone sex is pretty much the direct ancestor of sexting.

There was a time when it wasn't unusual for a girl/woman to be a wife and mother by her mid-teens, and I'm assuming they got that way from having sex. What might be different now is that the young woman has more choice in when that happens and with whom than 200 years ago, which undoubtedly changes the dynamic of sex among minors, but I don't see any compelling evidence that it's just strictly that they're getting it on at a younger and younger age.

I also don't buy the "accidental" exposure to hardcore porn (whatever that means). I've been on the Internet long enough to remember when the main source of porn was Usenet newsgroups, and in all that time I've never accidentally come across hardcore porn. It just smacks too much of the Husband caught by his wife (or son caught by his mom) who tries to explain how he was just googling for some innocuous terms, and up popped interracial, midget, albino, gay, breath play, double penetration videos. Riiight...

I agree that there are some demonstrable changes with regard to sexuality in modern generations: earlier puberty and menarche in first-world countries seems pretty well documented; porn becoming more stylized, produced, and frankly unrealistic; at the same time, increased production of amateur porn, which is less stylized and more realistic. These and a lot of other things have meaningful impacts on the sexual landscape that kids grow up in these days, but it doesn't seem to me to be, as the Who would have put it, the teenage wasteland that modern media would have you believe.

 

[Red7227]

I remember that someone went around and did a survey of grandmothers, back when i was a teenager in the 70s, asking about their first sexual experiences. For them it was playing doctor out in the hay shed with the boy up the road.

 

[TashaDutch]

I also don't buy the "accidental" exposure to hardcore porn (whatever that means). I've been on the Internet long enough to remember when the main source of porn was Usenet newsgroups, and in all that time I've never accidentally come across hardcore porn.

i recently ran across an accidental very hardcore porn google search when i was googling something.. but i doubt the search term i used would be something an 11 year old would be able to think of..
(was curious if orgasms could cause some sort of brain damage, and came across pretty disturbing video's, my answer was never answered either... boo!)
assuming the world changes pretty much in the same way it does right now.. i'm sure all older generations would demonize everything the youngsters do..
sometimes i think its some weird kinda jalousy.. maybe the older generation would have wanted their world to be open-minded and adventurous like it seems now

i remember seeing an american documentry a few weeks ago, about how everyone thinks that violance and crimes have never been this high, and the guy explained it has never been so low, they just didn't have all the media covering the horror back in those days..
thats kinda like this.. i think the exposure just gone up, not necessarly the things we do..

 

[KinseyStar]

Orgasms definitely don't cause brain damage. You're going to find a lot more research that says how helpful they are to brain functioning.

 

[LadyLuna]

I also don't buy the "accidental" exposure to hardcore porn (whatever that means). I've been on the Internet long enough to remember when the main source of porn was Usenet newsgroups, and in all that time I've never accidentally come across hardcore porn.

Um... when I was fifteen, I googled "girl scout songs" and got an eyeful. I wanted the lyrics to some girl scout songs, not pictures of a "girl scout" named Song getting double-fisted around a campfire!

I tried campfire songs, and girl scout song lyrics, and all of that revealed these racy images I never wanted to see. Finally someone hinted at me to type in some lyrics with the word lyrics after it. I still ended up with some racy photos, but mostly was able to find the lyrics I was looking for.

 

[Jupiter551]

Um... when I was fifteen, I googled "girl scout songs" and got an eyeful. I wanted the lyrics to some girl scout songs, not pictures of a "girl scout" named Song getting double-fisted around a campfire!

Hey those cookies won't sell themselves :whistle:

 

[LindseyDoll]

I also don't buy the "accidental" exposure to hardcore porn (whatever that means). I've been on the Internet long enough to remember when the main source of porn was Usenet newsgroups, and in all that time I've never accidentally come across hardcore porn.

Um... when I was fifteen, I googled "girl scout songs" and got an eyeful. I wanted the lyrics to some girl scout songs, not pictures of a "girl scout" named Song getting double-fisted around a campfire!

I tried campfire songs, and girl scout song lyrics, and all of that revealed these racy images I never wanted to see. Finally someone hinted at me to type in some lyrics with the word lyrics after it. I still ended up with some racy photos, but mostly was able to find the lyrics I was looking for.

I was doing an assignment on the solar system and searched "venis" in google image search so I could include a picture. That was my introduction to porn

 

[AshleyMarks]

I watched the documentary and at some points it was emotional for me. I enjoyed it. I will say that the means of which a teenager communicates with their peers and discovers things has changed quite a bit. The internet is a very helpful, but awkward and scary place at times. Yes, you can find pornographic results from a non-pornographic descriptive word without safesearch turned on. I was purposely trying to watch porn on Playboy when I was around 15, so yes, it can be purposeful, but not always. There are definitely a lot more provocative pictures being posted by teens and adolescents in these current times. The only one who can protect them are the parents, and even that sometimes is not enough. I even tried finding ways around it when I was a teen. The 12 year old girl in the documentary had her FB priveleges taken away 8 times in a small amount of time for posting pics that were a bit too revealing. I won't say much more, because I don't want to ruin the film for the rest of you, but it is emotional and eyecatching. It shows the reality of teens and cyberspace effectively and I will be buying it when I get the money to. I did a rental on Amazon for $3.99 for 3 days. If anyone is interested, my opinion is that it is decent and worth the small amount of money.
:-D

 

[inkydoo]

Orgasms definitely don't cause brain damage. You're going to find a lot more research that says how helpful they are to brain functioning.

Orgams might not, but the physical strain on the body during sex, particularly the constriction of blood vessels and increased blood pressure probably presents some increased risk for a vascular injury in various parts of the body, including the brain (like stroke or anuerysm).

Also, if your orgasm is of the auto-erotic asphixiation variety, then yes, that could cause brain damage.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

I also don't buy the "accidental" exposure to hardcore porn (whatever that means). I've been on the Internet long enough to remember when the main source of porn was Usenet newsgroups, and in all that time I've never accidentally come across hardcore porn. It just smacks too much of the Husband caught by his wife (or son caught by his mom) who tries to explain how he was just googling for some innocuous terms, and up popped interracial, midget, albino, gay, breath play, double penetration videos. Riiight...

I agree that there are some demonstrable changes with regard to sexuality in modern generations: earlier puberty and menarche in first-world countries seems pretty well documented; porn becoming more stylized, produced, and frankly unrealistic; at the same time, increased production of amateur porn, which is less stylized and more realistic. These and a lot of other things have meaningful impacts on the sexual landscape that kids grow up in these days, but it doesn't seem to me to be, as the Who would have put it, the teenage wasteland that modern media would have you believe.

I'm old enough to remember the Usenet days also. I think it is really important to understand the internet has changed dramatically since then. You truly had to search our porn in those days. Now days it finds you, no matter what you do and if I kid does stumble upon porn and than starts look than the cookie crumb trail that he/she leaves will almost certainly cause more porn to find a way to their eyeball. I was cleaning out my 86 year old mom's inbox plenty of porn was in their and now searching on her part was required.

 

[Jupiter551]

I was cleaning out my 86 year old mom's inbox plenty of porn was in their and now searching on her part was required.

I don't want to mess up your head here but I only get porn spam in the email addresses I use to sign up to porn stuff lol

 

[inkydoo]

I'm old enough to remember the Usenet days also. I think it is really important to understand the internet has changed dramatically since then. You truly had to search our porn in those days. Now days it finds you, no matter what you do and if I kid does stumble upon porn and than starts look than the cookie crumb trail that he/she leaves will almost certainly cause more porn to find a way to their eyeball. I was cleaning out my 86 year old mom's inbox plenty of porn was in their and now searching on her part was required.

My point in mentioning Usenet was not to suggest that that was the last time I searched for porn, and I realize the internet has changed since then. And while I will grant that porn, particularly the explicit video kind, is vastly more prevalent online these days, I'm not convinced of your proposition that it's much easier to stumble onto. For instance, googling right now for the terms that several in this thread mention as how they once stumbled upon hardcore yields no such current results within the first several pages (with SafeSearch off). "Venis" does come up with an Urban Dictionary definition as the first hit, but it's no more pornographic that the dictionary definition of vagina or penis. Admittedly, a Google Image search for "venis" does reveal one picture of a nude woman with legs spread on "page 6" (though that goes away if SafeSearch is set to even moderate), but someone intending to search for "venus" probably would have realized their mistake well before scrolling down that far. "girl scout songs" doesn't give any such results through several pages of hits that I went through (though it does return a lot of hits about girl scout songs, so someone searching for that wouldn't need to look much further).

So, totally anecdotal, and only two examples, but if both those terms led to accidental porn exposure in the past and don't anymore, that tells me it's harder to stumble on now.

Also, if a kid accidentally stumbles over some porn and then follows that trail, their exposure is no longer accidental. That's like saying that a kid who brushes their genitals and notices that it feels vaguely pleasant, but then masturbates to orgasm, has accidentally cum. They may have discovered the pleasure of masturbation by accident, but the orgasm was the result of a deliberate action on their part.

 

[FrenchKitty]

Orgasms definitely don't cause brain damage. You're going to find a lot more research that says how helpful they are to brain functioning.

Orgams might not, but the physical strain on the body during sex, particularly the constriction of blood vessels and increased blood pressure probably presents some increased risk for a vascular injury in various parts of the body, including the brain (like stroke or anuerysm).

Also, if your orgasm is of the auto-erotic asphixiation variety, then yes, that could cause brain damage.

Also, if you're prone to seizures, you could get one during orgasm.

 

[Jupiter551]

Orgasms definitely don't cause brain damage. You're going to find a lot more research that says how helpful they are to brain functioning.

Orgams might not, but the physical strain on the body during sex, particularly the constriction of blood vessels and increased blood pressure probably presents some increased risk for a vascular injury in various parts of the body, including the brain (like stroke or anuerysm).

Also, if your orgasm is of the auto-erotic asphixiation variety, then yes, that could cause brain damage.

Also, if you're prone to seizures, you could get one during orgasm.

you could also bonk your head against the floor as you fall off your chair!

 

[FrenchKitty]

Orgasms definitely don't cause brain damage. You're going to find a lot more research that says how helpful they are to brain functioning.

Orgams might not, but the physical strain on the body during sex, particularly the constriction of blood vessels and increased blood pressure probably presents some increased risk for a vascular injury in various parts of the body, including the brain (like stroke or anuerysm).

Also, if your orgasm is of the auto-erotic asphixiation variety, then yes, that could cause brain damage.

Also, if you're prone to seizures, you could get one during orgasm.

you could also bonk your head against the floor as you fall off your chair!

yes, or you could bang your skull against the wall while up-against-the-walling.

 

[Jupiter551]

yes, or you could bang your skull against the wall while up-against-the-walling.

very true! you could also be getting skullfucked by a fuckmachine and suddenly it goes haywire (as you orgasm) and punches through your frontal lobe!

 

[Rose]

:lol: What this thread has devolved into.

This is why I prefer having sex on the carpeted floor, preferably with lots of pillows and blankets underneath. Of course, you can never be too safe so maybe I should just start wearing a helmet whenever sexy times are on the horizon.

 

[LadyLuna]

I've had it where, on the bed, with the pillows against the wall, still managing to hit my head on the wall repeatedly, just above the pillow.

People don't believe that I'm a clutz, but it sometimes seems like my body delights in finding ways to make me hurt.

 

[FrenchKitty]

yes, or you could bang your skull against the wall while up-against-the-walling.

very true! you could also be getting skullfucked by a fuckmachine and suddenly it goes haywire (as you orgasm) and punches through your frontal lobe!

That's completely possible. Also you could deepthroat someone, and get a eplileptic episode causing your jaw muscles to clench, biting hard into the penis, and then the penis' owner takes a bat to your skull to have you let go of his member.